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writes:Im in love with an older man,we have recently decided to split as we want different things at the moment but one evening a few weeks ago he said i was the one for him,he wants a future with me,wanted to make me his wife and is "waiting for the kids to come along" i told him i had to think because im not sure im ready for kids but i really think he could be the one.could it be possible that ive already found mr right? i figured it would take a few years! and to him it has taken a few years as hes 19yrs older than me,we both feel so right together but we want differnet things...what do i do???? i know alot of ppl think think that ive got "my whole life ahead of me" and someone else could come along but i love this guy! what do i do??? thank-you x
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reader, sweetheart1nonly  +, writes (19 August 2008):
I am also in the same situation, mine is a 17 yr age gap but we love each other so deeply, i just want to get done with college next year and see what future holds for us.
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reader, kenny +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Age gaps invarible only ever become a problem is either of the people concerned have got issues over it. If you are both fine with a 19 year age gap than there is no reason why this relationship can't work. At the end of the day age is only a number, how a couple feel about one another should far supersede how many numbers are between them. Don't be discouraged by what others think, at the end of the day all that matters is what you think. If you think that this guy is the one for you, that this is Mr right then go for it.
All the best x
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