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writes:i am going to marry after 5months and i want to hide that i m not virgin from my husband Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (27 October 2015):
Lying, especially to some-one you’re about to make a lifelong commitment to is not a good idea and you don’t explain your reasons for doing so, but if you really must, there is no way to prove that a woman is not a virgin. It’s sometimes assumed, incorrectly, that a broken hymen is proof that a woman has lost her virginity but this is in fact not true: it can often be broken by other means including mild trauma. This means that if you say you’re a virgin, no evidence can prove to the contrary. Whether he believes you is, of course, another matter and that’s why it would be much better if you knew that he still wanted to marry you with knowledge of the truth.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, BloggerChick +, writes (27 October 2015):
 You don't want to be starting your relationship on such a lie. Just be honest with him and if this marriage is meant to be then it will be. This is pretty cheesy but maybe he'll ignore that he's not the first person you have sex with, but that he'll be the last. That's equally as important :)
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