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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Which issue could derail us? Our age difference? His drinking? Or his use of drugs?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me. I really do not know what to do here and I am desperate for advice. My bf and I have been together for 2 yrs now. We live together. My bf is now 27. Before we got together we discussed at great length the age difference and what it meant. But he was certain... (672 words)

What are the chances of us getting closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3337 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have befriended a guy on Facebook who was at a show I was at a few weeks back and I managed to track him down. He has a lot of followers and regularly posts pictures and articles on Facebook - but we live at opposite ends of the country so it's unlikely we will meet again, w... (154 words)

Is feeling good about yourself is a sin? Or am I expecting too much from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I have on and off relationship with my current be of 4 years. Yesterday I changed in profile picture , which is my really fav picture and I like how I look in the picture. Earlier I used to have low self esteem issues, never really liked myself, but with a frien... (173 words)

My lady friend couldn't accept that my wife was in my life and ended things. I miss her!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (M)

age - Hi People I am married but separated and live alone. My wife and I continue to be friends and I spend a lot of time with her and our 2 girls. Sometimes we share vacations. We go back a long way and I cannot imagine not having her in my life. 6 years ago I met a woman, we be... (429 words)

I'm having separation anxiety with my husband travelling so much and I don't know how to make things better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Please, please can you give me some advice, I'm at my wits end, I don't know what else to do :-( 18 months ago my husband got a promotion at work- we were both delighted as he worked really hard and deserved it. The only issue I have is the amount of travelling he do... (610 words)

How can I find out if family members are being honest with their charity work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - This is probably a silly question but my instincts tell me something is wrong with what is happening. My Aunt and cousin both collect for charity, my cousin proud in her uniform even though i cannot ever recall her being in the armed forces. Last year they both collect for the ... (142 words)

I can't last long in bed and I know I'm disappointing my girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey All, First time posting here and I just want to thank anyone who answers in advance! I'll start off by saying that I have the most beautiful, adorable and amazing girlfriend in the world. She's really very fun, understanding and very honest to me and upfront when I a... (191 words)

I'm stuck on an ex..how do I get over it and realize we are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I have been going through this since long and I just don't know what to do about it. I dated a guy for 5 years. He was my first love, first kiss, first everything. . We were really close, made each other so happy and had an amazing connection. I know he loved me too. But we ... (332 words)

I can't forget about him but is he worth waiting for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid In March of this year I received a message from this young irish man saying ''i love your looks, i love your smile and I love your style'' we built up from that to talking about each others work lives, home life and personality, he shared poems, created some lov... (276 words)

My guy says he'll give me oral sex if I shave but I don't want to do that

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my partner for just over a year, my only problem is...I've gone down on him many times, but he has never gone down on me. He told me he would touch me "down there" more often even possibly go down on me if I.....Shaved. and by this, I'm guessing shave complet... (165 words)

How do I tell the girl I'm dating that my female room mate is actually my ex wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (M)

age - Hi, well I met this girl two times, we are going out again, , I wonder when should I let her know, I have a woman roommate, but the thing, about it is, my room mate is my ex wife, we have teenager, I have custody, we are just friends, you see she is in bad shape, I want my ... (109 words)

How do I stop liking a guy who hurt me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Today wasn't great and this year things with guys haven't really worked out. I don't have a story to share. All I ask for is advice to a few questions: 1. How do I stop liking a guy who hurt me? 2. How do I move on from guys and no longer want any relationship? I ask these ... (92 words)

Do you think I should tell my husbands boss to mind her own business?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear cupid, Do you think I should tell my husbands boss to mind her own business? My husband who is a licensed RN took a school nurse job that pays 20 grand lower than his market value than he would be making in most other nursing jobs. To make up the difference he moonli... (361 words)

I can't stop thinking about him but I don't want to contact him first

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3346 days ago

24 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I've never had this happen before so I'm a little confused. This guy started talking to a couple months ago I was in a very depressed moment and I was in a horrible relationship with my ex. Well me and the other guy talked but it wasn't about dating it was just friends. He ... (673 words)