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30-35,
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writes:Okay. There are these two guys, A and T.. and i love both of them, but im not sure im actually IN love with them. I've known the one im dating(A) for a little over a year, and i've been dating him for exactly a year, as of yesterday. but theres also T, who i really like, and i've known him for four years. A doesn't know that i like T, but T knows that i'm dating austin. A insists that im his world, but T also says he loves me. i've already told T i'm not sure what to do, and he's still insisting he loves me. he's such a sweet guy, but so is A. the problem is, i know A's entire family, and they all love me...but im afraid that if i leave A, and it doesn't work out with T, that A won't take me back. theres more. im going to the same high school as A, but not as T. T wants me to make a choice, and thinks we'd be perfect togetehr, but A already thinks we're the perfect couple. i'm afraid that if i do decide, that i'll end up making the wrong decision. Reply to this Question
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 It doesnt sound at all that you love your current boyfriend. If you did then you wouldnt have these other feelings for this other guy, who Im guessing becuase youve known for 4 years, is just your friend, but you believe you love him becuase he is so nice.
Obviously is it up to you what you do with your life, but I dont think personally that you should throw away your current relationship. Is there something that T is giving you more than A? If its something so little then its not worth throwing away your lover.
Maybe you shouldnt be going out with either people right now. Tell your boyfriend that you need a break becuase other feelings for somone else has popped up and you need time to sought it out. But dont expect your boyfriend to hang around forever. If I was him, I wouldnt think much of you anymore, but then again I may be more independant than your boyfriend, but if hes just as independant he will probably want a relationship with a girl who has no strings attatched and only loves him. Do what you think is right, but not everything will turn out perfect for you or the way you want it.
Goodluck
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reader, yeahsureyoubetcha +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Basically you are saying " i am better than you Austin so i am going to see if I can trade up if i can, i am gone ,but if not ill stick with you, until something better comes along..
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