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Ladies, any idea why my girlfriend doesn't orgasm any more from oral sex?
Q. My girlfriend has stopped having orgasms from cunnilingus. This is unusual because the first time I went down on her, she had an orgasm and was going on and on about how good I was at oral sex. In fact, she had several orgasms one right after the ...
A. 26 March 2008: An orgasm for a girl starts in her head. Are you sure there is nothing going on in her life that might be occuping her thoughts/ ... (read in full...)
How do I make my best friend back-off from my girlfriend?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now, but my best friend seems unusually close to her. I met my girlfriend at the beginning of school, when her, my best friend, and I hung out a lot for about 6 months until her and I ...
A. 26 March 2008: The real question is do you trust them. Do you trust your girl? Do you trust your friend? If you do than you don't have a problem. If you do not than that is the problem. Why don;t you trust them? Are they trust worthy? If not then why are you with ... (read in full...)
Breaking up is hard to do! Any tips?
Q. dear cupid. I currently have an girl friend, i feel that i do not like her anymore. I dont know how to end the relationship so that i can move on and get another girl friend, as there is someone else like. I know i may be young but i still...
A. 25 March 2008: Honesty is the best policy. Tell her that your feelings have changed tell her how great she is and that you want her to be with someone better than you. Be honest, be polite, be grateful for the time you have had together and tell her good bye. Do ... (read in full...)
Performance anxiety is ruining my life....any advice that doesn't involve medicines?
Q. im having performance anxiety. You know how the mind have a powerful control over the body? Well im having trouble relaxing. and almost all of my sexual encounters went wrong. So im thinking that because those painful memories my minds self defense ...
A. 25 March 2008: O.K. Lots of guys are virgins at 21. Perhaps what you need is counseling to deal with issues. Perhaps you need to meditate and find peace with your self to resolve these issues. Most likely you need to try having sex with someone you love and ... (read in full...)
Can you help me understand why she had sex during our 'time out' period..?
Q. Hello Here's my story. 2 years ago, my best friends sister asks me out. She is a year and a half older than I am. We begin dating and things are perfect. She has many close friends which are guys. There is one certain guy who she would hardly han...
A. 25 March 2008: If you want to be with her you need to forget about who she has had sex with. She didn't cheat on you. The fact that she had a relationship with someone else that involved sex is a fact. How many times is moot. Either you accept it or you break up ... (read in full...)
He never answers his phone and told me to leave him alone! Still, should I give him the benefit of the doubt?
Q. ok ive been with this guy for at least 6 months. but before i started talkin 2 him he had an ex of three years that he left becuse she was unfaithful. and he said that he would never get back with her. everything was going good with us. he would ...
A. 20 March 2008: Let it go. You will not get a call. He used you to feel better about himself and he is done now. Move on.... (read in full...)
Is "Dry Sex" okay? I don't want to get pregnant!
Q. Im 12 years Old and me and my bf have been dating for 2 years and we want sex i dont want to get pregnant so if we did have sex we would have dry sex would that be ok ??...
A. 20 March 2008: If you want to be safe then dry sex with him wearing a condom would as safe as possible. No matter what method you use there is always a chance. No birth control is 100% effective.
Are you sure you are ready?
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I masturbate and imagine I'm making out with someone, Help!!
Q. Hey I'm around the age of 12-14. I don't have a computer of my own but I have looked at porn on my gma's computer. I am always scared that she will find out and that other people will find out. Also when I am home alone I masturbate and act like ...
A. 20 March 2008: You don't need help. You need a lock on the door.
It is good for you. It help relieve stress, helps your immune system, burns calories, and improves your future sex life.
the bath room is your friend the door locks.
Take care girl, you are ah... (read in full...)
I was molested by my stepdad, now with kids of my own how do I tell my mom I don't want them in their house!?
Q. Since I was about 6 years old till I was about 16 years old my step father molested and raped me, it was an every day thing. It finally got to the point were I wouldn't even fight him anymore, I would just let it happen. I finaly got the courage to ...
A. 20 March 2008: You were victimized by both of the your step dad and you mom. She covered up and didn't protect you from the abuse. Her first instinct should have been to protect you. She allowed it to happen to you again and again. So I think you should be ... (read in full...)
After 2 years do I decide 2 split?
Q. I have been with myboyfriend now for 2 years but recently we have been arguing a lot is it worth carrying on with? ...
A. 20 March 2008:
Only you can really answer that. Do you want to stay. A relationship is work. Does the good out weigh the bad? Have you talked to him about it? Are the fights all about the same thing or things? Do you still love him? What do you want?... (read in full...)
Mid-Life crisis or could having this affair really lead to something?
Q. Married 25 yrs, no glaring problems, 2 teenagers. My wife would say she loves me..I would say that I like her..love, not so sure about anymore. I have had a female friend for many years-we socialize together. Her (2nd) marriage ended 3 years ag...
A. 19 March 2008: Honestly, your feelings for her are probably stronger than for your wife. I am also sure that you pay her more attention and invest more energy into this friendship than you have your marriage, at least lately. you will probably make that ,mistake ... (read in full...)
Is there a possibility I could be pregnant?
Q. My boyfriend and i had sex abbout 4 times this months unprotected. Then about a week after the last time my peroid came a week early and it was heavy and before i started i was very depressed emotion tired. my brest hurt and i had mood swings like ...
A. 19 March 2008: The dollar store is sells pregnancy tests. Stock up. ... (read in full...)
Do you think he'll hate me? Some opinion's please.
Q. Hey everyone. For reason's which are not important; I was house bound because of severe depression. Thus to help the time pass I went online. I ended up talking to this guy. I'd heard people say lie about your age, what you look like, where you live ...
A. 19 March 2008: Does he remember how old you are? How old you told him you are. It may not be a problem at all.... (read in full...)
How do I get my mum to stop acting like my man, who has been with me for 8 months, and loves me a lot, is not like the men that she has been with?
Q. Hi, I asked a question on here earlier about my bf not seeing me for a week, and his car needing to be fixed. Well, now I have another problem. I've had this problem for some time now. How can I get my mom to stop acting like he ain't shit, just bec...
A. 19 March 2008: Who pays your bills? If mom pays your bills she has something to say about how you spend your money.
Does your boyfriend make a lot of money? If he makes lots more than you do perhaps a smaller gift is appropriate. ... (read in full...)
Parental Rights
Q. Hello All. Thanks for reading and resonding to my question! :) Here it goes! My girlfriend and I have broken up, and she's 4 months pregnant... with my baby. We were talking about names the other day, and I want to have both last names and she ...
A. 19 March 2008: Legally, i believe you don't have any rights. Mom names baby. Moms name goes on the birth certificate, You do not have to sign anything so you have no power. But if she wants your name on the birth certificate you have to sign and you have a little ... (read in full...)
I think I made myself look real bad here and need some advice...
Q. I think I made myself look real bad here and need some advice... A week ago my friend was at a party and made out with a girl, while he was dating someone else. Well my girlfriend is bestfriends with the girl he's dating, so she asked me if ...
A. 19 March 2008: Don't lie to your girlfriend. Either tell her what happened asking that she not say anything or admit you don't trust your girlfriend.... (read in full...)
Love-struck
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm losing my mind, help me please. I am a 24 year old man who always didn't find a way to connect with people on a close and intimate level due to the fact that my way of thinking is completely unacceptable in my community. I hav...
A. 19 March 2008: What can I say. People should be able to live any way they like. I want to believe that being able to do that is what being alive is all about. To pursue your loves and dreams and ideals in acceptance. It doesn't seem to be true any ware. It seems ... (read in full...)
Left Wanting More...
Q. Hey :) I broke up with my 2 year boyfriend, whom I lost my virginity to, about two months ago and a month after I started out with another guy. We've been having sex too but I'm quite disappointed, and I know it sounds cruel and it's not the mos...
A. 19 March 2008: Do you talk to your partner about what you like? Do you tell him what feels good. Sex is about a whole lot more than just a penis. You can have great sex with a partner no matter what the size. You just have to want the same thing, to get your ... (read in full...)
SUPER STRESSED and seeking a bit of HOPE.
Q. Hey everyone. I and a young single mom and I am super stressed. I am a full time everything right now, full time school, full time mom and just got "hired" for this intership that amazingly fits my schedule. My EX however is not pulling his weight ...
A. 19 March 2008: Yes if you are willing to give up stuff you will be ok. Get aid food stamps ect the child support can pay for you childs needs and aid will assist until you are ready for a better job. you probably wont have cable or lots of luxuries but you can do ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I won't be able to return to my current relation, if I venture into another that proves unstable. Thus...?
Q. Okay. There are these two guys, A and T.. and i love both of them, but im not sure im actually IN love with them. I've known the one im dating(A) for a little over a year, and i've been dating him for exactly a year, as of yesterday. but theres ...
A. 19 March 2008: Basically you are saying " i am better than you Austin so i am going to see if I can trade up if i can, i am gone ,but if not ill stick with you, until something better comes along.. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about my sexuality...
Q. Hi, I have a dilemma currently in my life. I'm not sure about my sexuality. I've always checked out guys as well as girls, but lately I find myself checking out guys more often but would never take that next step to go into a relationship with the...
A. 16 March 2008: You are you regardless of your sexuality. Being gay or bi is not bad if that is who you are. Figure out who you are then what you are will make its self known.... (read in full...)
I did stuff with my friend and now I can't stop thinking about her...
Q. hi, I'm really confused at the moment. I've got a long problem: a while ago my friend came over for a sleepover. We were discussng what it would be like to kiss a girl and I leaned over and kissed her. I pulled away straight away but she pulled m...
A. 16 March 2008: At your age identifying with a girl is natural and developmentally correct. In time you may be attracted to guys as well or instead of girls.
I wouldn't worry too much that you are a lesbian. You have lots of time to figure that out.
Try to find ... (read in full...)
Sex or no sex in a relationship?
Q. I have just recently broken up with a man who I had sex with for the first time, after dating him for two months. Hes 36 and Im 23. We actually met in a dance club (definitely not a place where I imagined myself to find the man I had my first sex ...
A. 16 March 2008: If you believe sex outside of marriage is wrong you shouldn't have sex outside of marriage. I don't believe that it is. I think eliminated it as a possibility in all future relationships is going to limit you. You need to figure out how you feel ... (read in full...)
I'm sooooooo confused, can anyone tell me why did he do so???
Q. I knew a man he was preparing his divorce papers we were friends at first then after divorce we became more close i loved him soo much he was sooo decent he was trying his best to make me happy then after 4 months he asked to marry me his mother v...
A. 16 March 2008: You are not the person he wants to be with. Perhaps you were not accepting of the behavior or whatever. He saw something that made him not want to be with you or not want to be the person he was when he was with you. You need to move on he is not ... (read in full...)
I think he wants me to touch him down there but I haven't before...any advice??
Q. Okay so here's the deal, my bf and i have been dating for almost six months, he knows im not a virgin, however we do have our moments were we get heated up, but nothing has happened yet. One of these many days,things were getting pretty heated up, ...
A. 16 March 2008: I think he wants you to not be afraid to touch him. I think he wants you to want to touch him.
I think if he wants a hand job he would say so. He wants to feel desirable too.
I think that if you are considering sex you should not call his penis “d... (read in full...)
Is it possible he doesn't masturbate to the porn on his computer??
Q. I recently found some porn pictures of nude female models in pictures by themselves and a couple of videos of girls undressing on my boyfriend's computer. We have been dating almost 2 years, and from the time I met him he has always told me that ...
A. 16 March 2008: No, I think he does masturbate. I think he just thinks you will not understand that masturbating is no big deal and has nothing to do with you or your relationship.
I have never met a man who does not masturbate and I doubt I ever will.... (read in full...)
I have really bad stretch marks...are they bad and ugly??
Q. hi, I am 14 years old and on my boobs I have bad streach marks. I weight 103 and I am 5ft. 1in. I am in a bra size 32 C. I'm super white and the streach marks Are very see able. I have had a recent boyfriend and he didn't seem to care. I an kind of ...
A. 16 March 2008: They will fade in time.
Most guys will never notice.
Most guys will never care.
I have stretch marks from puberty on my boobs, no one has ever mentioned it.
Do not worry. All most guys are thinking when they see you naked is “boobies” and “ ... (read in full...)
Why would he ask for my number...say he will call and still not call??
Q. Well, I'm 18 and I met this guy who is around 33. I met him by chance and we started talking and well I know him a bit and it was pretty nice. He was really sweet and all and he had asked me if i was alone or witn company and where I lived, but unfo...
A. 16 March 2008: If he wanted to be with you he would have called.
He has not. No man is so busy he doesn't want to get laid. Calling and texting a lot tells a 33yo that in fact you are desperate. If you were important to him he would have responded. He did not.... (read in full...)
Can I consider my teacher a friend??
Q. Well, there is this male teacher whom I've had a crush on since I was a sophomore but this year my junior year, I have gotten to know him better and about his personal life experiences and I also have had a few bumps on the road in my life. He is ...
A. 15 March 2008: Yes you can be friends with your teacher.
But honestly not while you are in class at his school at all.
If you hang out, you run the risk of him being fired over the association.
People are stupid! It will be assumed that something is going on ... (read in full...)
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