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writes: hi i posted a few days ago about my break up with my ex i would like to thank everyone who helped me i just have a few more little issues, as stated in my last i have taken the advice given and have arranged to meet her tonight for a chat. a quick update for anyone who dont know we was togehter 4 1/2 yrs have 2 kids she finished it 7 weeks ago saying she didnt know what she wanted i moved out and now her ex has started going around there and she goes shopping with her make neighbour who she never even talked too when i was living there!Anyway the question is what do i say? i spoke to her this morning and she said she would like to see the girls back with their dad i asked her if she would like to see us back together and she said yes but theres things she would not want to chage one of them she would still like to see her ex and would not want to break contact and i being too paranoid? as he has only started talking to her after we split and he puts kisses at the end of his messages. Or do i just let her go its hard but is it for the best? CONFUSED!! sometimes she sounds loving on the phone and so times she gets mad really quick she says she loves and misses me but is not in love with me and dont know what she wants. Anyone have any advice? Thanks in advance
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reader, tonsta +, writes (7 July 2006):
tonsta is verified as being by the original poster of the question*update* ok i am putting this so anyone in my situation can reference, i spoke to her last night had a long chat and she said that she dont thinks i can make her happy anymore, and said she was not hurting really about the break up,in my view if someone can say that then it is time to move on and try to forget them, DONT do what i did and try and try because you just get laughed at behind your back. Sometimes things just dont work out and thats part of life i guess. my heart goes out to anyone going through a break and i would like to thank dearcupid and all its helpers for helping me in this situation and wish everyone all the best for the future!
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