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writes:im having sex with my bf but i dont know if ive had an orgasm. my friends say it feel awsome but i really dont know. sex does feel good but not so good that im screaming out so loudly that my next door neighbours hear me.how do you know when your having an orgasm?what does an orgasm feel like?please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): I'd just add to the posts above that most women don't experience orgasm from penetrative sex alone (in fact I think it's as little as 20% - me included). There normally needs to be some clitoral stimulation too if it is going to happen, and it helps if you are really at ease with your partner. Many women only ever experience orgasm during masturbation, but being aware of how your body works will get you closer to getting there with ur BF. Anyway, sex is great even without the big O. Think of it as an excellent bonus.
Have fun.
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reader, taina1980  +, writes (24 September 2008):
trust me if you had a orgasm you'd know there are only a few things in life that give you this pleasure... taking a dump , cleaning out your ear with a qtip, and sneezing... the best being the big O if it tingles burst and explodes you had it. but trust me nothing feels better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): lol i think you'll know when you experience it if youve never had one before it will be SO noticeable the first time when youre not expecting it will be the best. like the first answer it will be a certain pleasure you've never felt before and it;s like the inside of you down there proper contracting and this might not make sense but it will when you experience it just relax and enjoy yuourself with your bf it's basically the highest level of sexual excitement so you will feel it building up just before. it will happen HAVE FUN :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): If you dont know, you havent had an orgasm!
Its a really intense feeling, you want it to keep going forever and then suddenly all the wanting releases and you almost dont want to be touched, and jsut want to curl up and snuggle!
I dont have to scream personally, but if theres no one around to hear, i do! :-D
I had sex for almost 2 years before I had an orgasm tho... so it takes some practice! Just keep enjoying yourself and be safe! Take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Is it one of those things where, 'you'll know when you've had one' because it's that immense?
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