A
female
age
41-50,
*mSoScared
writes: My Fiance and I had a threesome with one of my friends. Everything was beautiful, but now he makes these insecure comments when he knows i'm going to see her alone. I think its unfair, because she was my friend before this episode. I was open with him and he knew about my bi-sexual lifestyle. Now when i want to interact with one of my friends I dont tell him. What am I to do?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008): Don't lie to him. Even if he makes insecure comments or gets mad when you see her. It's worse to lie. You are going to marry him, how can you do that if there's no trust. I agree tal, talk, talk and sort this out before the "I do".
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male
reader, pyan +, writes (24 September 2008):
Hi
threesome are a very hard thing to live with, for both of you, you need to be honest with each other and talk talk and talk. the same happend to us many years ago, when i didn't like my wife being alone with the guy we had. i was me that wanted to have the threesome but it was me that didn't like it after. we got over it by being honest and talking. we have a few since and they have been both good and enjoyable. let us know how you go or pm if you want to ask more take care
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female
reader, taina1980 +, writes (24 September 2008):
he knew about you from the beginning...there is more to you than your sexuality but sexuality is apart of you & if he can't hang tell him to get the steppin & call me.(smile)
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