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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm in need of some serious help. I have been in a long-term relationship with a wonderful girl for the past five years and with another equally beautiful girl for two. The first girl I met through friends, the second in a strip club. I know some people wouldn't approve of this arrangement but I've always liked having the two girls and feel that it's OK as long as they don't know about each other, since that way they'll never get hurt. Unfortunately, things have gotten a lot more complicated lately. My sex life with these women was never anything to boast about and so I started sleeping around. There are currently four nice girls that I routinely visit for sex. Three of them are former escorts, have very wild sexual appetites and are always happy to see me, as I really know how to pleasure a woman. Now two of them have fallen pregnant and are claiming that I'm the father. I know it isn't true since they both fell pregnant around the same time (May) and I hadn't slept with the first girl since February and we'd only had oral sex the last few times I visited the other girl. Now I don't know what to do. I don't want this to ruin my relationships.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Well, since we didn't get an update, here's my advice. Buy some condoms and use them.
NOT SAFE FOR WORK:
http://www.visualdxhealth.com/searchResults/adult_Male_Anogenital.htm
Check with your HMO and sign your new offspring up, as they should be covered under your health insurance.
Take out some good life insurance, so that all your offspring will be taken care of in case of your death. And make a will too, just to make sure that they are financially provided for. You might need a second job to pay the child support too.
And be sure to invest in some condoms. They save a lot of heartache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): You reap what you Sow dude.And you've been doing a lot of sowing.You sir, embarrass all of men-folk.Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Have you considered giving lessons?
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (13 June 2008):
Im grossed out escorts are prostitutes if 2 of some of the others are pregnant you must not believe in condoms... absolutely disgusting... you better hope the worst is the pregnancies @ the rate your going your penis is going to shrivel up & fall off...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): How rude to call them two girls on the side like a dinner order.Sorry to be harsh,but you have no respect for these girls,if you did,there would've have been just a girl.You
need to confront all of them.They might dump you,but its the best thing that needs to happen.If you don't think they're your kids,get a paternity test after they're born.
Still take care of them during the test.And if you want a real relationship,don't play any more women.
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reader, Replacement  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 You are an idiot.
There's not much else for me to say. You made your bed, lie in it.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (13 June 2008):
 You need to establish paternity and then take your lumps.
As for the two girls who aren't getting hurt? You sure about that? You are leading them to believe that you are in a solid relationship and you are not. Eventually they will discover that your life together was a rouse. The longer it goes on like this the more painful it becomes to them. They are probably thinking that one day you will be sharing a life together and you have no intention of being what they think you are.
Lastly, these women should have a choice to sleep with you knowing that you are sleeping around. I for sure would say NO if I knew you were with the other women. Not fair to them.
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reader, misfitschik66 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 like the last poster... id stick with one and where were you raised?????
you better get tested for STI's and AIDS if your sleeping around like that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): wow ....thats all I have to say is wow
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 I'd suggest you stick to one woman in the future.
Infidelity with /one/ person will put a strain on a relationship, let alone /four/.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 June 2008):
I have to ask, where were you raised? Just curious, so I can think a bit more on this before I answer. Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): As you quite rightly mentioned, you are in need of "serious" help!
I suggest:
1)You get to a doctor and have your self tested for STD's and AIDS;
2)you make an appointment with a therapist or counsellor to get profesional help
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): your problems go far far beyond wether you've knocked up a few girls...if you are the dad and i really hope your not you need to sort yourself out before you even think about becoming a good father figure.
god bless
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