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writes:I was with my ex Partner for 17 years, when she dumped me and then found someone else within three weeks. It's had really hurt me and it been a few years now but I still think about her. Will I ever recover. She hasnt made contact since the day she dumped me in a cruel way.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (10 July 2011):
 My wife of 20 years, plus the three prior years as live-in lovers, up and left me some 15 years ago when I was about 46-years-old. I'm still getting over it. It is the idea that we would be life-long partners that I so lament, however.
Due to the cruel way she left me in debt, with last minute expenditures that took weeks and months to fully realize, I cannot possibly rue the loss of the particular person. Yet, my finances never fully recovered and my life path was altered.
So, the only condolence that I can offer for you is to realize that you made a mistake in the selection to begin with, as did I, and learn to live with it.
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reader, van1llabeeen87 +, writes (10 July 2011):
 I can see how this would be a huge blow to your ego but think about it this way...if she moved on that quickly what do you think your relationship really meant to her and would you want to spend/waste anymore time with a person so callous?? could also mean though that maybe she's hurt and this is her way of dealing with it; in other words--rebound.
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