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writes:Hi,I am in my late 20's and, after coming out of a long term relationship, have started going out with a new girl my age a few months ago. I am starting to think she is very inexperienced though. What is the best way to tell someone that you would prefer they kissed differently, or what is the best way to tell them things I like in bed etc. I'd like to offer her some tips about what I prefer, but I dont want to hurt her feelings either.Tanx Reply to this Question
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reader, Natalie-x +, writes (8 July 2006):
 To start with, no girl would like a guy to tell her she isn't experianced and it shows. So try not to blurt that out. When your kissing or in bed, take the lead, and show her how you like it. She'll soon know how to get stuff right for you.
Try not to give her 'tips' but why not say 'why dont we try this out...' in bed, so it sounds like it might be new to you too, so she doesn't feel insecure.
Dont give up on this relationship in a second if she's not as experianced as you. Show her what you know, and fun trying new things too. Sorted!
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reader, tonsta +, writes (8 July 2006):
hi i think the answer to this question is everyboby is different it sounds to me like you want this girl to do the things your ex done as this is what you have settled into with your ex, you can either try and learn to like what she does or sit down and explain you like things certain way, but give and take
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (8 July 2006):
 The best way to tell anyone something whether a girl or boy is too put it as a compliment.
If they ever do anything that is remotely like what you want, tell her you love it when she does 'such and such'. If she doesn't do anything even remotely what you like then you can try to guide her to what you want by physically showing her what you want by doing it to her.
If that still doesn't work then try talking, and if that doesn't work you might have to accept that you're not compatible.
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