A
male
age
36-40,
*r Folk84
writes:Hello Guys, I am in a great dilemma , I really need your advice and help.I was going around with a girl (i met through a frnd) for last 6 months. she was intense in the relationship with me and even asked me for marriage, she is extremely emotional.now past 1 month , we are trying for break up. and almost we have done that .(It was hard to break off,as she did much of crying and all.)Now we are just friends. My dilemma is - Has she cheated me ? or still cheating me as a friend ?I m rite now out of the country , last nite we were talking (usually we talk daily) she told me that she was staying for the nite at other guys place (her new good frnd Mr 'X' (works at her ofc).She is friends with him for last 4 months.She has been hanging out with this guy at night, even when we were in the relationship.She has another old friend (4 yrs old friendship) MR 'y' .Even when I and she were into the intense relationship , she stayed with Mr Y at hotel, When Mr y visited this place. Sometime back when i was not in town , she stayed with him for 3 days together.She usually asks for money jokingly and and sometimes necessarily, saying she ll return , but she doesnt gives it back as i dont ask her to pay back.Even these days she asks how much money i am earning , and jokingly says that money u ll give to me.once while chatting , Jokingly she told i m into relationship with you just for getting phusical and getting some money. Now I am wondering , That have i been cheated big time? Is she still making a fool out of me , geting some benfits of my simplistic attitude ?Is she a whore? Does she wants to sleep with people and get benefits in money as well as in kinds? OR AM I thinking too much and She is not taking advantage of me??
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reader, Mr Folk84 +, writes (8 March 2010):
Mr Folk84 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks uncutdan . rightly said.
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reader, uncutdan  +, writes (8 March 2010):
 Hey Buddy,
If the two of you agreed to break up then just break up. If she's seeing other guys, your relationship with her is over. You've got to move on.
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