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Archived questions from: 7 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I get this other guy (''Dave'') to talk to me more? While also discouraging the other guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hello, I'm looking for some advice on boys. I have begun college and have started late so the others have already made friends. My course has a higher percentage of boys to girls. One of the boys has started messaging me on Facebook and I have replied as I'm trying to ma... (349 words)

What do I say? Where to from here? I wanted his support and his response was insensitive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm looking for support from someone out there :( tonight I felt so down and sadly I took it out on my boyfriend while he is working away (over the phone). I told him I wish he understood how I felt having pcos, but his reply was - 'you can walk and breathe can't you? Yo... (110 words)

Don't want this to backfire. Would sharing a room, with my male colleague, be risky for this holiday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - A co-worker/friend and I are going on a weeks long vacation together since its a place we found we both were dying to visit but had no one to go with. The topic of hotel/hostel rooms came up, he specifically asked if we could just share a room. I agreed to it but didn't t... (372 words)

She cheated. At what point will I know I can get past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

7 October 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi guys. I could do with some help. My Girlfriend cheated on me 15 months ago, and i found out around 6 months ago. IT's a pretty unique situation so I'll try to explain, We've been together 8 years, and she's been best friends with this guy for 5. I don't doubt it was ... (1095 words)

Have you helped your adult children financially, like pay for their wedding rings

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3359 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - After the fact and the wedding, my significant other told me that he helped his son pay for his daughter-in-law's engagement ring to the tune of $800.00. It was suppose to be secret and only between him and his son. My significant other is divorced. His son has a job a... (244 words)

Crush acting hot and cold. What does it mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) age 22-25 - dear love cupid, i have a crush on a guy in my school. he's quite nice to me sometimes but he also love to tease in a kinda hurtful ways. there was a time when we were making our school project in one of my friends home. i accidentally wounded my heel and was walking around ... (137 words)

My trust is wavering with my girlfriend. I see her standing way too close to another man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Long story short, I met this amazing woman at the hospital I work at (a nurse), and we have been talking since the beginning of the year. She says she loves me, and her son looks up to me like a father. I honestly felt we had a solid foundation of trust and respec... (381 words)

I think my boyfriend takes me forgranted

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel a bit taken for granted with my boyfriend, I have bought him presents and paid for dinner out etc and while I'm a generous person what really upset me was he bought a big box of chocolates for his team at work, just to get them motivated and appreciated...when he told me ... (71 words)

What is this "dirty wet spot" after oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3362 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and every single time he eats me out it leaves this "dirty" wet spot in the area. And I'm wondering when it is. I've never had a problem with hygiene so I know that's not a answer. Someone please help cause my boyfriend is starting to ... (58 words)

I think we'd make a cute couple but worry that we are friend zoned

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3360 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I've known this guy for over eight months now. We started talking casually through mutual friends, we both flirted, hung out a lot (some people actually thought we were dating at this point) and finally we got really comfortable with eachother and got into a sort of f... (632 words)

Boyfriend driving me crazy! If I play hard to get he's upset, if I call too much he doesn't answer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I were fighting too much as he puts it so he kicked me out but we are still together. He kicked me out because when he would give me the silent treatment because I wasn't talking enough and I would try to reassure him by holding his hand he would get pissed ... (566 words)

My Bf donated his sperm before we got serious. How can I stop freaking and get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who I love donated his sperm 3 years ago. It was one of the first things he told me before we got serious and at the time I was fine with the fact that there were 2 kids with half of his dna. But then when things did get serious, it hit me! There are two beings in ... (164 words)

Do I listen to my gut? I want a committed relationship. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years, I went through his phone (I know I shouldn't be doing that!!) and found out he had a girl stay over at his place recently.. lets just say he lives in a studio. I confronted him and he told me they are just "fiends" and that ... (136 words)

My mother still wants her adult children to accompany her on ''family'' vacations. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3363 days ago

7 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal to go on family vacations every year? My mom has forced my brother and I to go on vacations every year, almost twice a year since we were young. Over the years my Brother has protested against Travelling with the family. On my part, having to travel during vacation ... (493 words)