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writes: Hi I'm a 15 year old guy and in a very loving relationship with my 17 year old bf J. Everything is great, we've been going out for a little over 2 months and i care deeply for him. Well lately he's been really attached to me, and having more physical contact, like kissing more often, holding hands, and etc. I don't mind, i like it, but he isn't usually like that. Do you think there's a reason for him demanding all this attention? Am I not paying attention to him enough? Lately he's been getting really sexual. And he's asked to perform oral on me. I mean I'm sure I'd enjoy it but I've never done anything like that before. Am I supposed to just sit there and let him do that to me or what? I don't know. Any advise and thoughts you have on this is deeply appreciated. thank you
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reader, uncutdan +, writes (11 March 2010):
 Hey Buddy,
If you want to and you're ready for it, go for it. If you're not, tell him that you are feeling uncomfortable about going that far right now. If he loves you he'll respect that. He might be unhappy about it, but he'll get over it. As far as demanding attention, its just natural to want to take the relationship further. He's curious about sex with you. Just be careful, your relationship might get tricky next year if you are having sex. He will be 18 and you will be considered underage for him (which may be a reason his interest is high right now). So if you aren't ready for sex with him that might be something in your favor to discuss with him. Like i said though it could cause problems with your relationship too. Be sure to talk to him about it. Hope that helps some
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