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Archived questions from: 28 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why can't people just accept not everyone wants children?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 2 years and have no children because we chose not to have any- we are both very happy with our lives and children are not for us. My cousin who got married 8 months after us has just revealed she is expecting her 1st child with h... (321 words)

I want to play the player and give him a dose of his own medicine!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, people! I've got this common yet plaguing issue. I am currently in a long-term relationship with a guy with not-so-good past (well, I too have a horrible past). Some 2 months back, our relationship hit a low phase and for the first time ever, I committed the mistake ... (209 words)

I am the parent to my teen brother - our parents are deceased. My brother is now 14. How do I raise and discuss talking about sex and all that to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

28 October 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - When i was 16 i held my baby brother in my arms and said to dad "god he's small, i'm not baby sitting". Well i think i changed his nappies more times then mum used to. Honestly a few years later when i went off to university my biggest joy coming home was having my little b... (375 words)

He wants our son to meet his new girlfriend. But he's imposing restrictions on our son's contact with my boyfriend. How can I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts and uncles, ive got a question what would you do in this situation. I was with my ex for five years, we had a child together. We got back together but in this time I didn't realise he had met someone else. He had moved away and would come to see us every weekend and... (293 words)

Do I tell my LDR what happened (a date and a kiss) during the period we were apart? Or not mention it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi aunts. In a LDR of nearly a year Had some difficulties, especially of late, leading to us splitting up a few weeks back. I went on a couple of dates with an old friend, ended up kissing him. Spent the evening thinking of my man. Have told the friend I wont be seeing... (128 words)

My ex and I are back in touch. Will getting back with my ex work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3297 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, So, I split with my ex 7 years ago. We'd been together 6 years, not living together or anything but still spending a lot of time together whilst raising my son from a previous marriage as well as his two young sons. We split, my decision, and ultimately I th... (148 words)

Newly single, confused and need help! Does it sound like he has any interest in me outside of friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm newly single and had been in a 10 year relationship since I was 18. I'm the first to admit that I'm not sure what I'm doing when it comes to men as I haven't dated my entire adult life. I recently met a man whilst on a business trip. He is slightly younger and... (285 words)

I feel like my Bf is pulling away. He rarely instigates sex now. Am I being needy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel like my boyfriend is pulling away. We've been together just over three years. Had our ups and downs. Just the past few weeks he doesn't really respond to texts and home calls. I mean we live together but he works until after 9 pm then comes home and we go to bed. So it... (163 words)

Why now? Was it an excuse? Will we resume? He has said we need to take a break to focus on our children

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in love with a man, who loves me. I have 3 kids and didn't want him to get involved too closely with them so I made sure we started slowly. He has 2 children as well but from different partners (A little niggle). My question is he has said we need to take a break to ... (153 words)

Why is this happening now? Two years later? Now I'm plagued with dreams that remind me of his affair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. Some advice would be great. Cut a long story short my partner had an affair nearly two years ago now. We had been together for four years at the time, we both weren't happy and then I found out the reason why- he had had a six week affair and was treating me ... (694 words)

My Bf is going on a trip, with his sister, and without me. Do I have a right to be upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and 5 months ago, him and I started planning a trip together. He would come down every weekend, we would look at various places to go, kept checking prices and overall, talked about it all the time. Well in August, ... (149 words)

Both teachers have a crush on me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

28 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - First I want to say this is an adult's language school, so everybody is over 18. As part of my university degree I'm studying abroad at a Spanish language school. Somehow both teachers there have a crush on me, strong enough for all the students to notice. I'm genuinely at... (193 words)

Does this sound like a marriage of convenience?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, let's see if I can get good advice ^_^ I've known a man, he's English and living in the UK while I'm in the states, for about a year now...this September I went over and stayed with him for a month, came back to the states, and over Skype he proposed marriage. I am ... (265 words)

Why did I cheat on the perfect husband?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Why did I cheat on the perfect husband? I have been married for 4 years with a man I love dearly, but I cheated on him for about 1/2 a year with a former co-worker. I only did it for the attention so I changed jobs. I love my husband and now I cannot stop thinking about w... (196 words)

Physician's assistant - any suggestions on how to handle the gruelling demands of this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all! I'm quite confused about making career choices and really need some advice. I want to become a Physician Assistant with a focus in Psychology. It took me some time to figure it out but that's where I'd like to go. I enjoy helping people and am not bothered by bl... (189 words)

After a six year relationship, how do I get over this breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I posted something a while back regarding my long time girlfriend wanting to "move on" so to speak. When we first met she was getting out of marriage, separated, and filed for divorce. Since we started out as lovers, our relationship never followed the traditional dating ... (272 words)

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be shocked as they don't have ... (82 words)

Will I ever love a man again as much as I loved my first Bf?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up w/my 1st "real" boyfriend for whom I wanted to give the world to, I eventually found out he didn't care for me that much (he told me how much he loved, but I could feel in my gut he wasn't that in love), so knowing this would tear me apart I broke up. No I'm not ... (228 words)

Two years into a LDR and now I've cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3312 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi there this is the first time I doing this. I'm in a difficult situation right now, and I really don't know what to do. I've been in a long distant relationship for almost 2 years and I feel like things are starting to become dull between me and my partner. Before, everythi... (268 words)

Should I arrive as soon as the party starts? Or should I arrive at a time that is normal for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello. My boyfriend and his friends are throwing a very nice party in a couple of weeks. My boyfriend and I will be arriving separately. He with his friends and me with mine. The party starts at 10. Should I be there as soon as it starts like a nice supportive girlf... (122 words)