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writes: Hi I am 25 and still a virgin and I don't have a problem with that it has been a choice for me to wait, I like this guy who is 23 and he likes me too we are actually going on a date this weekend. The problem is that he is not a virgin and I think this may put him off because I'm older than him and stuff you know the old one about the older woman teaching you a thing or two. Also he is a friend of my brothers and my brother has no problem with us going out but I'm worried about it affecting their friendship if it doesnt work out. Should I go out with him and take the chance and see what happens, he might be okay with the virginity thing??
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2006): What do you mean you are forgetting about the one where the guy takes a girls virginity??
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reader, tux  +, writes (31 March 2006):
 But you are forgetting about the one about the guy taking a girl's virginity.
But I don't think you need to fret what you are fretting.. The bigger thing I think to fret is the sex issue.. Is he going to expect you to have sex with him and how fast. Make sure you just don't end up doing it just to lose your virginity.
as hurting your brother's friendship with the guy.. well that's a tougher situation. I mean any relationship has it's inherent risks and that is one of them.. Your brother is fine with it. The guy is fine with it. Now it's you who unfornately has the choice.
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