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I'm starting to really like my brother's gf! What should I do?

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Question - (10 November 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 November 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

I'm 18 and I went up to see my brother and he introduced me to his girlfriend she was gorgeous she's 20 and my brother is 27 so her and I instantly hit it off being in the same age bracket. We would wrestle sometimes and my brother would laugh one day he had to travel for a few days to go see my parents. And he told her to come and check on me at the house so she would come over and chill for a few hours and we would talk. It was so suprising because I was able to tell her about anything and so would she. A few hours before my brother came home we were wrestling and noticed she knda grinded on me and i was instantly aroused. Her breasts were in my face and i coudnt help but be. so we went the room and started kissing each other on the neck but i remember the first day we didnt kiss on the lips just the neck. But we didnt have sex she left because she didnt wanna keep getting "horny" so then my brother came home and i felt guilty about it then a few days later she came over and my brother walked to the store and thats when we started kissing it's like i cant keep my hands off we havent had sex but i think im starting to love her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):

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sorry all but 2 days ago it escalated and we had sex and the thinbg abou tit is i dont fell guilty at all

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):

hey there! i totally understand what you are going through. i'm in the same situaion but with me its my cousin's fiancee i've been kissing. It's so hard to think rationally when all those lustful feelings are buzzing around. People may not realise that you really do care about your family member but in the moment something just takes over you. I nearly got caught last time which was such a smack in the face.The only thing you can do is stay away from each other!! eventually someone else will come along and you'll forget about her. In the meantime DON'T GO NEAR HER. I'll try to practice what i preach too!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

Hey there.... this is bad news.... Turn it around and its you gone away travelling and its you gone to the store. How on earth would you feel. From the sounds of it your not starting to love her at all, its an instant attraction but you should stop this now. Its bad enough when friends are in these situations but he is your brothers girlfriend. She obviously doesnt feel that she should be with your brother because she wouldnt be kissing you. She needs to leave your brother and walk away from both of you. This is not a good situation to be in and I wouldnt recommend losing your brother over a female. She clearly has no self respect to do something like this. Hope you clear your head and walk away before the whole family gets hurt let alone your brother and you! x

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A male reader, tonsta +, writes (10 November 2006):

dont do it this is your brothers girlfriend! blood is thicker than water. Ask yourself this question could you bear to never speak to your brother again? because that is what will more than likely happen and if it did work out between you and the girl you would of lost both of them. There are lots of girls out there find one just not your brothers.

I understand it is hard but you just have to resist all the urges and DONT DO ANYTHING AGAIN with her, how would you feel if he done it to you?

Hope it all goes well

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006):

He is your brother so please just walk away while your friendship with him is still in tact. Don't start anything with his gf. She knows what she is doing. This is going to turn out ok. Go out and find yourself a gf of your own. There are plenty of them out there.

The next time you have to go over there then make an excuse. If he goes away then why don't you go with him or why doesn't he take her. Either way just keep out of situations where there are just the two of you.

Please don't wreck lives.

Take care xx

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