A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend said she loves me and can't live without me but talks too guys and let's them call her sexy ass and other stuff if she truly loved me would she keep talking to guys Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (5 July 2015):
 I agree with CMMP
She is insecure and needy (wanting as much attention as possible from whomever is willing to give it to her).
If you don't like it, ASK her how SHE would feel if YOU talked to female friends in the same manner. If she says, I don't care, that would be OK.. She really don't care as deeply for you as you may have thought. If she says, no I wouldn't like it one bit, then ask the next question, then WHY do you do it while dating me?
I have never thought having friends of the opposite gender as a problem. I don't think I have had a hard time being FRIENDS with my male friends. Friends might tease each other, they may have a type of banter - but there are boundaries, and you cut it out if you have a GF/BF who isn't liking it.
A
male
reader, CMMP +, writes (5 July 2015):
Insecurity... She needs other people's approval for her self esteem to be high.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2015): She's a flirt and likes the attention. How long has she been your girlfriend?
Apparently, you haven't let her know how much it bothers you that she hasn't set boundaries with her male friends out of respect for you and herself. If she's too much of a flirt, you might need to consider getting a new girlfriend.
She can't control what they say, but she should correct them when they're out of line. So should you!
Man-up and let them know she's your woman and you don't appreciate their pet names and references to her ass. That's for you and you only.
Just be sure you're not being over-sensitive to her receiving compliments. If she talks to too many guys for your comfort, why are you still around?
...............................
|
