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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If I chose not to have sex how do I find the willpower to wait?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3291 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 16 in my first year of college and I'm still a virgin (and proud to be one actually). But everyday becomes a little harder even though I know staying a virgin until I meet "the one" or near enough is the right thing to do. I haven't even kissed a guy or had a boyfriend ... (264 words)

How can I tighten up my vaginal muscles?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I did sex before two months . Now I am in a another relationship. And we will get married in 6 months . But I don't want to feel embarrassed when we're having sex. So I want to tighten my vagina when I sex with him . Please tell me how I can d... (88 words)

Decided to take a break from each other. Will he think it's a permanent thing by April?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) age 30-35 - Okay, firstly we've only been broken up a few hours so this question is more of a future problem solving one. We broke up because life schedules mean we never see each other. I literally have work 7 days a week and it clashes with his days off so we're barely free at the same ... (335 words)

He says he has a flirty personality. Why is he giving me mixed signals? Could it be that he's scared to date?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Bear with me, this is a little long but he's giving mixed signals, Yesterday I had a date with the his guy, he picked me up, bought me coffee, we had a great time and he messaged me later that afternoon and we talked for an hour or so. Today, I start chatting with h... (320 words)

Is there any way to show people that first impressions of a person were wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

31 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently started dating this girl, she's 20 and has a 4year old son. I ended up making a horrible first and second impression on her parents and I despartely need to redeem myself. Three weeks ago her parents were away when I got a call while I was hanging out with some fri... (505 words)

I'm dating my married step uncle...help? I need advice on what to do, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3304 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok hi. Completely new at this. So to get right to the point. I'm dating my step uncle so (my mothers step mums son) so not. Definitely not blood related. He is married (not separated) tho like typical situations (is going to get a device and leave etc) Never looked at hi... (195 words)

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others in my face without a care i... (357 words)

Why is he, all of a sudden, interested in trying? Is sex, the first time, sometimes not successful?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3290 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf never used to be very much into having sex. We've been dating for over 3 yrs now. We are both college graduates. I'm working before going to med school. He's getting ready for law school. One of the biggest problems in our relationship was that even though he would ... (316 words)

Does he just tolerate my shape due to the emotional connection? Is it wrong of me to want a man who loves all of me including my body shape?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3308 days ago

31 October 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a Relationship with a man for a year and a half and very happy . The time we have spent together has been wonderful . However recently he has had an issue with my weight and is treating me differently because of it. He seems extremely attracted to thin woman and I ... (129 words)

The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3307 days ago

31 October 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - The question is, should I tell the lady how I feel after we've had 5 months apart? All night having a good time with everyone, celebrating my ex's PhD which she achieved today. (ABC) ABC says things that stay with me "I missed my chance" - "This was the good one" to me. I get ... (820 words)