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female
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41-50,
*licia
writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for nine months now. however with our sex life things have gone from having sex almost every other day to sex only on weekends and sometimes i want to have sex during the week but when i try to touch him or suggest it he ignores me or just moves himself away if he is in bed. but when he wants it during the week when he reaches out to touch me i turn around and we make love. i am finding this very unfair. what do i do? am i just being petty?
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reader, Been there Now over it  +, writes (28 October 2015):
Are your sexual sessions all pretty much alike? Perhaps he is a little bored and looking for some variety in your activities. Has he hinted at something he might want you to wear, a new sex toy, or something else he may want to experience?
Lemmie also has a point. If he has a job with hard manual labor, maybe he is just tired out by the time you go to bed. Or, if he has a stressful job, that can cut down his sexual interest, too.
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reader, Lemmie +, writes (27 October 2015):
Maybe he is just going through a tough time at work. Going through something at work would most likely turn him off from having sex during the week since that would be the most stressful time, unlike the weekend. I wouldn't think too much of it unless it lasts too long. I would definitely ask him about it!
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