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We are not officially bf/gf. Is it my right to be worried about who else he sees? Especially two particular girls?

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Question - (11 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2011)
A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Just a bit of background info on me I really like this guy in my class and recently he said he would really like to try to take things a bit further. So we have been going out but not officially.

Anyway we have completely different circles of friends but recently he has been hanging out with a couple of girls who have a reputation for being 'easy'sluts.

They have also been bitching about me to him and he said he told them to stop.

Should I be worried that he is hanging around with them as they clearly don't like me ?

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A male reader, wantspaintogoaway United States +, writes (12 June 2011):

wantspaintogoaway agony auntno im sure his opinion of you wont change just because some jealous bimbos talk trash about you to him.

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A female reader, Batterytea Canada +, writes (12 June 2011):

Batterytea agony auntWell you're being a bit vague about this whole thing, but if he's really a nice guy and he's really serious about you (even though you're technically not going out), he won't let them get to him.

Guys aren't as shallow as girls take them for (although some really can be), so I don't think him jumping the sluts is that big of an issue, unless he really is one of those super shallow guys. I know plenty of guys in my school who absolutely detest the "easy sluts" and can't stand them.

But anyways, HE was the one to ask you out, so I don't think you should worry that much. Unless he's a playboy. Also, you guys aren't technically going out, so if you're really worried about him being with other chicks, just make it official.

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