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writes: hi i posted on here a while ago about me and what was my ex. we have managed to sort things out and i have moved back in etc.. i really think we can be happy as i love her so much i just have 2 quick questions. first is that she started to contact her ex while we was split up and he came over to see her a few times and they watched films etc.. she said whe would not contact him again can i trust her on this? she said she is happy to do it so i have not forced her. but my main question is the most important!i want to propose to her we was engaged before but this time i feel it could go all the way, so what i would like to know esp from the ladies is how should i do this? what is a really romantic way? i dont have loads of money tho i would love to take her to paris but we also have 2 kids so its abit hard to do that, so SUGGESTIONS PLEASE!!!Thankyou
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reader, tonsta +, writes (1 August 2006):
tonsta is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry i didnt post the reasons , we have been together for 4 1/2 years and have 2 lovely children together, we parted but none of us cheated we had just moved into a new home (our first home) and i think that was alittle too much on our relationship. things are great now, we still saw each other while split and i know this is what she wants. I feel it is the right time to ask her as i love her more than life and i know she loves me too i do trust her and like wise, we live together again now and i have never been so sure of anything in my life apart from i want to be with her forever!
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reader, camille +, writes (1 August 2006):
1. I can't answer your main question, no-one can. If she said she wouldn't see him, why can't you believe her? Time will tell if she sticks to her decision.
2. I don't advise you to get engaged with her so soon after you've got back together. What's the rush? Give yourselves some time.
3. I'll happily give romantic suggestions when you've built up your trust! I think it's too soon.
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