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I've got the opposite problem to most. So how can I come sooner?

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Question - (8 March 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know this is an odd problem, and most guys would ask why I'm complaining, but what can I do if I'm lasting way too long in bed? I'm not very sensitive down there to begin with, and wearing condoms only makes this worse. Whenever I get with my girlfriend, she will usually end up cuming a couple times but gets tired before I'm done. It's not that I'm not turned on or anything like that, but what can I do to cum sooner, or make myself more sensitive?

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A male reader, lovetokissyou Canada +, writes (9 March 2010):

I know there are creams that you can use so try going to a sex shop or talk to your doctor about that, another thing to try is get you lady to give you oral sex or jack you off just close enough befor u cum that will help in some cases, I too take a long time in cumming so I know but my wife says thats a great thing she can have 4 or 5 orgasams by the time IM ready to cum . I dont have a problem with it I think im one of the lucky few . Its all in your head sometimes so think of things that make u feel good that could help too.. later hope u cum soon

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A male reader, uncutdan United States +, writes (8 March 2010):

uncutdan agony auntHey Buddy,

you could consider milking your prostate. This will involve either sticking a finger up your butt and massaging the prostate or a dildo or something like that. Lots of guys do this to make themselves ejaculate quicker and stronger.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (8 March 2010):

Yos agony auntFirst thing to try: avoid masturbating for several days before you see here.

Second thing: http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/sex_and_sexual_health/probs_difficultyejaculating.shtml

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