She said my penis was "kinda thin". What is normal and what can I do?
Q. I was with this girl and she told me that my penis' erect length (4.7 inches) was just fine, but that it was "kinda thin"... My penis is about 4 inches in girth and 1.5 inches wide when fully erect. I read somewhere the average was 6 inches in ...
A. 23 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
I agree with everyone that losing weight will reduce the fat deposits around the shaft making it "look" longer. It depends on where you measured it from. I had what i considered a short penis. I found this technique on the internet call... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm gay...but I've had sexual intercourse with other men
Q. Ok, to go right into this. I consider myself a straight male, heterosexual and love woman; however, there comes a time where I find myself fantasizing about have sexual intercourse with men. I have participated in gay sex and i was in the receiving ...
A. 23 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
You're normal. It feels good to receive anal from another guy. ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart 2 years ago, we had sex, and now he's awkward around me!
Q. I'm gay and I just had sex with a guy who broke my heart 2 years ago. I used to like this guy a lot after he confessed to me that he's gay. We were friends at first but I did cross the line asking him out but he said he's not looking for dating ...
A. 23 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Sounds like he is very unsure of what he wants. He's right if he does something with you you'll get that false hope that he's talking about. Good for you to not try anything with him. Find the right guy for yourself. Right now its ... (read in full...)
Is race REALLY still an issue for some people in regards to dating and relationships?
Q. I am writing about a controversial topic: race. My inquiry today is in regards to the fact that I find it disturbing that some people still think race is an issue in regards to dating and relationships in today's modern society. Let me expalin my ...
A. 19 March 2010: Most of the people in the world are ignorant and only believe what they do because their parents believed it, or someone they look up to believes a certain way. So we have severe generational dysfunction. Ronald Reagan addressed the UN council in ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy???
Q. How do I tell my girlfriend I want to try sex with a guy?...
A. 19 March 2010: You have to be honest with her. Tell her you have feelings that might hurt her. And then tell her what they are.... (read in full...)
Height verses penis size!
Q. okay, the girl i am dating now is around 5'5" and very good shape. She has a very nice body not fat not too skinny. but my question is i am 6' tall with a 6" length and 5" width penis. is there any way that her being that little that i might hurt ...
A. 19 March 2010: Height doesn't matter.... (read in full...)
She says she doesn't want anal, but she seems to want it.
Q. I spoke with my GF recently about fantasies we shared some. She has known for sometime I want to have anal sex, however, I absolutely respected her choice not to. Fine, not a huge deal, as a relationship is caring about your partner not forcing ...
A. 11 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Anal is not painful if its done right. First you are working her up to it with your finger, use lots of lube, Next slip a couple fingers in and get her used to that. If you go ramming things in when the person isn't relaxed, thats when... (read in full...)
Do you think there's a reason for him demanding all this attention?
Q. Hi I'm a 15 year old guy and in a very loving relationship with my 17 year old bf J. Everything is great, we've been going out for a little over 2 months and i care deeply for him. Well lately he's been really attached to me, and having more ...
A. 11 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
If you want to and you're ready for it, go for it. If you're not, tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable about going that far right now. If he loves you he'll respect that. He might be unhappy about it, but he'll get over it. As ... (read in full...)
Falling for middle aged men.
Q. (by the way I am a teenage boy)Ever since I was little I've been in love with guys (the same gender). It wasn't normal though. It was always guys in their middle ages (30-50) and a few select of them. I liked guys with beards, rugged features, ...
A. 10 March 2010: well, your 14 so maybe its just confusion. Try both out and see what you're really interested in, maybe both sexes. There is nothing wrong with being gay or bi, you are normal. ... (read in full...)
Long-term damage from anal?
Q. Hi I was just reading some questions about anal sex and it said that anal sex can damage you in later life. Well I have had anal sex and have been doing so for a few years. I don't do it very often - about once a month. I was wondering if I could ...
A. 10 March 2010: happy to help!... (read in full...)
How do I end this affair? And should I tell my wife?
Q. I'm a married to a lovely wife with 2 fantastic children. I never thought cheating on my wife,never. But last January i met a single woman during a work project, we have a chat and we exchanged our phones. till there i was doing my job, nothing was ...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Wow, so we have advice from someone telling you to follow Billy Graham's policy but also telling you to lie. Thats the contradiction that keeps me out of ANY church. Be a good person and do the right thing, thats what will clear your... (read in full...)
My penis sometimes won't get hard.
Q. my penis is some times not getting much harder, and it not getting hard enough for sex...... wat to do ??...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
I think you need to give more info here. if you want a good answer.... (read in full...)
Unsure about having a MMF threesome.
Q. Ok, we have had discussions of having a threesome, but always decide that realistically it's best left as a fantasy. Ok, fine...wrong. I find lately my dreams are constantly on the subject. Sometimes I am turned on about it, sometimes it pis...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
What exactly is it about her blowing another guy with you there that makes you so hot? Is it the fact that you are watching her or the fact that you are watching him. You need to be real with yourself too when you answer. Contrary to t... (read in full...)
Long-term damage from anal?
Q. Hi I was just reading some questions about anal sex and it said that anal sex can damage you in later life. Well I have had anal sex and have been doing so for a few years. I don't do it very often - about once a month. I was wondering if I could ...
A. 10 March 2010: Wow, I don't want to sound rude but everyone saying i've never experienced it but, here's my two cents worth, thats rediculous. I frequently enjoy receiving anal sex from other guys as well as dildos for 15 years. I have a large dildo that i use ... (read in full...)
Is my penis too small to have sex?
Q. hey me and my girlfriend have planned to have sex next weekend but my penis is only 5.5 inches long what should i do ...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
If your 15 and she is around the same age its likely that she will be just fine with your size. You'll probably grow a little more. You can check out the Jelq method of massaging your penis, it gave me a few extra inches.... (read in full...)
Penis panic!!!
Q. Hi, i am an 18 year old lad and i am a bit worried about what i have seen on my penis. When i pull my forskin back there are little red dots on my bell end and ive never had this before so am just wondering if there is anything wrong? I dont sleep ...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Yeah not to put down my american friend, who was kind enough to do some research for you. But Folliculitis would mean that there are hair follicles that are irritated. There are no hair follicles under a foreskin or on the head of the ... (read in full...)
Are STD tests normally so expensive?
Q. Ok, I just recently visited my girl, and while there one thing led to another and we got reckless. I ended up having unprotected sex with her, and I haven't ever had a blood test for STD's. So that is weighing on my mind bad. I would never b...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Not sure what state you are in but here in PA we have the department of health offices that can take care of you as far as testing. For future reference, maybe your state has something similar. Some STD's take awhile to show up and ... (read in full...)
Shaven or not?
Q. A simple question to ask, for both males and females if you please: Shaven pubic region or unshaven pubic region? I myself find shaven definitely more preferable, and don't say you like both, because you are bound to like one at least sligh...
A. 10 March 2010: i like my balls shaved ... (read in full...)
Why does my foreskin not retract? And why did I not ejaculate after two hours of sex?
Q. I have found that the one time i had sex, my foreskin did not retract and i also didnt ejaculate after 2 hours of constant sex The reason im asking why this is a problem is because of the simple fact of.. When i masturbate i can choose when to e...
A. 10 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Your foreskin won't retract because the end of it is a sphincter, it needs to be stretched to be able to come back all the way. underneath the foreskin there is another piece of skin called the frenulum that will also play a part in this... (read in full...)
Suggestions for lube?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been enjoying tit wanks for a while now and she's really good at them but was wondering about maybe using some lube in the future but are unsure what type to use. Any suggestions?...
A. 9 March 2010: Hey buddy, if you've been together three years, get wild, whipped cream and chocolate syrup! ... (read in full...)
Falling for middle aged men.
Q. (by the way I am a teenage boy)Ever since I was little I've been in love with guys (the same gender). It wasn't normal though. It was always guys in their middle ages (30-50) and a few select of them. I liked guys with beards, rugged features, ...
A. 9 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
Yeah I agree with everyone else. its completely normal to have a crush and a fantasy about older guys when you're that age. Maybe its looking for that father figure, or maybe its cause you think he's hot in his volleyball shorts. But ... (read in full...)
SOS: In a relationship but in love with teen girls!
Q. Greetings to all on DearCupid: I'm 21, from Miami (Florida, not Ohio), and I have an internal issue involving whether I should stay in love with my 19-year-old long-distance girlfriend I've met on a social gaming site about a month ago, or fa...
A. 9 March 2010: Wow, if you had to do that much research to see if it was legal, you know its wrong. You're trying to justify being with a 16 year old girl. And you even cited Wikipedia, clearly the worlds foremost authority on statutory rape. ... (read in full...)
I've got the opposite problem to most. So how can I come sooner?
Q. I know this is an odd problem, and most guys would ask why I'm complaining, but what can I do if I'm lasting way too long in bed? I'm not very sensitive down there to begin with, and wearing condoms only makes this worse. Whenever I get with my ...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
you could consider milking your prostate. This will involve either sticking a finger up your butt and massaging the prostate or a dildo or something like that. Lots of guys do this to make themselves ejaculate quicker and stronger.... (read in full...)
I think I had unrealistic expectations of what a relationship should be
Q. I'm currently in a relationship with a girl (I'm 17 and shes 16, I'm a junior she's a sophomore)l that I do really like but lately things just haven't been working out. I think I may have found the exact reason why... This is actually my firs...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey buddy,
If you want a relationship with her you need to tell her exactly what you are asking us. Communicate with her. She might be feeling the same way you are and is just as afraid as you are to say something. If the relationship ends then... (read in full...)
I need some tips on anal sex!
Q. Hi Aunts. I hope no one will be offended by my question. My boyfriend and I would like to try anal sex. I like the idea and am excited about it but I am just secretly worried that there will be p** on him or that it would smell or there might be ...
A. 8 March 2010: Anal is great. make sure that when he starts to push his penis in, you push out like you are going to take a crap. this will relax the anal sphincter and allow him to enter fairly easy. then have him use lots of lube at first and when you are ... (read in full...)
Do girls actually think this way about the penis size?
Q. I was talking with a girl (not a girlfriend) about relationships and stuff and when we were talking about the sexual aspect and stuff about how sex is an important part one, she brought up something about penis size. Well I, being the honest(lol) ...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey buddy, 4 inches IS on the small side. I used the jelq method and added several inches to mine. I started with 5 and now have 8 and did this in my 20's so you can do it too.... (read in full...)
My girl won't please me the way I want her to!
Q. Should I break up with my girl if she won't give me the pleasure I want? She's always making up excuses so as not to do what I want and, just for the record, I always give her whatever she wants, even without her having to ask me for it....
A. 8 March 2010: if she isn't into the kind of sex you want, it'll be difficult to maintain a long term relationship with her. ... (read in full...)
Sex with my friend's mum!!!
Q. i want to have sex with my frinds mom and she has a guy. how can i hook up with her? she is about 30-37 and i am 20. help!!!!! her boobs are so hot !! how can i stop this ? I dont want to do it but she looks at me like she wants it to!!! ...
A. 8 March 2010: find some girl your age. doing her will only cause problems.... (read in full...)
What is he up to? Does he sound dodgy to you?
Q. Help!! A man contacted me from a dating site that i am listed; we sent friendly email back and forth for about one week; this man never asked about me or my life be just talked about what he wants in a woman and he also disclosed that his prev ...
A. 8 March 2010: well, if you meet him you're crazy! You might end up being a sex slave in dubai or something. Don't be so desperate that you need a crazy like that guy. he is a predator and you ae prey. watch out! ... (read in full...)
Am I fooled by my girlfriend? Is she unfaithful?
Q. Hello Guys, I am in a great dilemma , I really need your advice and help. I was going around with a girl (i met through a frnd) for last 6 months. she was intense in the relationship with me and even asked me for marriage, she is extremely emotio...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey Buddy,
If the two of you agreed to break up then just break up. If she's seeing other guys, your relationship with her is over. You've got to move on.... (read in full...)
How can I give my boyfriend a blowjob without hurting him?
Q. My boyfriend has phimosis which means he can't pull his foreskin back without it hurting him. I want to give him a blow job but am unsure how to do this because of the phimosis and I really don't want to hurt him. Any ideas on the best way to do ...
A. 8 March 2010: wow don't have him get circumcised. he needs to work on stretching the frenulum and foreskin. He can use some topical anesthetic like ambesol (yeah its for your teeth and gums but its what i used, and it worked) He needs to work to strech the ... (read in full...)
Is my foreskin OK?
Q. Hi, I am 14 years old and i am concerned about the fact that my foreskin does not overlap my penis' head...is there something wrong with my foreskin or am I just being paranoid...
A. 8 March 2010: hey buddy, its just fine. you are lucky you won't have a hard time pulling it all the way back. My foreskin covers the head completely and when i was young had a hard time pulling it all the way back. ... (read in full...)
How do you give a hand job to an uncircumsized penis?
Q. this is quite a personal question but i am really desperate to have it answered so i hope someone will be able to. when you give a guy who is uncircumsized a hand job, do you just do it over their foreskin or do you roll the foreskin back or...
A. 8 March 2010: if a guy has a tight foreskin it can be painful. I like mine pulled way back and then slid all the way foreward in long strokes. Some lube will help the foreskin move easily. and once the guy streches the sphincter at the end of his foreskin and ... (read in full...)
He asked if I would wear a strap on and take him from behind?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months now. We were fine at first but now.... He has started asking really difficult sexual favours from me. He recently asked me if i would wear and strap on and take him from behind?!?! I didnt know what ...
A. 8 March 2010: Thats awesome. The anus and rectum are designed the same in a woman as they are in a man. if properly stimulated it feels good. Most people think that if a guy likes it up the butt that he is gay and he might be, but if he says you satisfy him ... (read in full...)
How do I stop a leaky penis..it's a bit embarrassing! Any tips?
Q. Hi, I have 2 questions both about my sex organ, yes, the male penis :O Im 19 and so is my girlfriend, im a virgin, though shes not. The first problem is i get a little wet down below when we have a little fun, im not prematurley ejaculatig, j...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey Buddy, To answer the first. Some guys "leak" pre ejaculatory fluid alot. I do too. I'm uncut and it keeps everything naturally lubed, but it also does something else. In the fluid is a naturally occuring numbing agent to keep you from ... (read in full...)
Light bleeding after sex...is it because he's too large?
Q. My boyfriend and I began to have sex about 4-3 months ago and we didn't have any problems. The first time we had sex I was definitly aware he was bigger than the person I had sex with, before. The first 2-3 months the sex did not last as long as now ...
A. 8 March 2010: Lube is a wonderful thing, there is too much friction between your vagina and his penis. Its like getting a carpet burn, and if it continues makes you more vulnerable to infection. Get some lube to make things slide better.... (read in full...)
People comment my size in the shower.
Q. I play football and sometimes after practice or games we take showers and every time someone points out how big my penis is. is there such thing as having to big of a penis...
A. 8 March 2010: Hey Buddy, They're just envious. Be glad you're hung and enjoy the comments. They wouldn't comment every time unless they liked seeing it. ... (read in full...)
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