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writes:After 2 years of giving my all to this woman. Asking her to marry me and putting up with all her faults and shortcomings we broke up and now she wants nothing to do with me. She has told me to never text, call, just to forget her number.How can one person who's said shell spend forever with you, completely erase you from their life?I want to love this woman and at the same time I want to hate her guts. So how does one cope with knowing your heart still cries out for this person while at the same time it wants to scream **** you!I just can't understand it at all. I will add that she is a 17 year old who had never finished high school and everything we did had to involve her parents in some way shape or form. Her mother is a narcissist and makes my ex believe I'm always wrong and that I'm a terrible person. But all I did was love. I gave her everything she ever wanted and then this is how she treats me.What can one do to stop the pain and the anger?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): I too was treated in this way but one day she will see what she had with you was the ultimate relationship and when she does it will be to late as you will be over her and getting your love you deserve with another
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reader, wantspaintogoaway +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Im sorry man i went through the exact same thing. Put everything in this relationship and then poof* they're gone. Girls like this arent even worth the time of day.
There arent many ways of coping but i can give you some advice. Try to do what i did.
Meet new people. You dont have to date them just talk to new people and make knew firends.
Also, the only thing that will get you over this girl is time. Im sorry dude. Good luck!
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 #1 Shes a teenager not a woman.
#2 A 17 year old will not want to get married. Its too young if you ask me.
#3 That's what teenagers do, they break and move on.
How old are you? And well moving on will be hard but its something you need to do at this point. Do other things like be with friends and try not to think of her.
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