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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why did he ask me to keep this quiet from his girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex has offered to lend me the money to either get a new car or repair the one I have, with the agreement that I pay it back to him without his current girlfriend knowing as she doesn't know about this money he has in savings. I'm confused as to why I would need to keep this ... (199 words)

Was this military man attracted to me"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i was working at beach resort, when a group of guests came i took them around the resort .There was a certain man who was asking questions and he talked to me about the lunch bill. Inside me i was attracted to the way he talked but kept it professional. So the group had ... (193 words)

He inappopriately texted other girls, worried he still has something to hide

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I went through a rough patch because i found out he was texting girls inappropriately. I decided to forgive him and he said he'd show me his phone and give me all his passwords in an effort to regain my trust. Now, at first, I declined but its now proving ... (161 words)

Boyfriend keeps kicking me out and I am Pregnant

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3549 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in need of some advice. I don't know what's going on with my life. I'm only 21 And Ive been with a older guy for the past 2 years and a half.. He has always had the control of the situation because I moved from my home town to all over with him. Every time we fight he will ... (298 words)

Is the threat of poverty clouding my judgement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so tell me if im the crazy one. My bf and I have been living in my house with my disabled mom for a few years. Our finances combined took a tumble; I ran out of my inheritance, and he lost his job. He has stated that he will help me with the finances, but it's been hard ... (616 words)

I feel I am stuck between a rock and a hard place.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3541 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Why would my mother, treat me bad, just because I'm not interested in getting in the middle of my dad and my mom seperation.I've tried keeping out of there business, yet she is now threatening to tell lies about me to my boyfriend. My heart is so sore really lost and not sure ... (61 words)

We're on a roller coaster and I want to get off

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I read this site often and am always struck by how great the Agony Aunts/Uncles are in giving out advice. It always done with common sense, compassion and empathy and no judgment. I hope you can give me some advice too, as I need to hear the hard truth from objec... (473 words)

The marriage is in trouble and it's my fault

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3550 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a stay at home mom with 2 babies 3 and under. My fiance works 10-12 hour shifts 6 days a week and I stay home with the kids. We live at his moms and hope to move out this month. The problem is that lately, after 2 years of being together our relationship is falling apart ... (573 words)

Communal family living? My husband wants to buy a bigger home so his family can move in. How can I persuade him to not do this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - my husband wants to buy a house big enough for us to move into, and move the in laws in with us. Trouble is I most definitely do not want this! although he wont hear of anything otherwise. We are in our 20's, we have 3 young children. his parents in their late 40's. They... (334 words)

Could my actions towards this student be mis-construed? Do my actions constitute me ''leading this student on''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a senior lecturer in a university. I have never though of myself as good looking or anything special. I think I am good at my job, however I will let the reader judge. Recently, one of my students told me she liked me. She is beautiful, always happy, and generally fun to... (295 words)

Is this supervisor giving me the run-around? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I applied to work for a well known and respected organisation =(Z). Then a bit after they called me in for an interview and then they informed me that I had secured the job, and to come in later on in the week to sign the pre-employment papers two Thursdays ago.... (411 words)

Are these really flags or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been corresponding with a guy I met through a dating website here in the UK. He approached me first and we have continued to email - sometimes quite lengthy and deep emails. He has been abroad on an adventure holiday in the desert for the last 2 weeks and is due back ... (514 words)

I wonder if she is brushing me off.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I met a girl last week and we hit it off really well and she gave me her number she seemed really into me. I sent her a few messages over the week we shared same interests. These were short emails replies after 3 days so I felt maybe the interest wasn't that strong from ... (188 words)

I love her so much, we are ready, and yes, we have protection.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3552 days ago

2 April 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - Please read this all to understand my question more. Hello. First I would like to thank every one on this site. You have helped me a lot. Sadly, another problem has arised. First let me tell you about the girl that I fell In love with. We met during a summer band meet. She had ... (377 words)

Should we still be this close after a breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years. It wasn't a bad break up at all, but after going through emotional problems I brought the idea of separating up and we mutually agreed that our relationship was unrealistic at this point (we live long distance). We decided we ... (280 words)

Sometimes I just wish I had punched him so he could feel pain too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I just cannot move on. What the heck. Today I think I saw my ex we go to the same college and he cheated and left, while we were breaking up I demanded we talk about it but he said he had class and a quiz an excuse to leave at that moment my heart broke he wansn't even trying ... (178 words)

He took my everything, now he has a happy life and I have nothing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I just came out of 5 year relationship. it was kind of mutual breakup, he got bored with me and I couldn't take his indifference towards me. I loved him but I guess my love towards him started drying up when I was the only one pulling all the weights and maki... (207 words)

He has told me he really wants to be Friends with Benefits, I don't know what I want1

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3551 days ago

2 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: Previous question from same asker can be accessed here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/after-me-being-madly-in-love-with-him.html hi:) ( i'm a fan of himym so i'll use the names, it is not related to the personalities of the characters when i was 12 i met t... (578 words)