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writes: Dose this mean he is flirting with me?He is my colleague and I'm not sure if he fancy me or not. Becasue he is a married man so I don't know the words or the way he treated me is normal or something special because I am quiet youger than him.But everytime when we're talking are always cheerfuleach other. he always said to me: I am very interesting person and he likes me. also he's noticedI've lost my weight and look fit and well.I don't think others have noticed I've lost weight but him, so I'm quite pleased to hear that.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (31 March 2006):
 He may be flirting with you or he may just be friendly and nice.
Noticing someone has lost weight or they look nice is sometimes an indicator that someone may fancy you but sometimes it is just someone being nice.
Some men and women just have a flirty nature. They are being friendly but it can be seen as flirting when they are just being nice.
I have a very charming male friend who has a flirty way of talking to girls, even girls who are just friends. It is just his nature and they way he talks and jokes and breaks the ice with people.
I think the main thing is that regardless of whether he is flirting or not, he is a married man and a colleague, which is not really advisable as a future relationship option in both categories.
I think enjoy the attention and keep the compliments but make sure that you stay professional at all times.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (31 March 2006):
 yea not sure if he is flirting, he could be just a really polite guy,i agree with anon i would not take this further, if he is flirting, personally i would not try anything and if you was to flirt back he might take it the wrong way because he was just being polite and then you could get in trouble and your job could be at stake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2006): It may be that he is flirting with you.. however, this shouldn't be taken as anything further. He is a married man and needs to remember that... if he isn't you should remember and think about his wife
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