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*pendy
writes:What do you think this means? i was so in love:)? All my life every guy that I get involve with breaks my heart and leaves me.But am a nice girl with a good heart. Loyal, honest, caring, loving. Friendly, cheerful. My recent ex bf cheated, lied and dumped me.Today I dreamt that in front of so many people my ex was screaming at me telling me how much he hates me and doesn't want me so I should leave him alone.Then this handsome stranger came swept me off my feet infront of my ex and later we were so inlove. He had a thing for my eyes. He loved them. and always looking into my eyes. and I had a little boy for him. Best dream ever.What does this dream mean please? I don't understand. I hope if come true though cos I've been hurt so much in my life. Thanks..x
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reader, ben345 +, writes (9 June 2011):
You just wanted to prove to everyone, including your ex, that you don't need him and have the capability to be happy. This dream proves that you care, and are hurt by him. Life doesn't have to be about tit for tat, though. No point in having the 'I'll show him' attitude, it'll just give him power.
I'm adamant you will meet this fantasy guy though :)
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reader, wantspaintogoaway  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 I read into dream interpreting and i think i know why you dreamed it. See dreams are all part of subconcious mind. Locked deep in your mind are memories, names, information, just waiting to be released. I think you just dreamt what you wish would happen in your life.
The stranger isnt some random person. It's your own idea of the perect male personification.
I really do hope you find this stranger though. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2011): Hi,
In reality. Men are not designed for Monogamous relationships and evolution of society is moving in an opposite direction.
I think the best conditions of a relationship are to not put any restrictions on it. Not even "No cheating" ... And if they dont then it is out of choice. If they do then its up to decide weather you feel you cant continue with someone like that.
The worst thing you can do is promise and demand exclusivity. It goes against male Instinct.
As for dreams. There are lots of books out there that discuss meanings of them.
Dreams are a fabrication of reality that depends on the whole contents of your mind. You Memories, All information that has come through your eyes, ears, mouth, nose and feelings. Your behaviors, your limitations, your values, beliefs and desires.
It will drive you crazy asking yourself what it means.
UKLifecoach
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Sweetie you have been hurt from your ex and him being horrible to you in your dream is just letting out your feelings, you are disappointed in him for betraying your trust. As for the part where some handsome guy comes in, well this is what you want out of life, you want a man in your life who loves you and will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (9 June 2011):
 Well I think you are kinda answering your own question here. It was less a dream and more a fantasy. You feel cheated and used and you have been. You also, rightly, obviously feel that your exs have only ever appreciated you are errr well a female and for sex and not as a person (hence this strangers fascination with your eyes, etc, which is more personal and intimate). You dreamed firstly about your ex because maybe he has left you feeling inadequate as a person and then this stranger came along and made you feel better. The stranger comes and rescues you, heals your scars etc, there is maybe an element of you needing to do this yourself, move on and make the dream possible. The real question your asking is will this dream happen? Its really quite hard for me to tell at this distance to be honest with you - I hope it does for your sake though because you certainly deserve happiness. Good luck and take care :)x
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