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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get this guy to listen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - More guy troubles/ rant! Let's call his guy M. M and I have been seeing each other for a while now. For a while now, I've been feeling like I'm nothing but a booty call to him. I just want to hang out with him and everytime he initiates sex. Don't get me wrong, the sex is ... (215 words)

Would a one night stand with a divorced man be wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone I've known for years (although he's more of an acquaintance than a friend) recently got a divorce because his wife cheated on him. I've always liked the guy, he is very attractive, and we flirted, but never anything more than that. Well, he recently came to me and w... (266 words)

Would my ex treat me as he did when we were younger?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 October 2015 (F) age - I met up with my first love after he came to me in a dream. I sent him a message via Facebook and said it was nice to see him even if it was just in my dream. He demanded to link with me after over 15 years of not seeing and took me out for dinner. He invited me out a... (324 words)

Do I cut my losses and move on? He keep coming up with excuses why we can't meet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - why do guys do things the way they do , ive been chatting with a guy online for a while and we reached the point to delete our profiles even tho we hadnt met by that stage , weve arranged a few times a date but he keeps coming up with the most pathetic excuses to why we cant ... (258 words)

Was I overreacting by complaining about the frequency of the family friend's visits to our house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hi dearcupids, my parent's closest friend used to come home daily twice, thrice. my uncle (I call my parent's friend as uncle since childhood) is a very nice person, he is like family. he also treats me like his daughter. But as his frequency for coming home increase... (179 words)

I'm humiliated by the reaction to ill-fitting clothes, what should I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a female who's had self-esteem issues for as long as I can remember. It's only been a couple of years that I am starting to get back myself. But something happened that threatens to push me back. I like wearing short clothes. Nothing cheap or vulgar, just stuff which... (215 words)

I surprised him by doing the housework but he reduced me to tears. Is this guy worth being with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. Last night I went over to his house but got there an hour before he did. The house was a mess with dishes and dirty laundry everywhere so I thought as a surprise before he comes home I would clean. (as a sidenote I sprained my ankle 2 ... (589 words)

I don't like lying to my parents but they don't give me much independence

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi Agony Aunts, I am 17 in 3 months and I feel like my parents kind of treat me like a kid. Its like this : Whenever I want to go out, I would tell them where I'm going and tell them who I am with. BUT, they would never let me walk on my own to meet my friend/s. I hope you all ... (544 words)

How do black people find positivity in a world that seems to hate them?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

23 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm black and every week I come across a video or article that commentators summarize as "black people are savage, Africans are worthless and the worst thing on the planet". I want to know how other black people find positivity in a world that hates them and also which sites do ... (57 words)

Do I stay friends with people who sneak around behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

23 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi agony aunts, I recently had two female housemates move in (about 2 months ago) and started hooking up with one of them for a few weeks until she decided it wasn't what she wanted. In this time I had developed some pretty strong feelings for her which I have been trying to ... (182 words)