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30-35,
*hinky
writes:Okay so here's the deal, my bf and i have been dating for almost six months, he knows im not a virgin, however we do have our moments were we get heated up, but nothing has happened yet. One of these many days,things were getting pretty heated up, however i stopped because i told him i was on my period, he stopped and apologized. I said it was okay, however he did ask me why i didnt, "touch him down there", i told him "it hadent really come to mind", so i get the idea that he wants to get a handjob, im willing to try new things. Problem is that, its my first time, any advice?
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reader, xclusiv  +, writes (28 March 2008):
I think you go ahead and have sex with cos he may look for someone else to do it with. sex is very necessary in a relationship, so do it to save keep your guy.
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reader, chinky +, writes (26 March 2008):
chinky is verified as being by the original poster of the question Im not a virgin yes, but my first time wasnt exactly what i had hoped for,the guy left me right after the sex.
Thats why im taking my time with my current boyfriend, because i want to be sure about everything we do.
Thanks For the help guys =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): This whole thing seems kinda weird to me.
You've had sex before at your age, and yet you've been dating this guy for six months and not with him yet, and there's still a lot of awkwardness about playing with his dick a little?
Seems like an odd combination, doesn't it?
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reader, yeahsureyoubetcha +, writes (16 March 2008):
 I think he wants you to not be afraid to touch him. I think he wants you to want to touch him.
I think if he wants a hand job he would say so. He wants to feel desirable too.
I think that if you are considering sex you should not call his penis “down there”. Nor should he.
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever-  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 The first time I tossed my boyfriend off, I was really scared... dunno why though. There's nothing to be scared off... just let your hand move backwards and forwards and make sure you pull the skin back and forth, then you'll be giving him a hand job.
Hope this helps, send me a message if you wanna talk about it or not
xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): i cant tell you how to do it, you just need to follow your instincs- youll know prtty soon whether youre doing it right
good luck
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