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Archived questions from: 7 April, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I love my b/f but don't wish to have sex with him anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3532 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and I am 20 years old. He is very affectionate, caring, and I know he would do anything for me..he is my best friend. He wants to marry me. However, we argue constantly because I am not very affectionate (he is very very ... (424 words)

I need to talk to my b/f about trust since I caught him texting. How do I start the convo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Around 5-6 months ago I found that my boyfriend of almost two years had been messaging other girls. Some messages were friendly however others weren't, I confronted him about it and he didn't give me a straight answer at first until I kept asking and asking and demanding ... (226 words)

I can't read this man, is he interested or just friendly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been separated from my husband for 2 years and have not been interested in another man for over 15 years until now. There is a man at my church whose situation is very similar to mine, I think I am developing some very strong feelings for him but cannot tell if he fe... (267 words)

Six years together and he hasn't proposed. Am I stupid for hanging on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3544 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. Although he talks about the future, he has not proposed to me and says he is not happy to do so until he is happy in himself (his family life is difficult due to bereavement etc). I feel like a mug holding on for something he might ... (65 words)

My boyfriend's friend is flirting with me and I'm not sure what to do about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, this is kind if a weird question but here it goes. So, my boyfriend and I have been together for about three years, and I love him to bits. Recently we started hanging out with some of his old friends more, which I am super happy about because it makes him happy! But the ... (204 words)

How do we help our sister in dealing with infidelity in her marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - My sister (35) has this week discovered her wife has been having an affair for most of their two year marriage. Needless to say she is devastated and blindsided. Extreme anger giving way gradually to depression. Worst of all she was undergoing fertility treatment recently, ... (105 words)

My sister thinks I'm overreacting to my niece's bad behaviour

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister refuses to put her foot down on my 5 year old niece's behaviour all the time and it's making me not want to visit them because doing so has become a pain. She doesn't smack her which is understandable but even if her kid does something like be rude to me or my othe... (311 words)

What are the steps to getting back out there and overcoming my fears?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - dear cupid i have been single for a number of years now 4 to exact. i haven't been on a date or kissed a guy in four years either. my last relationship was very controlling and when we spilt my daughter and i moved back home with my parents. now that i am living out on my ow... (156 words)

He has a new job and I'm worried that he'll text girls. How do I control my jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriend has just got a new job which involves working away sometimes, today is his first time working away and he is away for 4 days. I'm so happy for him that he has this new job however at the back of my mind I can't help but think he may be messaging other girls. H... (82 words)

WhenI didn't find his joke funny and I told him that his "joke" made me feel uncomfortable. Could I have handled this better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi! I need quite some answers quick on this situation because it’s actually driving me nuts. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and 3 months and yesterday, we were talking and he was joking about something that I felt really uncomfortable about and I said "It... (165 words)

He called me selfish. He blames me 100%. Is there anything else I can do, to try and help us find solutions, not blame?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3546 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever me and my boyfriend argue he always blames me for whatever problem has occurred 100% and never takes any responsibility.Though I must say we do not argue any more than any other couple I know. I used to take this that things were 100% my fault and instantly back d... (411 words)

Was his threesome suggestion just an excuse to have sex with another woman? Is it wrong that I felt hurt by his actions?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I agreed to a threesome with my husband and a friend. I've never been with a woman but agreed to try to please my husband. He didn't even touch me. feeling uncomfortable, i went outside. he proceeded to have sex with her. i was reduced to watching, in tears, through the window. ... (94 words)

If he doesn't want me why shouldn't I get it else where?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3545 days ago

7 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm entering the 10th year of my relationship and my sex life has been on the decline for the past four years and my bf says he doesn't know why he just hasn't got the urge and he doesn't even pleasure himself. My dilemma my sex drive is higher now than ever I'll be 34 soon... (172 words)