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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My question is should I have unprotected sex with this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age - My boyfriend has restricted me on his facebook account so I can only see his public page he says he no longer is interested in facebook and does not use it very much -which is a lie because when I go onto facebook on my account I can click on his picture an it will tell me how ... (97 words)

Do open relationships work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Do open relationships work? I'm not asking because I want to have one or anything but a very good friend of mine says that it keeps her and her husband happy while he works away. He had an affair a few years back and she decided that to stay together for the kids but that sh... (167 words)

Is it right or wrong to find a sex partner for my mother?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

23 April 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - ..my mom is 55 nw . My dad died 26 years back..I know that its been long that she had sex..i even know how it feels with out sex for humans ..so m planing to find someone for her sex life...is it right r wrong..?... (47 words)

I feel like a single parent, how do I make him see I need him to help a bit more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello people I have a problem and don't know what to do me and my partner have been together for 2 years and 8 months we have twin boys together he has always gone to work as did I till I had my twins the problem is I feel like a single parent I get no help from him at all we ... (147 words)

Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age - My daughter in law is leaving my son and has made it clear that she is taking the children with her. Can she up sticks and go taking the children with her?... (35 words)

I know money isn't everything, but it just feels unfair!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 21 year old adult so this may come off as kind of pathetic but I need some help please. For the last few years of my life I've been feeling jealous of people who are wealthy families and people who are just given whatever they want. Growing up with a single mothe... (271 words)

No sex for the past 4 months, should I wait or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - iv'e been going out with my girl friend for just over 4 years now.but the past few months she will not have sex any more just come's up with the answer i'm tired when asked why to say we had regular sex.she always come's to my house an when she come's only sit's at side of me i ... (102 words)

Do you think I should stick with a guy who feels safe or give the new guy more of a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel very conflicted with my current situation and would love advice from anyone. I'm leaving in a few days to spend a week with my ex who lives in another state. Our relationship started when he lived near me and then he moved for a job. The distance became too much ... (435 words)

I don't want to look and sound desperate, but I just can't get him out of my mind. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3527 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - It's been almost 2 years after my ex broke up with me. I moved overseas to start a new life and tried to stay away from everything about him. I am moving on slowly and was hoping to fall in love again abroad. I am so ready to be in another relationship, but it never happened ... (171 words)

Will guys still want to date me, if I tell them I'll only go as far as oral sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3496 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - No, I'm not doing it for the sake of virginity, but to avoid pregnancy!!! I've heard so many horror stories from people, panicking for weeks because they were terrified that they or their partner was pregnant...I don't want to ever be in that kind of situation...But, I'll be ... (65 words)

How do I cope with feeling totally isolated and alone? My fellow students are selective about things they invite me to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear readers, I feel that my life is in a mess at the moment, both personally in romantic relationships, "freindships" and in my college work. I am studying an animal related course which is incredibly difficult, it's a very difficult course but I am trying my best t... (727 words)

I'm feeling confused about if I may be gay. My Bf is nonchalant about this revelation. Can you help? Because I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for 7 months. So far all is fine just the normal ups and downs. I have a friend (girl) who I know for 10yrs. She used to study here and when she went back to her country, we kept in touch and regularly visit each other. I am due to be visiting her... (370 words)

He's suffered depression and it feels like he's pushing me away. Should I leave so I can be happy again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a sort of happy relationship now. We have had a bad up and down recently. He neglected me while i was pregnant and then whilst our baby was very young. This went on for over a year and at some point i stopped loving him. But i stayed. We fell back in love. Now he i... (119 words)

He's supported me as a friend. How do I find out if he also views me as more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3527 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - He is single. I'm going through a messy divorce. he has been a great support as a friend. have been good friends for a couple of years but relation is platonic. I have started to depend on him emotionally. how do I find out if he also views me as more than friends? don't wa... (69 words)

Short of being completely blunt and rude, how can I discourage his apparent interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to ask because this has been bothering me for more days than I can count.. If anyone has good advice, I would really appreciate it ! There's a guy at work who I am not remotely attracted to. But he seems to be attracted to me. He is a lonely sort of person. And ver... (306 words)

When I graduate I will most likely have to live with my troubled parents. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents have been drug addicts for the majority of my life. They were also both verbally and emotionally abusive towards me, and have tried to manipulate me beyond belief. Over the years I've accepted that my parents are the way they are, and that I can't change things u... (324 words)

Am I selfish for not being supporting him more? These should be my good years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a situation where I love a man but he's taken on such a huge project and completely dismantled his house. We are talking a derelict shell. He may make 30k on a 3 year full blown project as its an old small terraced house in a bad area and mortgaged. He lives in it ... (280 words)

Eighteen months ago he loved the phone sex. Now he's too tired. Is the honeymoon phase over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys just wanted your help in a situation. My guy and I started dating one and a half years back n we are getting married in December. When we started dating, my guy and I used to have phone sex a lot and it was a thing he started. Later on we started making out and had ... (160 words)

No chemistry ...should I leave the perfect man after 5 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my loving caring partner for 5 years...it has been almost perfect so I thought until last year. He dotes on me and puts me first and I was the same to him. It started last year and has continued...we hardly have sex and when we do I can't wait for it to be over.... (106 words)

My boyfriend likes to bite and doesn't seem to realize that I don't like it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a few months and the chemistry is great. We're both really attracted to each other, have a great time spending time together and make each other laugh. These are all fantastic things that I'm happy to finally find in a man after being single for ... (338 words)

I expected my husband to be my best friend and partner but he isn't either

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a middle aged person who has been through 1 divorce, a 30+ year abusive marriage..now I am married for the 2nd time; I was not looking for marriage a second time, but after a couple of years I really thought he was totally different from husband 1. Actually, he is, as he ... (369 words)

My boyfriend went out with friends and told me he was at a child's Birthday party . What do I say to him ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend lied to me and I don't understand why ? Hi I just started going exclusive with my boyfriend of 1 month we really like each other . Last weekend he told me his best friends daughter was having a birthday party and he was going to help set up and stuff so couldn'... (293 words)

Now that I'm not begging for his attention and constantly being available, he's accusing me of being distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3531 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm constantly in a battle with my boyfriend about text ettiquette and his attitude to communication in general and in return he says i just seem to want all of his attention, sometimes he needs his space, sometimes he just does not want to talk. So.... I decided to conce... (162 words)

Can your ex be worth the wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3530 days ago

23 April 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - First things first, some history. My ex-girlfriend and I have made some terrible mistakes regarding one another. We have moved on from the resentment and have gotten past it all. We are still madly in love and both can see our 2nd go around being very successful and truly ... (490 words)

Not his girlfriend? How do I talk to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

23 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I haven't been on this site in a long time but I need some advice. I have been seeing this guy for about 7 years off and on. He doesn't even consider me his girlfriend bc he says I don't do anything a girlfriend does. I spend the nite when I can and hang out whe... (290 words)