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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Would it be cruel to leave him. Or could it do him some good? I'm terrified of what'll happen if he continues like this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm between a rock and a hard place and I really need some advice. My boyfriend has always smoked weed. At first it was just once or twice a month when he would hang out with a particular friend. I didn't like it but he never did it in front of me and apart from his clothes... (378 words)

We had a casual thing between us about 4 years ago. Why would she ignore me now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

30 April 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so me and this girl used to have a casual thing going about 4 years ago. We were both single then. Since then i've married someone else. We've stayed in touch and met up a few times. On a couple of occasions we have slept together which she said she regretted becaus... (247 words)

What do I need to say to my boyfriend? Because I really had never had sexual relations before I had sex for the first time, recently, with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex for the first time, but my boyfriend thinks now thar I was not virgin since I was loose and didn't have pain and he saw no blood .? but I really didn't have sex before please help ... (43 words)

How do I tell my boss that I can't come to work as I'm already booked to attend a convention? Not sure how to break the news.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3473 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Modnote: poster clarified that she holds 2 jobs. One weekdays Mon-Fri and one part time at weekends. .............................................................. I work as a Nanny full-time 9-5 Monday through Friday. A week or so ago, she told me that my last day would be... (257 words)

He's fine in person but is awful at texting!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just hoping for some general advice. My boyfriend is incredible, and I'm head over heels for my relationship. We're both in college, so I know we're young, but I've never been happier with a significant other. He treats me like a princess. The only problem is with ... (308 words)

My concern is that he's rather stingy and that after almost 2 years he's not ready for being together in person. Advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a Long Distance Relationship for almost two years. My boyfriend is a six hour flight away and I fly to see him once a month, duration of stay is 4-7 days each visit. During the time that we've been together, he has only visited three times. One of the three times, ... (719 words)

Is my personal trainer flirting with me, or only business?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this personal trainer, very early days that messages me, is really friendly in person and asks about my day, my life, my history from school and where I've lived, talks about himself and what he hopes to do in the future. Sometimes when he notices I am tired from a ... (242 words)

What can I do legally to get her to stop with all the crap shes doing so we can live our lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Good day all... Here is the time for all you that give great advice to read my situation and give me advice on what I should do about it. I have been with my fiancé for almost 3 years now. Within a couple months of our relationship he got the DNA results back saying he i... (565 words)

How can I ask someone out through e-mail?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I know face-to-face is best. It is, I agree with you. But in my current situation I don't have that opportunity anymore. I met this guy, let's call him Tom, during a study opportunity. Basically students had a chance to apply to specific set of masterclasses an... (224 words)

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 April 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the time. We went to the movies ... (341 words)

Should a shy geeky guy visit a prostitute to gain some experience before I Try to find GF

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3468 days ago

30 April 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 24 year old male virgin who has never kissed a girl nor have I ever been on a date. I'm not particularly good looking and I don't have six pack abs. Not to mention I'm a giant film/video game/comic book geek as well. I research this topic a lot on and women typically ... (203 words)

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like enough that we start kissing, ... (261 words)

Is my Bf telling me about a crush he once had on a pretty girl, only to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

30 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - my bf recently told me about a childhood crush of his and how pretty she is and how beautiful her smile is.I m feeling insecure becausezp if she loves him too he might leave me. At times i feel my bf really loves me and is doing this just to make me jealous! because i have a l... (108 words)

If I really am the woman he is in love with and plans to be with for the rest of his life why has he made getting married so difficult?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years going on 3. We have two babies and are pretty serious about eachother. The only problem is that we seem to have completely different views about marriage. I want to get married desperately. Every inch of my being desires to be married. ... (355 words)

Would my ex FWB consider a relationship with me now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm pretty good friends with my ex fwb. We were fwb for about 18 months but we've been just friends for the last year. I had a boyfriend which is the reason the benefits ended, but we stayed in touch. This friend has always been really helpful towards me, and even more so rec... (386 words)

How do I cope with this breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

- My boyfriend of 3 years finished with me and is now in a relationship with another woman just 2 weeks later. I am in pieces. I cant eat I cant sleep I cant even go to work. We had a row and split but I thought we would work things out. But this time he said no he wanted to ... (389 words)

He's younger and broke!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 25 years old and I am currently in grad school. I met this guy a year ago, because he worked at the restaurant across from my job and he delivered my food. We also have a mutual friend. We never talked then because he had a girlfriend. He is now 18, an... (348 words)

How can I fix this where I can just make love with my husband and not have to do the toy thing every time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - Don't know if I'm not what he wants any more or what??? OK I've been with my husband for going on 10 years we have a great sex life I would like to think. I'm very open minded an very understanding but I just got a question is he into something I just can't give him an how ... (169 words)

She is on my mind all the time. Should I tell her or hold in my emotions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 April 2015 (M)

age 26-29 - This has been on my mind for a while now. It happened a few days ago, but I am not sure where to progress. This is a long story, so bear with me. So here it is: A few nights ago, a large group mixed with work friends and others who I did not know went out to a nightclub.... (549 words)

I want to say something to him and at least find out if theres any reason why he thought it was ok to make a plan and then disappear.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy online several weeks ago and we went out a few times and had a great time. Recently we had plans to go out on Tuesday but then he cancelled last minute, apologized and said it was because he was asked to pick up an extra shift at work and could do with the extra ... (156 words)

Everyone found out we were talking and meeting up and doing things, how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Well me and my ex broke up after 11 months and recently we started talking agein and we was meeting up and doing things but we wanted to keep it between me and him and now everyone has found out and he wont talk to me how do I get him back ... (52 words)

Online dating is making me a nervous wreck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I joined an online dating site and have gotten a few messages. Most of them are "hi" or "hey", not never interesting in my opinion. But, I came across someone with an awesome profile, seemed just as outgoing as me, VERY attractive, so I said "why not" and messaged him although ... (216 words)

I just don't want to feel like I'm living with a lazy roommate any longer!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Please tell me if I am overreacting. My husband and I have been married for 4 years. I am in the army, and we have no children. The entire time we have been married, because we have moved around a little I have been the main bread winner which I am ok with as I am the one who ... (395 words)

Why do women expect men to be mind readers?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3490 days ago

29 April 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Why do women expect men to be mind readers? My wife has been grousing around lately. She finally erupted, "Just once I'd like to come home and find you made the salad for dinner!" "You want a salad? Call/text/e-mail and it's yours!" To which she replied those killer wo... (179 words)

How do I tell him I'm going to be traveling with my best friend next year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a great guy a few weeks ago ,, treats me with respect , really cares about me ,, get on well Etc We was just going on dates, and we ended up kissing a few days ago at his house, and mine yesterday. The problem is IM GOING BACKPACKING at the start of next year with m... (458 words)

A close friend told me that my boyfriend isn't a good guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - A close friend of mine recently told me that my bf isn't a good guy!he said he s very mean and took his friendship for granted and took advantage of his friendship. he is telling me not to have a relationship with him as he might cheat on me or take advantage of me and leave ... (96 words)

He has the stamina. But why can't I achieve an orgasm with my Bf? Do I need to see a Doctor?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years, we are very close and he knows me well. However, during sex I just don't seem to get an orgasm. He'll thrust and continue until he ejaculates and then bam, he's done. He can last for over an hour before he ejaculates but, I still... (197 words)

Pregnant after four months dating. How have others coped in a similar situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my boyfriend for four months now. We have known each other for about five years as we work together. We have liked each for a couple of years but we were in relationships and had to deal with those first. I ended up splitting with my partner and he continue... (245 words)

How can I calm my anxiety at the thought of losing him? Plus I need a guide on dating an introvert, please?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 April 2015 (?) age 30-35 - I think i need a guide for dating an introvert... I am a very social, loving and very caring person. When in a relationship i always put the other person first, and always like to keep in contact, and do lots of thinga with them. Yet my boyfriend of 5 months is an intr... (488 words)

He's been selective, about what he says, when he's communicates with me. Should I just end my relationship with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We met on a dating website and chatted online for about 4 months before meeting. We then, or so I thought, had a good relationship seeing each other every weekend, chatting during the week. In other words from when we met phys... (331 words)

Who should I choose? My ex, who called my reaction too jealous? Or this new guy I've just met?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

29 April 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My older, once divorced boyfriend of two years recently told me that he wanted some space. He stated that I showed red flags of violent jealousy, during an encounter with his female friend at a local sports bar one Friday evening. He asked her if she was going to buy din... (278 words)

She calls me her daughter but charges me $US 500 per month to live with her. Is that too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

28 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 19 year old, I live with my ex guardian. I have been living with Her since I was 16 year old when I dad passed. She increased my monthly payment to $500 a month for staying there. I used to pay $300 before. She calls me her daughter but why do I have to pay that much. I ... (173 words)

Moved away from girlfriend and the sister I have feelings for, did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

28 April 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I started dating my (now ex) girlfriend 4 years ago. She then moved in with her sister last year, which meant I spent alot of time with her and her sister. For 3.5 years I thought I was happy, well content maybe. Then slowly, my girlfriend, over a period of a month or two ... (863 words)

Mom has an athletic body but I don't. Does this make me a loser?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

28 April 2015 (M)

age 22-25 - My mom has an athletic body and I don't. Does that make me a looser? Im a 14 year old skinny person with a fat belly and my mom in contrast has an athletic body. I feel embarrassed when I'm with her especially at the beach in swimsuits. She looks great in bikini and I lo... (94 words)

I'm not sure if he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't trust my bf Everything seemed to be perfect in the beginning but one night has changed him ! I told him 2 weeks ago that you are careless! I meant that he should take care of his job and health because he goes out every night and drink a lot He spends all his... (589 words)

I agreed he can come back only if he promised to make a doctors appointment for some help, am I making the right decision?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 7 months has finally admitted he has a drinking problem and needs help. He's changed a little since he met me he use to drink everyday but now it's weekend benders. At first it wasn't a problem as we were just having fun but as time got on I know I truley love ... (143 words)

Do you think we will work out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

28 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently met this guy online. He seems like an honest decent man. We have been talking to each other for only 2-3 days but I think I already have a huge crush on him. Well I think he likes me too; he'd like to say something more about him when I didn't ask for it. There are ... (281 words)

She told me she needs to be alone for a while. Did I come on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi folks looking for some advice. I started seeing this girl "R" in feburary after meeting online- we went for a meal and clicked right away- we talked for over 7 hours and when it was time to go we shared a kiss which was truley amazing. A few days later we spent the afte... (405 words)

I'd like to ask her out but I have misgivings of being thought of as a sleazeball!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

28 April 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - There's this girl in my honors seminar group at university that I have a sight crush on. While a part of me would like to ask her out so that I might be able to get to know her better, another part of me is reluctant to do so. I really don't want to get a reputation as the ... (108 words)

Is this verbal abuse? Are we just not right for each other?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) age 30-35 - I am on the fence about the man I have been in a relationship with for 2 years. I don’t know whether I am wanting to get out of the relationship too soon or if am avoiding the warning signs of what could be verbal abuse. Background Story I think it’s important I explain h... (1510 words)

How can I politely deal with people who offer their advice on whether we are having a boy or a girl?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so my fiance I have been thrilled to be expecting our first child. We dont want to find out what we are having because I cant wait for that moment when the doc says "its a..." when it is born, but I have had a lot of people who dont seem to get that I want it to be a ... (194 words)

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" broke up, he started texting ... (195 words)

He hasn't kissed me in a year. But he finds time to watch porn. what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) age - My boyfriend hasn't kissed me romantically in years. We barely have sex, and it is boring, always the same position. He watches very x rated lesbian porn and knows it bothers me and he obviously doesn't care. He is obsessed with woman and is constantly making comments... (77 words)

I found out about his daughter a year into our relationship, and he didn't lend me money for my school fees because he puts her first!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 24yrs and my guy is 29yrs too we have been friends since childhood but he asked me for a relationship as at last year so after one year he told me he had a 10yrs daughter out of wedlock and he said the reason why he refused to tell me such at the beginning was becos he ... (188 words)

How can people get STD if both are 100% faithful? Can a STD be inherited from a mother? Not sure how STDs work after hearing things from fellow classmates.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

27 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear all and thank you in advance for taking your time for reading this. I am currently 21 years old and in a 4.5 year, heterosexual relationship with my first and only sexual partner, whom is 20 years himself. As on both accounts: we were both virgins when we go... (354 words)

He's ''not sure about our relationship''?? Is this a temporary natural phase in a relationship? Or is it likely to be permanent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

27 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a wonderful relationship for over two and a half years now, and I thought everything was alright until last year. My partner said he wasn't sure about this relationship, so I gave him some space, and he eventually decided that he wanted me in his life after all ... (263 words)

Unrequited feeling for a guy. Will I ever find a guy who really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

27 April 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 20 and I had an unrequited feeling or is that what you call it at a guy i know for 8 years. All my life i have known, that I had liked him a lot but I was unable to confess and hid it all this time. Instead I find joy and happiness just watching him from afar, if he... (406 words)

What can I do about about my partner's willingness to be too kind for his own good?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

27 April 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Situation is this.... My partner and I have been together for a year and a half and we live together. My partner has an ex wife with whom he is still going through separation issues and settlements. The separation was nasty so he has left it alone because he doesn't w... (737 words)

Should I walk away? Should I send the note?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

27 April 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - After 4.5 years of friendship, J and I began a relationship over Xmas which has largely been conducted online, because of her employment. I'm 32 and am plenty experienced, but this is the first time I feel I could be falling in love. Just recently I went to visit her in the p... (468 words)

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) age 30-35 - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards him and i'm not ready to hav... (67 words)