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Why did this happen in the classroom?

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Question - (27 October 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2015)
A female Australia age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I was just sitting in class minding my own business and then this boy behind me was calling someone and he's friends with my friend that was sitting next to me and I thought he was calling her so I tapped her and told her he was calling her but then he goes "no you" as in me and I was like "yeh" and he was sitting next to another boy and the boy that called me goes "he thinks your hot" and I was like "omg" quietly like sort of in the go away manner but it wasn't rude. Anyway when I turned around all I hear was them laughing and then the boy that called me said to the other boy "even she knows she's ugly"

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (27 October 2015):

BrownWolf agony aunt

If they call you ugly...say thank you. I rather be ugly than stupid. I may be able to fix my ugly, but you can never fix stupid.

Anyone who make fun of others...they are ones that are truly ugly. Don't even talk to people like, or you may learn to be like them.

Don't get angry at those boys...Boys like that are the ones who go home to meet the only woman they will have for years...their hands. So feel sad for them. You will grow up, get married, have kids, and they will still be looking for a woman.

Why??? Because you can't fix stupid.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2015):

you sound ok and omg is a goodreply.

The boys are being silly.

They want female attention so they make up stupid things to say and do but it will only get onyour nerves as girls tend to mature faster than boys.

It helps if you grew up with brothers.

Then you know the right kind of thing to say that will bring them back down to earth.

Omg is good because it doesnt mean much but the boy was embarressed and to cover it he tried to make a stupid joke so that the two boys could laugh together as if they were great mates and not as the sad female-hungry boys they are.

"In your dreams !" is a usual reply because it implies the boys are secretly dreaming over you but will never get it.

"You are butt stupid!" is also another put down to make em squirm because immature boys are still embarressed by their asses..or your booty.

They want what they cant have and that is you.

So hold your head high and kill em with the no as a rather famous song suggests.

They are too immature and only good for football and fooling around.

Preserve yourself for someone a bit smarter and not so painfully silly.

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A female reader, Slippers  United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2015):

You need to be on your toes here .. They wanted to humiliate you .. so you need to prep .. at high school I didn't think I was pretty lol I had a brace and was lanky .. anyway boys would do similar with me .. so I had to prep myself ..

Sit in front of a mirror and look yourself up and down in disdain. . " you were wanting me, then do the up and down look , Yeh in your fantasie"

Now he may say .. your ugly as he did .. your reply .. is I can see those beautiful tablets at working for you yet .

If he continues to jibe ..say look I will bloom .. guys just die.. This for you is the best you will get ..

I found having a come back .. made them not mess haha.. and yes I did bloom and I got a real good looking ....kind and sincere man . So take what they say with a shrug of your shoulders .. and don't let them mess with your head ..

Take care sweetie

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