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Archived questions from: 16 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he just playing around with me while waiting for someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

16 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't had a relationship in four years, and my last one started very fast, so I think I'm a little lost with my current situation and would love some help. Around mid June, I met this guy online. We exchanged a few messages and met in person soon after. He was a rea... (638 words)

Do all men stare at other women? Is it natural?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

16 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years we are happy we live together and never argue there's just one problem his interest in other women I know all men look but he stares for ages I have told him many times how this upsets me but he just says its because he was ... (71 words)

Why does my boyfriend look in porn for women who look like his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

16 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Why did he tell me he always looked for porn of women who looked like his ex yet when I asked him if he ever did that with me whilst we are apart ( LDR) he said he did only once . It makes me feel very unattractive to him when we can't be together in person and he'd rather look ... (126 words)

His ex had big boobs. I have tiny boobs. What chance is there that I can overcome my insecurities over this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

16 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I just don't know how to feel? My BF and I have an on an off again relationship when we first started I wasn't ready to settle down, yet even though at that time he deserved it. He was so sweet and 100% everything I wanted in a man but I was much younger then and had no ... (452 words)

How can I feel like less of a failure towards my Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

16 October 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - I've been with my S/O for five months now and recently found out that this whole time I haven't made her cum. She took my virginity so I understand that I am not super experienced bUT I can't help to feel useless and like a failure. She says it's not a problem but I kn... (92 words)

Suddenly I've developed Erectile dysfunction. I feel I'm too young to have this happen. What could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

16 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - AUNTS I NEED HELP I'm 22 years old. I shouldn't be suffering this right? I always get a very hard erection anytime anywhere Even very little things can make me hard.. i'm equally attracted to my beautiful girl friend But recently.. at least i have notice that i find ... (195 words)

It sounds to me as if he's attracted to me emotionally, but more attracted to his ex physically. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

16 October 2015 (F)

Do I risk looking rude if I refuse to hug in future? Or do I have to fit in and do something I feel uncomfortable doing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3361 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) age 26-29 - Hi all, I come from an Asian country, where hugging is not common. I will be moving to Europe next year for my studies, and perhaps work there. I've lived there for half a year before. During that period of time, I met many people and they hug so much when they meet/say go... (118 words)

Why he does not stop taking to this girl who is married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

16 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we have a child together. He recently turn 30 and it was very hard for him. I am a year younger than him. He recently met this girl who was not married when he met her she was engaged and was at her bachelorette. ... (282 words)

First time sex, and not wishing to cause my Gf to get pregnant - lots of questions, if you can advise please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

16 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi Cupids, I am a 22 year old and my girlfriend is 21 year old. I need some honest opinion about sex. I live in a more conservative country, Singapore, where we are told to have sex after marriage. Recently, my girlfriend and I have moved on from platonic relationship to... (348 words)