I'm 20 and sick of being single... is this what's making me so unhappy?
Q. Iam 20 years old and Iam so sick of being single. I have not been in a relationship in 2 years. Some people tell me to stop focusing so much on finding a boyfriend but I cant. I just cant meet any guy, let alone the right guy. I dont meet guys in ...
A. 21 February 2012: We all hate it. Especially when we know we have more to put on the table than others. I too hate being single. Noone to wake up next to. Sometimes i wonder if i even have a reason to live. She was the only reason i was happy. And what do i have n... (read in full...)
We are not officially bf/gf. Is it my right to be worried about who else he sees? Especially two particular girls?
Q. Just a bit of background info on me I really like this guy in my class and recently he said he would really like to try to take things a bit further. So we have been going out but not officially. Anyway we have completely different circle...
A. 12 June 2011: no im sure his opinion of you wont change just because some jealous bimbos talk trash about you to him.... (read in full...)
So nice and sweet to my face. But still broke up. Why do I feel so angry, still?
Q. Why do I feel like this about him? am so angry:(? My ex bf broke up with me saying he doesn't want a relationship. After 4weeks without no contact. He contacted me saying he wants to be friends. Cos he's moved on. He's got a fuck buddy now an...
A. 12 June 2011: I have a similar situation but there is no other person she is with of screwing. My advice it that you keep your distance from him. Your heart would truly explode if you remain friends with him and you sound way to sweet to handle it. im sorry this ... (read in full...)
My wife passed away a month ago, is it too soon to think of dating?
Q. My wife past away one month ago from today. She has a cousin that reminds me a lot of her. And I'm falling for her. They look alike. But I don't think this is the reason that I'm interested. If I never knew my wife and met this woman, I'd still be ...
A. 12 June 2011: No i dont think it is crazy. I would suggest you take a bit more time to mourn her death before going for a relationship. I wish you luck... (read in full...)
Does he like her or me?
Q. Hello, So this is the story: I have always had a thing for this guy (lets call him g). we have good banter, play fight, a lot on common, we have slept together. just generally have a good time around each other! But heres the problem my best ...
A. 12 June 2011: Maybe he is trying to console your friend. Some people console others in akward ways. He obviously has feelings for you. Just try and talk to him about it... (read in full...)
Husband has totally ignored me for 2 years
Q. I have been married 26 years and in the last two years my husband rejects my all ways. He spent long hours at work and when He gets home ignores me. I feel like a caregiver. When talk about this situation He complains about work. I do not how long I ...
A. 12 June 2011: Talk to him about it, what could go wrong? you need to tell him how you feel about the situation... (read in full...)
Broke up with boyfriend, but now confused on what to do.
Q. so im going to try and make this as short as possible because i know some of you probably dont like reading a whole life story. okay, so i broke up with my boyfriend wensday and here are the reasons. 1.we didnt see eachother that much like someti...
A. 12 June 2011: Im sorry, this is a really tough situation. You did what you had to do to protect yourself... (read in full...)
He never responds when I say I'm sorry
Q. what do you do if you said sorry over tons of times and your guy friend doesn't ask anything back? Is he mad at me? We both like each other, but now he's mad at me for doing something wrong. What do I do now?...
A. 12 June 2011: some people just dont say anything back when people say sorry. he could just have off social skills... (read in full...)
I want to kiss her but I'm too nervous
Q. Hi everyone I need some advice on a big problem for me. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a while now and we've took our relationship to the next level. I've been wanting to kiss her for a while now and every time I go to do it I get super ...
A. 12 June 2011: I got nervous for the first few girls ive kissed but after that i was fine. Just think about her and only her, it should come naturally... (read in full...)
I left him after a fight and now every time we fight he says I'm going home to mommy
Q. Hi I writing this cuz I need help ok im with my husband.we always fight cuz of his ex and when ever we fight I tell him tht going to leave him and there was this day tht I had to leave him so I left him after I did I reged him to come an pick me ...
A. 12 June 2011: just talk to him about it. he has no right to put you down... (read in full...)
Did my ex put "I love you" in code in case another girl was with him?
Q. so my boyfriend and me broke up thursday i think, andi broke up with him. we have been texting trying to work things out i asked him if he was gonna move on and he said no he didnt wont to. so we was texting and he stoped texting me at 9:15pm a...
A. 12 June 2011: he only put it in little stars because he is afraid that you wont approve if he puts it in words. He is not with another girl i garantee it. I would do the same thing in his position... (read in full...)
Should I take my 11 year old to a psychologist?
Q. My 11 year-old son seems sad these days. Last night he was crying at a family party even though he had some friends over too. When I asked him what was wrong, he replied that he hated school. This strikes me as odd for a Saturday night near the end ...
A. 12 June 2011: I think it is a good idea. I used to do things very similar to that, and i was diagnosed with cronic depression... (read in full...)
I just can't last in the missionairy position
Q. Hello everyone..i have a quite weird problem here..its about sex positions..when im having sex with a girl doggystyle or shes on top or any other position..my performance is really good and i cant last long enough to make her cum..but as soon as we ...
A. 12 June 2011: Hahaha i have the same problem. Theres not much advise to lasting longer in that position. Just try to think of other things. Like chairs. If yo constantly think of being inside of her, your bound to finish right away... (read in full...)
I gave her my all, but was it enough?
Q. I just turned seventeen this week. I met a girl over the summer and fell in love with her. Just the way she looked at me and the way she would smile just blew me away. a month and a half into the relationship I lost my virginity to her, wasn't p...
A. 10 June 2011: wow thanks guys amazing advice... (read in full...)
Do I need therapy to get over this fantasy?
Q. I don't know if I need help or what. I posted on here before about my feelings for my married friend. We know that we cannot be together because we are both married, I told him to be happy with his wife and forget about me and I would do the same (I ...
A. 9 June 2011: Only you have the power to let go. If it takes a therapist to help you realize that, then fine. The only thing that gets rid of love, is time and distractions. You will eventually forget he exists. But if you dont want to, then just do whatever your ... (read in full...)
I fancy his personality, not his looks. Is that shallow?
Q. i really like this boy at college, and i no he likes me too as hes told me, we flirt all the time and we recently went on a residential trip with college and we was together all the time, everyone noes we like each other and asking why we are not ...
A. 9 June 2011: I say you go for a relationship. I am good looking, but i never go for very attractive women. I fall for their personalities, which is where it really counts in the end. I wish you good luck and dont leave him in the dust just because he doesnt look ... (read in full...)
Why does he express his love so frequently?
Q. My new boyfriend is really into me. We don't get much time together as we live apart so when we do, we treasure every minute. He cooks for me, and we make each other happy. One thing , however, is that he repeats very often throughout my stay that ...
A. 9 June 2011: You are very right to be annoyed.
I tend to treat girls somewhat similar.
But i tend to only say i love you at appropriate time but still manage to be the sweetheart she diserves. If he acts this way now, he wont change until you say somethin... (read in full...)
Can a 20 year age difference really make him feel that insecure?
Q. I have had a friend for over 8 years now. There has always been an attraction between us we have never acted on it. We never really discussed age etc it was never an issue. I knew he was older than me (he is a young looking active attractive man)but ...
A. 9 June 2011: I think you can girl. what is age? its just a number. I dont have to pass algebra to see that. I say you can make him see that. and good luck!... (read in full...)
I gave her my all, but was it enough?
Q. I just turned seventeen this week. I met a girl over the summer and fell in love with her. Just the way she looked at me and the way she would smile just blew me away. a month and a half into the relationship I lost my virginity to her, wasn't p...
A. 9 June 2011: maybe your right. thanks... (read in full...)
What does this dream mean please?
Q. What do you think this means? i was so in love:)? All my life every guy that I get involve with breaks my heart and leaves me. But am a nice girl with a good heart. Loyal, honest, caring, loving. Friendly, cheerful. My recent ex bf ch...
A. 9 June 2011: I read into dream interpreting and i think i know why you dreamed it. See dreams are all part of subconcious mind. Locked deep in your mind are memories, names, information, just waiting to be released. I think you just dreamt what you wish would ... (read in full...)
What should I do I feel used and betrayed?
Q. hello everyon, im here looking for advice about my relationship with this guy im 5 months pregnant with my first child im 23 yrs old and he is 21 yrs old. sunday he came to my house we talked about him telling his mum about me and the unborn ...
A. 9 June 2011: I'm sorry. I think your right. This guy is a total asshole. You can make him at least pay child support tho right? I wish you the best of luck!... (read in full...)
We never spoke during the term. Could he think I'm boring?
Q. theres this boy i really like at school and have liked for a very long time. i often catch him looking at me at lunch and stuff. but a few months ago we sat next to each other in art class for like a term and we literally never spoke. do you think ...
A. 9 June 2011: I know exactly what your laking about. Same thing happened to me all the time. But one time, i made a move. And i dated the girl for 6 amazing months.
I am willing to bet that he doesnt think your boring. He just doesnt have the balls to talk to ... (read in full...)
I gave her my all, but we broke up and now she wants nothing to do with me! How do I cope?
Q. After 2 years of giving my all to this woman. Asking her to marry me and putting up with all her faults and shortcomings we broke up and now she wants nothing to do with me. She has told me to never text, call, just to forget her number. How ...
A. 9 June 2011: Im sorry man i went through the exact same thing. Put everything in this relationship and then poof* they're gone. Girls like this arent even worth the time of day.
There arent many ways of coping but i can give you some advice. Try to do what i d... (read in full...)
Are dating sites successful?
Q. Hi guys. I wanted to know what you guys think about dating sites. I have never singed up on them because I was always tolled to be carefull of who I talk to online and to not get involved with ppl I have never met in persone. (witch is still great ...
A. 9 June 2011: Hi I'm a seventeen year old guy and honestly, they are not safe. I know alot of people who go on them and meet tons of guys. But i make sure they look into the person, even just a little. Just make sure if you do go on one that you do some, even if ... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable to ask your boyfriend to get tested for STDs?
Q. Is it unreasonable to ask your boyfriend to get tested for STD's? I get tested every year at my check up because you never know what someone else is doing and my job has some exposure risks. He has never been tested. We have a sexual relationship, ...
A. 9 June 2011: Asking someone to get tested just to be on the safe side is highly reasonable. He should be thankful to learn for the both of you... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tell him his sexual habits are strange for me...
Q. Hi guys, I just want to ask is it normal for a guy to lick his own come? It's just after we've finished having sex, my boyfriend will go down on me and put is tongue right inside me to get all my come and his come in his mouth... I was just ...
A. 9 June 2011: I personally wouldnt want my own come in my mouth but hey, just ask if he can bring it down a notch. Or have him go down on you before the sex maybe... (read in full...)
Help, am I gay?
Q. im 14 and i have a boyfriend but im sure that im a lesbian. what should i do im sure a lesbian and i think i like a girl at my school do u think im gay and what should i do??...
A. 9 June 2011: I could help if you explained the situation a bit more... (read in full...)
I don't think I should stay with my girlfriend
Q. We've been dating a year and a half or thereabouts, and recently she's moved to a different city, and I'm supposed to move with her but I don't know if I should. She's recently made her facebook completely private, so I can't see photos or commen...
A. 24 September 2010: no matter what she is doing, she is still hiding things from you and that is not okay... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has gone away for a few weeks and I'm worried I'm going to stop loving him!
Q. Hey My boyfreind went away a few days ago and hes coming back in 2 weeks i was missing him the 1st few days, i was thinking about him everyday and i was dreaming about him every night... but theres something about me if the person i love goes awa...
A. 24 September 2010: i am sixteen aswell and i know how hard it is. but just hang on. as soon as you get into his arms you will know just how much you missed him and it will be worth the wait. if love has disappeared just work on it. hang on there... (read in full...)
Is it better to be wanted or needed?
Q. Here's a bit of a hypothetical question which has been bugging me... In a relationship do you think its better to be wanted or needed? Why? ...
A. 24 September 2010: i need you is saying you dont want to let go. that is the better one
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Why is LYING about porn and HIDING it even worse than the porn itself?
Q. So from all the porn questions and answers on here, it seems many women think a guy's lying about his porn use and hiding it are actually WORSE than the porn itself. They cannot understand why anyone would lie about something like that and go behind ...
A. 24 September 2010: Its the fact that your keeping things from your lover. in true love you dont have to hide anything... (read in full...)
Should I let go or should I hold on?
Q. I was with someone 3 years ago, the relationship went "open-ended" when he decided to pursue his career elsewhere. We agreed to remain friends although we seldomly contact each other since. He came back after a year and when I saw him, I realized I ...
A. 24 September 2010: I know exactly howw you feel. and the truth is you should never let go. If i was him i would realize who really cared about me. In his case it is you. I only hope he sees that... (read in full...)
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