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Am I just being silly? Please put my mind at rest!

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Question - (25 September 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hiya,

Me and a guy im seeing slept together for the first time yesterday and now for some reason im so worried and nervous. I'm on the pill so i really dont know why? And i've never forgotten any. Am i just being silly?

Please someone put my mind at rest.

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A female reader, kle7 United States +, writes (26 September 2008):

well, not to scare you.... but i know a LOT of ppl that have been on the pill and have still gotten pregnant. Nothing is 100% condoms bust and pills sometimes don't work.

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A female reader, taina1980 United States +, writes (25 September 2008):

ok sweety honey child please tell me you used a condom ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008):

Did you use a condom? If you used a condom you will be fine.

If you didn't use a condom... I suspect it's not really pregnancy you are worried about. You might say that, but you should get yourself tested for an STI. Don't wait for any symptoms. The pill might protect you against pregnancy but DOESN'T protect you against STIs!

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A female reader, Hopeful Romantic United States +, writes (25 September 2008):

Hopeful Romantic agony auntWhy are you so nervous? Did you use a condom? If you are on birth control, then I am sure you are fine. I used to get worried almost every time I had sex that I would be pregnant, but I haven't gotten pregnant yet.

To ease your worry for next encounters, consider using a condom even while on bith control & have him pull out when he cumbs. This will help ensure of no pregnancy.

If you are nervous about having an STD, then again, use condoms.

Again, I am not exactly sure why you are nervous, so I may not have answered properly. Have you talked to this guy since you slept w/ him?

Don't be nervous though - you are just fine.

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