I'm starting to really like my brother's gf! What should I do?
Q. I'm 18 and I went up to see my brother and he introduced me to his girlfriend she was gorgeous she's 20 and my brother is 27 so her and I instantly hit it off being in the same age bracket. We would wrestle sometimes and my brother would laugh one ...
A. 10 November 2006: dont do it this is your brothers girlfriend! blood is thicker than water. Ask yourself this question could you bear to never speak to your brother again? because that is what will more than likely happen and if it did work out between you and the ... (read in full...)
My ex prefers her ex over me! Advice please!
Q. Hi i came on here about a month ago to ask some advice and need alittle more! quick recap. Me and my ex of 4 1/2yrs split 10 weeks ago we have 2 kids (2 1/2 yrs old and 8mnths) we have moved into our first place 2 months prior to splitting and have ...
A. 10 November 2006: i know it seems like i am trying to take control but i was not let me answer a few of your replies.
I know i could not handle her ex going around while i am at work is that so wrong? he was her first love, she did not speak to him for 5 years an... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 8 August 2006: ok here goes on sunday i arranged for my parents to have the children in the morning, i dropped them off very early when H was still in bed, i got back to the house and perpared a really nice breakfast and laid rose petals from the bed all the way ... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 3 August 2006: i will be asking her on sunday so fingers crossed!! i will let you know what the outcome is and how i proposed! thankyou everyone... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 3 August 2006: thankyou and im sorry to hear for your breakup i went through the same thing with my partner 3 months ago but we sorted it out and are now closer than ever so there is always hope! i just know i want to be with her forever i love seeing her in the ... (read in full...)
What's a romantic way to ask my girlfriend to marry me?
Q. Hi, can anyone tell me a nice romantic way to ask someone to marry you? I love my girlfriend and want to ask her to marry me. I can't take her away becasue of the kids, and I don't have the most money in the world, but would like to really romance ...
A. 3 August 2006: sounds good but there is no-where like that around here :( we like going out for dinner but that seems "too conventional" and i would like to make this really special for her.... (read in full...)
How can I make understand my husband that it's over?
Q. I just quite can´t reach him by talking to him. After 10 years of marriage I want to move on, to be alone! I feel trapped and stuck with him. I have been thinking about leave him years ago, but maybe in my soul I don´t want to break his heart. He ...
A. 1 August 2006: you have to ask yourself one very important question do you want to be with him? if you feel therapy will help you TELL him its that or you leave.be forcefull but at the same time do seem as though you are telling him. if he is not willing to work ... (read in full...)
I got back with my ex and think this time it can work, but shes in contact with her previous ex should I be concerned.....
Q. hi i posted on here a while ago about me and what was my ex. we have managed to sort things out and i have moved back in etc.. i really think we can be happy as i love her so much i just have 2 quick questions. first is that she started to contact ...
A. 1 August 2006: sorry i didnt post the reasons , we have been together for 4 1/2 years and have 2 lovely children together, we parted but none of us cheated we had just moved into a new home (our first home) and i think that was alittle too much on our ... (read in full...)
I work with my ex boyfriend, I ended as I didnt trust him, I think hes seeing someone else at work!!
Q. I work w my exboyfriend. We broke up a couple weeks ago because he was acting weird and I didn't trust him but work was fine. He swore he hadn't been with anyone new, I didn't really beleive it but I slept with him again the other day anyway. It was ...
A. 1 August 2006: your pride simple as that! move on and be happy... (read in full...)
Do you think she could be cheating or am I reading too much into it ?
Q. Is this just how my girlfriend is, or has she cheated on me? We've been dating for 2 years nearly and just bought out first property together. Things started to seem a little odd before this. She went out with some old friends one night m...
A. 1 August 2006: in my opinion she is acting too suspect if there was nothing to hide why is she hiding it? you need to confront her properly about this dont just take the garbage she is feeding you at the end of the day YOU are her partner and she needs to be ... (read in full...)
Why do men complain about the changes to women's bodies after childbirth?
Q. Why do men marry and have children with a woman only to later complain that her body has changed? I'm not talking about weight but rather the changes that come with pregnancy that are pretty much out of our control, like stretch marks and breast ...
A. 1 August 2006: you need to explain to this man that you have given him something VERY special and everything you have gone through he cant expect you to not have any signs from having a baby. my partner has had 2 children and yes she has stretch marks and has ... (read in full...)
I'm depressed - can anyone recommend websites where I can discuss my condition?
Q. I keep sending some questions to this site but I don't feel it is working because a) the questions are not submitted by the person as they are irrelevant (i.e. depression) and b) the answers people give me are not really good (no disrespect I've ...
A. 22 July 2006: you could try http://www.s8.createphpbb.com/lostlove
they deal with all sorts of problems incl depression. its a new site but dont be fooled quick answers and replies and totally FREE... (read in full...)
I fancy my boyfriends mate!
Q. hi, iv'e been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have a 11 mounth old baby,the problem is i fancy his best mate and i think he fancys me.when i see him he always make eye contact and he sometimes stares right into my eyes,if i talk to him he seems...
A. 20 July 2006: you should forget your BF best mate if you love your boyfriend and get on and be happy. you have a child together be responsible!... (read in full...)
Can a partner really be confused about their feelings?
Q. SORRY THIS IN LONG. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND NEED TO MAKE ANY HELPERS UNDERSTAND IT ALL IN ORDER TO UNDERSTAND THEN ADVICE Can a partner really be undecided about their feelings? Can "I am confused" be true or does it always mean they have f...
A. 20 July 2006: after having a baby a girls emotions can be in the air, i am not a girl but my ex partner and me have had 2 children so i know how it can affect them. a girl stops and looks at her life and how the child will effect it , ie not going out so much ... (read in full...)
I kissed another girl more than once behind my girls back, she ditched me, how can I get her back ?
Q. i recently kissed another girl on two separate nights while out drinking.my gf found out.she was so angry and hurt and called it off.i really want to be with her, and she still has feelings for me, we meet up and she lets me try and make it up to ...
A. 20 July 2006: i think the damage is done to be honest, she does not trust you and with good cause. she will probably always think that yo will cheat on her in the future if you go out and this will be a BIG issue. if you want her that bad try to show her you do ... (read in full...)
Advice from those people having affairs please.
Q. hello..a question to those of you having affairs(come on you know you're out there)i have begun an affair but have no intention of leaving my husband for my lover and neither does my lover want or expect me to. we are both happy about this decision ...
A. 19 July 2006: i personally think what your doing is wrong! if you love your husband try and find a way to get excitement with him.someone is going to end up getting hurt, because as soon as there are lies it leads to very bad heartache. in my opinion you should ... (read in full...)
My ex prefers her ex over me! Advice please!
Q. Hi i came on here about a month ago to ask some advice and need alittle more! quick recap. Me and my ex of 4 1/2yrs split 10 weeks ago we have 2 kids (2 1/2 yrs old and 8mnths) we have moved into our first place 2 months prior to splitting and have ...
A. 19 July 2006: i have explained to her that i love her so much and we have had lovely days out together, and she has realised i have changed but i know within myself it would not work if she was to continue seeing her ex if she was friends with him while we was ... (read in full...)
My ex prefers her ex over me! Advice please!
Q. Hi i came on here about a month ago to ask some advice and need alittle more! quick recap. Me and my ex of 4 1/2yrs split 10 weeks ago we have 2 kids (2 1/2 yrs old and 8mnths) we have moved into our first place 2 months prior to splitting and have ...
A. 18 July 2006: i forgot to add that we have still seen each other randomly through the breakup like me staying over going to the cinema but it was 2 nights ago she said about her ex yet she swears blind he is just a friend and she does not want ot loose him as ... (read in full...)
He dumped me but I want to get back, I know I was in the wrong, but I want him to give me another chance!!
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year dumped me on Wednesday.I am going on holiday on Saturday and on Friday, he might not have been able to see me because he might have a job interview in the day and at night he was going visting his friends in another town.He ...
A. 13 July 2006: i know this is hard to hear but give him SPACE if he does love you he will contact you. 1 year is a fair time to be with someone and unless he gave up on you a while ago he must be feeling some sort of hurt himself. i was in a recent experience and ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 12 July 2006: * BIG UPDATE * ok i was out to dinner last saturday and i got a text out of the blue from my ex asking if i had, had dinner i asked why and she said because she had made some and there was enough for one more person. i said sorry im out to dinner ... (read in full...)
Should I give her space or keep trying?
Q. Hello.Me and my girlfriend were in an amazing relationship, we were the couple that everyone thought that would always be together, we were strong as a rock. But she found out that she was moving,we made a plan that we wanted to try and make it ...
A. 11 July 2006: hi i recently split with g/f and i kept txting her and ringing etc.. and all i got was your pestering me and such i stopped last fri went out was talking to another girl and somehow she found out and was txting me sat to get back together! give her ... (read in full...)
He didn't give me his number, is this a warning sign?
Q. I met a guy at the weekend whilst in a niteclub. We danced together. He was not all over me like most guys tend to be when i go out. He did keep dancin with me. When my mate went off to sit down, he told me to go with her and that he would still be ...
A. 11 July 2006: sounds like a rebound to me sorry i mean he probably did think you was attractive but him saying he just came out of a relationship sounds like he might of been out for revenge. send him a text just saying hi remmeber me or something and see if you ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her what I'd like without hurting her feelings?
Q. Hi, I am in my late 20's and, after coming out of a long term relationship, have started going out with a new girl my age a few months ago. I am starting to think she is very inexperienced though. What is the best way to tell someone that you wo...
A. 8 July 2006: hi i think the answer to this question is everyboby is different it sounds to me like you want this girl to do the things your ex done as this is what you have settled into with your ex, you can either try and learn to like what she does or sit down ... (read in full...)
18 and I'm ashamed to be a virgin!
Q. Hi. I'm 18, I've never been really kissed (my first and last kiss was a little pash with a guy in year 4) i'm pretty ashamed because all my friends are no longer virgins and constantly ask me about who i've kissed and why i don't a have a b/f. I a...
A. 8 July 2006: you are very few and far between, so many people jump right into sex nowadays its just stupid, you should be proud of yourself not ashamed. when the time is right it will be special for you but only do the act when YOU are ready dont jump in because ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 7 July 2006: thankyou anon you have been such a help well just to let you know i spoke to her last night and explained everything, she said she was enjoying her life now and said she does not think i can make her happy anymore. i feel releived VERY releived ... (read in full...)
Need more advice on breaking up
Q. hi i posted a few days ago about my break up with my ex i would like to thank everyone who helped me i just have a few more little issues, as stated in my last i have taken the advice given and have arranged to meet her tonight for a chat. a quick ...
A. 7 July 2006: *update* ok i am putting this so anyone in my situation can reference, i spoke to her last night had a long chat and she said that she dont thinks i can make her happy anymore, and said she was not hurting really about the break up,in my view if ... (read in full...)
Should I try for 2nd time lucky with my ex?
Q. Hi, my name is Jeff and my girlfriend recently broke up with me, about a month ago. I have a broken leg so I am stuck in the house...which brings me to asking for help from anyone I can. My relationship with my ex girlfriend was great fo...
A. 7 July 2006: hi ok i am going to be honest she probably was thinking to herself the relationship was over a while ago but just could not say i am in basically the EXACT position you are and after constant chats etc.. i have realised she is happier without me, ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 6 July 2006: i forgot to mention that 4 weeks ago i tried to ring her and she hung up later that day i found out she went shopping with her nieghbour (who she didnt know till we split up) she said she only done it because her car was in for repair and she left ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 5 July 2006: once again thankyou ok the flat was rented in both our names and now i have moved out she has changed the tenancy to her sole name, i had no choice as she was going to go homeless with my children which means a horrible b and b and i could not put ... (read in full...)
How do I break contact with this girl?
Q. Why does my ex and her mother continue to call me when she broke up with me? I told her we couldn't be friends as I am still very much in love with her and can't bear the fact of her with someone else so I just stay away and try to move on. We ...
A. 5 July 2006: it sounds to me like she still loves you, but im sorry to say this but i would ignore her calls and even if ness change your number, when you see her tell her straight you dont want any contact with her again and say you will change your number if ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 5 July 2006: thankyou once again i really dont think she knows what she is putting me through i DO think there is something going on with her and her ex i want to know the truth but also am afraid of the truth! it really hurts me the fact she can walk away after ... (read in full...)
Guys... Did this man just use me to satisfy his ego?
Q. Hi all... I have a question for EVERYONE on this site... especially the men. I just broke up with a jerk whose very thought makes my blood boil. About 18 months ago, I was going through a very difficult emotional time. That is when I met this ...
A. 5 July 2006: sometimes people can forget the past maybe he still thinks you have feelings for your ex have you asked him the exact problem? i mean for someone to nearly commit suicide becasue of you must mean he really likes you! Im sorry i dont agree with "i am ... (read in full...)
He broke my heart into a thousand little pieces -how do I forget the bastard? help me
Q. I want to get over him. I can't eat, sleep, think or even live properly without him. He broke my heart into a thousand little pieces and i am totally destroyed I want him back so badly. Please tell me how to forget the bastard. ...
A. 5 July 2006: being in the same situation the only advice i can give is try to get through each day at a time, i know it is soooo hard and you think of nothing but them but as i have realised you can't make someone be with you, try giving him space and see how it ... (read in full...)
My fiancee is in love with another man...
Q. I have been with my fiance for over 3 years now and we love each other dearly. recently she told me she has feelings for someone else but she loves me and wants to be with me but she feels guilty because she feels this way. We have talked about this ...
A. 4 July 2006: im sorry to say this but you may have to let her go you have to think to yourself your girl has feelings for another man i know i could not live with that! but on the other side of the coin ask her why she has feelings for him is it physical? or ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 4 July 2006: just an update i have seen my ex today and we talked about her and her ex, i asked her if she would ever start seeing him again but she said no BUT she said she has seen him once and that he came over to her place when MY kids was in bed and they ... (read in full...)
Can we learn to love each other again,the way we once did ?
Q. I am going round in circles and could do with some help as I do not know what to do. Sorry if I ramble in advance. Basically my girlfriend and I have been together three years and had the usual ups and downs in that time, possibly and pro...
A. 4 July 2006: hi i feel for you i am in the same position it is hard very hard, have you been given the line " i love you but im not IN LOVE with you yet?" i wish i had all the answers, my ex still says she cant forget the past and that she thinks things would go ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 4 July 2006: thankyou i am going to take your advice, it is hard but you must struggle through. she has said to me that there is no feelings between them but these last 7 weeks have been so mixed. we have still slept together (wrong i know) and i have gone ... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid or is my BFs strange behaviour something I should be worried about?
Q. Hello there, Just wanted some dating advice... I've recently started dating someone I have known for years - long story, but he has been in love with me ever since I have known him. In the past I had not been interested, as I was always invo...
A. 4 July 2006: hi i do feel a little caution should be held here, on one hand he obviously cares a great deal for you but on the other hand how would he react if you was to go out and talk to another guy? , i personally think being obsessive with someone is a good ... (read in full...)
Should I go for it with my cousin?
Q. I’m not sure but I have a funny feeling that my female cousin, if the situation was right, would let me have sex with her. Some time ago over her house she shows me a tattoo that was on her ass. Then when over at her house while asleep on the sofa...
A. 4 July 2006: being family she may just feel really comfotable around you knowing she can lay on you etc.. with no feelings there basically she can feel comforted without the usual strings, i dont think you should make a move or even discuss it as it could ruin a ... (read in full...)
She loves me but isnt in love and I want her back!!
Q. Hi need some advice , i will try not to bore you too much, anyway me and my partner of 4 1/2 years split up 9 weeks ago, we have 2 children and moved into our first home 2 months previous to break up, before that she lived with me and my parents for ...
A. 4 July 2006: thankyou for your kind words, my problem is they broke up becasue he went to uni and it was too long distance, i just really love her so much and cant imagine life without her, i love my children and now only get to see them weekends. i was not ... (read in full...)
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