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Should I go for it with my cousin?

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Question - (4 July 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 July 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I’m not sure but I have a funny feeling that my female cousin, if the situation was right, would let me have sex with her.

Some time ago over her house she shows me a tattoo that was on her ass. Then when over at her house while asleep on the sofa she comes downstairs and sleeps on me while on the couch while one of my friends was on the other sofa asleep.

Sometimes I feel that there is some flirting going on between us as well as that tension of being around each other, and I know that if I visit her down south, at her house, and be alone with her and kick game on her just a little to see where her head is at she just might let me hit, but is it wrong to do that because I think she is just a curious as I am?

Remember I was that little boy who stayed over at her house for the summer when school was over. And now grown up and good looking I think some feelings might be into play. By the way she says that I’m her favorite cousin and that she has a room for me at her house when I want to come and visit, and she always say that I should come through. I might be wrong about this, but what should I do…?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006):

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I do try my best to stay my distance when she is around

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A male reader, tonsta +, writes (4 July 2006):

being family she may just feel really comfotable around you knowing she can lay on you etc.. with no feelings there basically she can feel comforted without the usual strings, i dont think you should make a move or even discuss it as it could ruin a good relationship you two have. IF there are any feelings of that sort there let HER make the first move then you will know, but as said above this is your cousin and although she is a lady/girl she is FAMILY as should not be seen in that way.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (4 July 2006):

Yos agony auntsex with cousins is taboo in most cultures. The reason being any child born has a greatly increased chance of genetic problems (disease, mutation, defect, etc).

in other words: BAD IDEA

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006):

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cool, thanks for the advice because I was feeling crazy about the whole situation

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (4 July 2006):

David Lewis agony auntI think you 2 need to have a talk.

Tell her that you seem to be getting signals and ask her what her intentions are.

Either way though, you may be playing with fire.

Just talk rather than acting out on what could be nothing more than a harmless tease.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006):

NO!!!

Its normal to have those feelings about the opposite sex. How old are you? Do you have good role models?

But if you act on these feelings you will feel like a friek your whole life if you mess with your cousin. Please don't do that.

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