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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so im going to try and make this as short as possible because i know some of you probably dont like reading a whole life story.okay, so i broke up with my boyfriend wensday and here are the reasons.1.we didnt see eachother that much like sometimes we would see eachother 3 days in a row or more. then here latley i havent gotten to really see him that much. cause he says he is busy and stuff.2. when we would see each other we didnt do nothing fun we would only stay at his house or my house and just cuddle and watch movies, and he mostly just came over to my house late at night when he got off work or got done doing things he had to do. but he never went anywhere and did fun things. and that made me feel as if he was embarassed3. he moved 30 mins away which means we would hardly get to see eachother.so everytime i asked him if he could come see me he would say he had things he had to do i felt like he was making up excuses to not see me. i asked him why we never went out and did things like we use to when we first started dating and he said because when he asks me what i wanna do i always say idk so there for he doesnt know what to do. also i forgot to mention that he is mexican he is here illegaly but he goes to school and he works. and yes he is illegal. anyway he told me that i didnt understand that everytime he drives he is in danger of getting deported back to mexico that is why he asks me to go see him or if we go anywhere for me to drive. he said he didnt wanna risk getting deported because we are expecting and he wonts to be here for his baby. the other thing is he moves 30 mins away and i know that since we really dont see eachother now that we will hardly ever get to see eachother now. yes he asked me to move with him because he got his own place but i told him no. he has told me that he is in love with me and that he wonts to marry me and me him and the baby be a family.can anyone please help me on what to do? i would really apretiate it alot! thanks.
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reader, wantspaintogoaway +, writes (12 June 2011):
 Im sorry, this is a really tough situation. You did what you had to do to protect yourself
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