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*icci
writes:Hello :)Basically, i had my first kiss last night, and i'm buzzing.It was at a party and i was talking to this guy for about 2 hours, playing a little hard to get and then it kinda happened.However, this guy is two years younger than me (hes very mature and very attractive).What is the usual procedure after getting with someone at a party? Do you stay in touch, or forget about it... or? Don't want to seem desperate, but i dont want to forget it either if you get me. Any experiences would be amazing!Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2012): probably nothing will happen. A kiss is just a kiss.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2012): This is the poster---
Im actually 16 and hes 14. Lol.
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female
reader, Vicci +, writes (4 February 2012):
Vicci is verified as being by the original poster of the question I didn't tell him my last name which is probably the thing that kept him interested, so he might have got the jist i dont want to be contacted or something haha.
I know him vaguely in real life.
In any case, i've thought about it today and i'm really grateful i enjoyed my first kiss because most of my friends didn't theirs.
Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2012): I get what you're saying.Make yourself available, but don't chase him to the ends of this earth.If you didn't exchange numbers, facebook him or something, ask him if he's free anytime soon.Warning: don't build this up too much. It could have just been a make out at a party for this dude.On the other hand, I think it's stupid to say that just because he kissed you at a party doesn't mean he doesn't want to meet again. So like I said, make yourself available, but don't stalk him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2012): Glad you enjoyed your first kiss.People do this at parties and are often never seen again. If he wanted to see you again he would ask for your phone number.Now you will know for next time, and if he contacts you well that will be a bonus.
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reader, Confused_123 +, writes (4 February 2012):
Did you get his number afterwards or know him in real life? Wait and see if he gets into contact with you and if you're interested in him and he doesn't, maybe text him or something saying hi. If it doesn't work out, it wasn't meant to be and I'm sure you'll find someone else in the future. :)
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