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writes: one of the last questions i asked was i wanted my ex-husband back. someone replied to stay in touch with him, keep the communication open. GUESS WHAT!! He came back to me crying. We have two kids. "WE" decided our love was one of a kind. We promised the kids we would never break up again. We have been divorced for 5yrs, and he remarried with one other kid. Well, the other day my ex-bf stopped by to let me know that my ex-husband has been seeing someone else (different city). I confronted him. It is all true!!! He has HURT my kids terribly!!! My son never wants to see or talk to him. I am hurt and p****d off!! He totally believes he has done no wrong and that we should not be hurting. If the kids hurt then he says it is because of what I told them. I told them the truth!! He left us AGAIN!! Someone please give me advice how to handle my childrens hurt and betrayal. I pray and pray but you're not to wish something bad on someone right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice. however, he is the fathers kids. they do love him. i have always and will continue to keep them together. but, i will never open my heart or door for their father. he finally admitted to hurting us. but he told my son, "every day changes"
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2006): i am so sorry dear that u put your trust in the nasty piece of work how can he be so cruel not just to you but your kids as well there are no easy answers to this problem but i hope u will never ever take him back try to be strong for your kids they will probably never see or speak with him again and it's hiw OWN fault no matter what he says to he i know folk say we should try to keep the kids out of it but how can you they see how much he's hurt you what he has done to you and them tell him to stay away u have survived this befor you can do so again i know its hard get your family and freids around you try not to bottle it all up please don't think this is anything you have done cause he has done it twice it's him WEAK cheating B...... hope this help take care
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