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30-35,
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writes:I'm constantly in a battle with my boyfriend about text ettiquette and his attitude to communication in general and in return he says i just seem to want all of his attention, sometimes he needs his space, sometimes he just does not want to talk.So....I decided to concentrate on myself, kind of took in what he said and i just didnt want to come across needy anymore....So i just put my phone away more and do what i like, things i enjoy. Sometimes that's nothing and sometimes I'm truly busy.However, now that I am not begging for my boyfriend's attention and constantly being avaliable . He is accusing me of being distant, saying he thinks he's done something wrong...he keeps asking if I'm mad at him...I don't want to push him away or lose him, but I don't want to be at his beck and call anymore...What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2015): He can't have his cake and eat it too. I would recommend a good talk between you. Communication sets up everyone for success. Maybe you went from one extreme to the next and it freaked him out. I say both of you get your crap together and find a solid middle ground where both of you are fulfilled. Nothing will ever get done if the communication doesn't happen.
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