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writes:When a guy pays more attention to a girl when she ignores him, or doesn't give him as much attention or leaves the area, does that mean he likes her?If the guy seems to be aware of how she feels and seems to react if she's sad, mad or happy, is that a big sign of a crush/interest? And when I say ignoring, not in a major obvious way where a normal person would be offended, but changes in a girls mood, he picks up on it and seems to be nicer or more attentive and ask questions if the girl is more quiet and ignores him more...If the guy didn't care about the girl that much, I don't see why he would react more to her feelings...
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reader, lifesgreat +, writes (22 November 2014):
maybe but don't forget we are all humans ... And a lot of the time it breaks down to ' wanting what you cant have'
so if they feel what was available before is slipping then they start acting more about it .
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2014): It is possible. His interest might not be whole hearted, though. Usually a guy who's interest in a girl is genuine, pays her just as much attention and is just as nice and attentive, when she is not ignoring him. You wouldn't notice a difference. And he probably wouldn't be acting MORE interested when you are aloof. On the contrary, if anything, he would back off a little.
In my experience, I am familiar with the type of guy you describe. Guy's who tend to act nicer to you when you act aloof. These types generally don't like you ENOUGH. These types are not really sure about you so they themselves act non chalant, even uninterested when you are nice to them or show them interest. But as soon as you act uninterested, all of a sudden their interest in you is piqued. It's a game that leads to no where. They don't want you but they don't want to lose you. He doesn't want to date you but he likes the attention you give him. So that is why he acts the way he does.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 November 2014):
 It's hard to say. Depends on the women and the man.
Could BE he is just a emphatically person. could be he likes her in a "friendly" way or that he REALLY likes her.
But here is my thing, If she seems uninterested and he keeps at it, it can come across as creepy too.
OR that SHE is playing games. Which quite frankly most guys tire of real fast.
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reader, MrBigShot110 +, writes (19 November 2014):
Could be... I'm not completely sure. You may want to do some digging. See if you can get some sure signs of interest from him. You'll know then.
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