Is it normal for a two-year-old to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest?
Q. Is it normal for a two year old girl to want to nap/sleep/lay on her dad's chest? She's definitely a daddy's girl but a friend of mine told me she shouldn't want to lay on him. As soon as he lays down even if she's not going down for a nap or rea...
A. 12 July 2011: Don't listen to your friend. Does she even have kids? Like WTH?? Yes it is normal for a baby to want to cuddle up with a parent...sheesh.... (read in full...)
My mom and stepdad are blaming me for their stresses. What can I do?
Q. Recently my mum has been under huge amounts of stress from work and the legal issues my dad has cause. Increasingly, I find that I've become her emotional punching bag for every big or small issue she has. Today, I wasn't standing up straight in the ...
A. 12 July 2011: It sounds like they have a lot of anomosity for your real dad and it is majorly spilling out on to you when they interact with you. I agree with the other reader that answered here--Can you call your real dad and possibly stay with him? This ... (read in full...)
Could all of these signals mean that he likes me?
Q. Why does he stares at me? I really like him:)? Am new at work place. and my first time I saw a guy there, I thought he was nice. We got chatting he's really nice always trying to help me. He was chewing and I asked him for a gum, he didn't...
A. 12 July 2011: Never mix professional with personal! It will make the work place VERY uncomfortable if you two hook up and then decide to break up. ... (read in full...)
Can you use body lotion as an anal lube?
Q. I run out of anal lube. Can you use the brand Vaseline face and body lotion as anal lube? My girlfriend is really concern and I need an answers soon. Please help me asap!...
A. 12 July 2011: NO!!!... (read in full...)
What should I get my girl to show her I've missed her.
Q. Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for four months. She went on a road trip across the country for two months and a I haven't seen her since. She gets back in September...and I want to surprise her with something, Like a gift...but I don't ...
A. 12 July 2011: You could also try to draw her a picture of something pretty if you're into drawing that is...... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my friend's girlfriend and she's giving me the impression that she loves me too. Could this be true?
Q. so im in love with my friends girlfriends. and to make it clear im not doing anything to break them up i don't want to ok. right so i told this girl that i liked her and that i had really strong feelings for her. but what im wondering is doe...
A. 12 July 2011: Nope. You are in the 'friend zone'. Sorry. Trust me though, it's better that way. You don't want to date a girl that would be willing to leave/cheat on her man to be with you because that would mean that she likely has some personal issues and is ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was staring at another woman!
Q. Am I the only woman to think it is disrespectful for your date to be staring at other women while out on a date with you? I have never had a man do this before. Most men are smart enough to at least hide it. But my boyfriend of several years and I ...
A. 12 July 2011: and i'm saying this in response to your latest update on here b.t.w.....i know that i would be very hurt if my man was exhibiting behaviors like groping a relative's bum (and not just once but 3 times!) or bringing a random chick home for a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend was staring at another woman!
Q. Am I the only woman to think it is disrespectful for your date to be staring at other women while out on a date with you? I have never had a man do this before. Most men are smart enough to at least hide it. But my boyfriend of several years and I ...
A. 12 July 2011: Leave him. He's scum and he doesn't deserve you. This man (boy-a real man won't treat you this way) clearly has little to no respect for you or your feelings. If you value your sanity, you will get out of there. Now!... (read in full...)
Will he ever leave her for me or am I just being selfish ?
Q. I realize how this all sounds and I know the easy answer will be leave him; but I need some honesty. I have been dating a guy 10 yrs older than me for a year now. We met at work, planned to hook up once and that's it. Somehow once became twice, an...
A. 12 July 2011: Find a single guy!... (read in full...)
Will he ever leave her for me or am I just being selfish ?
Q. I realize how this all sounds and I know the easy answer will be leave him; but I need some honesty. I have been dating a guy 10 yrs older than me for a year now. We met at work, planned to hook up once and that's it. Somehow once became twice, an...
A. 12 July 2011: He still just wants sex. Any guy will say they love you to get it...it happens all the time. You are being selfish. Also, if he will treat her like this then he will treat you like this too. ... (read in full...)
What should I get my girl to show her I've missed her.
Q. Well, my girlfriend and I have been together for four months. She went on a road trip across the country for two months and a I haven't seen her since. She gets back in September...and I want to surprise her with something, Like a gift...but I don't ...
A. 12 July 2011: Get her flowers! Girls always love flowers! It's fail proof! I have been with my guy for 9 years and I still absolutely love getting flowers from him!... (read in full...)
How will my Daughter react to meeting her father ?
Q. Okay so I have a two year old daughter with a man who (and yes I know this sounds trashy) I slept with for a few months and was friends with. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits situation. We were not in a relationship although I did ...
A. 12 July 2011: she has a right to know who he is.... (read in full...)
How will my Daughter react to meeting her father ?
Q. Okay so I have a two year old daughter with a man who (and yes I know this sounds trashy) I slept with for a few months and was friends with. I guess you could call it a friends with benefits situation. We were not in a relationship although I did ...
A. 12 July 2011: you have to let them meet. if you don't give her the chance to know her father (even if you don't like him or have issues or w/e) she will resent you later. trust me on this one.... (read in full...)
Do women really enjoy having fingers in their mouths?
Q. A common thing in porn is for the man to put his fingers in the mouth of the woman during foreplay. I have never done this in my sex life. Is this something women enjoy? ...
A. 12 July 2011: No. There are a lot of things that are done in porn that women do not 'actually' enjoy.... (read in full...)
What are the early signs of emotional abuse?
Q. What are the early signs of emotional abuse? ...
A. 11 July 2011: Very Early Warning Sign #1: A Blamer Avoid anyone who blames his negative feelings and bad luck on someone else. Special care is necessary here, as blamers can be really seductive in dating. Their blame of others can make you look great by comparis... (read in full...)
He's telling people on Facebook our problems!!!
Q. Dear Cupid, If a couple is supposed to or better yet, if a couple SHOULD keep whatever happens between them, wouldn't that include not chatting about your problems to other people on Facebook? Yesterday, me and my boyfriend had several pretty s...
A. 11 July 2011: hmmm...chatting to a random girl he met online trying to make you look bad.....this is a red flag! minimizing the chat window so that you can't see--another red flag!! this sounds like the behavior of a cheater or someone who is planning on ... (read in full...)
Why do my sexual feelings subside?
Q. I masturbate when I'm bored sometimes, I find it relaxing. When I get to an extreme point and I cum, I then have no feeling for sex or anything dealing with sex, you know how some people go for round 2. My sexual feeling goes away right after I've ...
A. 11 July 2011: Don't worry. That's normal. You just climaxed. That's all :)... (read in full...)
Embarrassed about online dating
Q. Recently I met a really nice guy through online dating and I'm too embarrassed to admit it to anyone. I haven't even told anyone about him. When I go out, I tell my parents (yes I still live at home at 22. Grad students don't get paid that much) ...
A. 11 July 2011: I would probably keep quiet for a bit until you know whether or not you and this guy are serious about each other...Don't be embarrassed about online dating. Lot's of people do it and it's getting very popular these days.... (read in full...)
Does he like me even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I have a guy friend. I met him at the start of the year and we instantly started talking. You could say it was typical fairytale love at first site. I was doing my library duty which I was told to do by the school. He came in, with a big stack of ...
A. 11 July 2011: He didn't tell you he had a girlfriend in the beginning--that's a red flag to me. Do you really want to date a guy that seems to have no regard for his current girlfriend? he will only do the same thing to you. Also, if they are having issues within ... (read in full...)
Do I have a right to be morally offended by the way people are reaction to my display of affection to my boyfriend over the internet???
Q. I was on facebook and posted on my wall about how happy I am and how I think i am even more in love with my boyfriend then before.. the problem is all of his friends are commenting on it and saying thinks "like how is that possiable" and "I want ...
A. 11 July 2011: Tell him about how the friends are treating you. If he cares about you and respects you then he will handle it. It sounds like his friends don't really have much respect for him if they are talking to you like that. You can also block them.... (read in full...)
My friend is texting my man telling him she likes him , how should I react to this ?
Q. I have been in a wonderful relationship with a great guy for about two and a half months. Honestly, I haven't felt this in love/loved before in my life. Sure there are little things, but everything has been wonderful until a recent issue and it ...
A. 11 July 2011: Tell her to back off immediately!!! I have been through this exact situation before...he might even have to tell her to back off himself--if he has respect for you he will do this. She might not listen the first few times that you yourself tell her ... (read in full...)
My husband keeps taking money from our account!
Q. I just found out my husband took 3,000.00 from our account over the weekend and did not tell me. I found out when i went to pay my mortage of 2,800.00; there was 500.00 left in the account but he continued to use his debit card and now there is only ...
A. 11 July 2011: it sounds like he has a sugar baby or something....interesting that you trust him when he keeps secretly taking large amounts of money from your bank account and lying about it!!... (read in full...)
My gf's vagina seems "loose"; does this mean she is not a virgin?
Q. I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be ...
A. 10 July 2011: girls don't get loose from having sex. this is medically proven. i really wish people would let go of that annoying little myth...a girls vagina is very elastic and always goes back to it's normal size...if it didn't then women who have babies would ... (read in full...)
Why is it when I sleep around I don't feel happy about doing it?
Q. I have recently split up with my girlfriend but it was on good terms and we are still talking. She said to me before that she found commitment hard and that I was the only person she had ever really committed to despite her having sex with 3 peopl...
A. 10 July 2011: also, sex is supposed to be a special bond that a couple shares and when people have lots of casual sex, it sort of cheapens it and reduces it to a mere physical activity...... (read in full...)
Why is it when I sleep around I don't feel happy about doing it?
Q. I have recently split up with my girlfriend but it was on good terms and we are still talking. She said to me before that she found commitment hard and that I was the only person she had ever really committed to despite her having sex with 3 peopl...
A. 10 July 2011: I really admire your post. It's very well written and to answer your question....you are a little different to most people in society but in a good way--a really good way. Stay that way; if you ever get married your wife will be very appreciative of ... (read in full...)
Is he just a flirt? Or worth chasing?
Q. There is this guy in my office... Very good looking,intelligent and dashing...but flirtatious... I was attracted to him...the first day i saw him...but that is it...i was very much happy with my 3 yrs old relationship... he always tried to str...
A. 10 July 2011: Don't chase him. If he is interested, he will chase you.... (read in full...)
I just don't know how to stop 'trying so hard'!
Q. Hey Everybody. Okay, I screw up everything I do or try to do. And I don't know why or how. I find myself unhappy 24/7. I don't know why I don't deserve happiness. I had a girlfriend who dumped me. She said I 'tried' to hard. That I should s...
A. 10 July 2011: Just relax and be yourself! You sound so wound up...ever thought of aroma therapy? just a suggestion...... (read in full...)
He told me there's no spark, just sex, so why was he standing there completely naked?
Q. hi all Just a quick question theres this guy ive liked for nearly a year now and i finelly had the courage to tell him i like him, but he replied there is nothing wrong woth me and he knew i liked him there was just no spark there for him, e...
A. 10 July 2011: like the guy said...he just wants sex.... (read in full...)
I don't want to get with my friend in case it ruins our friendship, but part of me is thinking "try it". What should I do?
Q. I've started having feelings towards a really close friend of mine, we've been friends for almost 8 years. He's told me he loves me, like more than friends and we both like eachother but i dont know what to do. I dont want to get with him incase i...
A. 10 July 2011: Some of the best relationships start out as friendships. If you're going to marry someone they need to be your true love and your best friend. Just something to think about. Also, you're young and if things don't work out with you two it wasn't ... (read in full...)
I don't want an open relationship anymore but my partner has a problem with commitment.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 and a half years. We've seen eachother through really rough times and we do love eachother, but we decided to have an open relationship. I don't want an open relationship anymore though but he has a ...
A. 10 July 2011: If you don't want an open relationship anymore and he simply cannot commit than the logical thing for you to do would be to walk away. If you stay in that relationship without actually wanting it to be open anymore; you're going to get hurt.... (read in full...)
Partner of 17 years dumped me and then found someone else within three weeks. Will I ever recover from the hurt?
Q. I was with my ex Partner for 17 years, when she dumped me and then found someone else within three weeks. It's had really hurt me and it been a few years now but I still think about her. Will I ever recover. She hasnt made contact since the day she ...
A. 10 July 2011: I can see how this would be a huge blow to your ego but think about it this way...if she moved on that quickly what do you think your relationship really meant to her and would you want to spend/waste anymore time with a person so callous?? could ... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend's behavior mean he really doesn't care about hurting me, or is he just callous?
Q. I've jst moved back in with my boyfriend, after a few weeks away for studies and a couple of years of on off, because of this. I love him but I'm really not happy back with him. The reason for this is, he seems to be carrying on his life as if I'm ...
A. 10 July 2011: make yourself unavailable to him. right now, it seems like you are making yourself to available to him. ... (read in full...)
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