Fiance's family is mess! Worried about the reception
Q. I'm getting married soon. And I have a dilema. My fiances family are..a mess. I'm no snob. We both come from the same urban neighborhood. But his family is one of a kind. His fathers always drunk or high. His mother is crazy, certified crazy. I ...
A. 8 February 2009: Maybe u should try asking the whole bridal party including parents to not drink. But then at the same time I know they gonna be like what the hell. The next thing is to ask them not to over drink the whole bridal party. U know like a bridezilla type ... (read in full...)
I like my brothers best friend but my brother isn't happy about it
Q. ok.. so I am nineteen and I really like this guy who is 32. I've dated older guys before but this guy happens to be my brothers best friend. My brother is always saying things like "stay away from my sister" and it just makes everything awkward. I ...
A. 24 January 2009: I think before u get to into this guy u should listen to what ur brother has to say. He is much older then u and ur brother is probley worried about that part. But if u wanna date him or start something with this guy no matter what anybody says then ... (read in full...)
How can I tell him NO without hurting him?
Q. I'm 14 and know I'm not ready for sex just yet but my boyfriend and I are hanging out ALONE with my best friend and her boyfriend next weekend.... he is very very experenced.... but I'm not as much.... I was raped when I was younger but thankfuly ...
A. 20 January 2009: Well hurting his feelings shouldn't be the issue. Its about u. Try and think about what u want. If he's not the kinda of guy who will get mad if u say no then don't worrie. Try and tell him before u are alone with him for the weekend that u been ... (read in full...)
My wife of 34 years has left me...
Q. Yesterday we should have celebrated 34 years of marriage. Unfortunately last Friday 9th, my wife told me that she was unhappy and simply left! It was a very cold conversation, no discussion, no big row, so she'd obviously been thinking about it for ...
A. 18 January 2009: Be strong keep your friends around and keep busy. Try to even dress nice to make ur self feel better it helps. She needs her space she will c how much u mean to her and how life will be without u by her side. She might feel like she missed out on ... (read in full...)
My g/f is becoming distant
Q. My girlfriend of 2 years her grandmother passed away this past friday. Since then I have told her I'm behind her for anything and I'm here to talk if she needs to. my girlfriend doesn't really like to share her emotions and feelings she deals with ...
A. 14 January 2009: The best thing to do is give her space but at the same time let her know ur there by sending her a card something simple saying I know ur having hard times and I'm here for u when ur ready to talk. To bug her to talk cause u don't wanna push her ... (read in full...)
He lost it during oral
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for about three months now. We haven't had sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff. He's given me oral and i do him, every time i've given him head he has always ejaculated. So anyway the other night, we were fooling ...
A. 14 January 2009: Sometimes guys have moments were they are one min or can't get hard..... But don't stress it. If it happens again just ask right then and there am I doing something wrong? If he says no its him they don't know why it happens. No big deal... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to a guy who has a g/f
Q. I'm attracted to this guy, but he's currently off-limits (ie has a girlfriend). what can i do? can i start building any kind of a relationship now? please help!...
A. 14 January 2009: No u shouldn't of limits is off limits. And if he talks to u when he has a girlfriend that should tell u something about what he will do to u. Karma! don't step on anybodys toes because It will come back and bite u in the ass. ... (read in full...)
I slept with my best friend's boyfriend - and now the truth has come out!!!!!! HELP!!!
Q. Hi to all, I am 17 years old, I am in the eleventh grade, and I go to a co-ed boarding school. Last year (my tenth grade year) My bestfriend met a boy who wen to out school as a senior and she was a junior at the time. I thought he was the uglie...
A. 14 January 2009: First off u were wrong! And u know it. That's not being a friend you were being selfish because if u felt so bad it would have happened once not many differnt times....kissing touching whatever! How do u think he looks at u the bestfriend messing ... (read in full...)
Husband on deployment for 6 months...will this make us stronger or hurt us?
Q. Hello everyone. My husband is in the military and is out on deployment for 6 months. This is our first time as a couple with him going away like this, long ago we were just friends. I'm going out of my mind I miss him so much. My question is has ...
A. 13 January 2009: My boyfriend plays football. So he's away a lot the key is to not cheat on him. A lot of miltary wifes can't handle the distance. It will make u stronger and his love for u will be great because he will see how good of a women u are by standing by ... (read in full...)
He had an orgasm on top, but not inside of me, what are the odds of pregnancy?
Q. about 6 days agot me and my boyfriend had sort of unprotected sex. hehad an orgasm on top of my vigina but not inside what are the chnces that im pregnant?...
A. 31 July 2008: I agree your too young you don't even know anything about sex you can tell by whatyo u wrote! Just wait! You will end up with an std and you don't want that. Sex is supposed to be with someone you love and if you were to get pregnat it would be ... (read in full...)
I can't have an orgasm, is there something wrong with me?
Q. I cant have an orgasm!!! is somthing wrong with me? OR is the sex not good or what!!?! im 20 and have a 1 yea r old child, and my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years, and i have YET to have one.. is there something wrong?...
A. 26 July 2008: It could be him I don't know if he's the only guy you have been with but some men can really put it on you! If you enjoy the sex and it gets you wet and really in the mood and feels good then maybe tryin differnt ways to do it will help. Try it from ... (read in full...)
I need to find the strength to get away from my boyfriend.
Q. can sombody please tell how to find the strength to get away from my boyfriend he has alot of issues first of all he has a drug addiction that makes him crazy he and besides that he has mental issues i think hes skizophenic and he has made a ...
A. 26 July 2008: U need to slowly distant ur self first. Maybe start by not seeing him so much then next the phone calls. Then it will be easy 4 u cause you will c how differnt ur life is without him stressing you out and stuff. It will be hard cause he might try ... (read in full...)
Going by the expiry date, when might this condom have been bought?
Q. Im in a relationship of 3 years, and i found a condom wrapper in the room and im trying to figure out when it might have been bought. The exp. Date on it is october of 2009. It was by some of my boyfriends thing from when he was married. But i cant ...
A. 3 June 2008: Try buying some condoms the same brand and look at the date say it says Nov 2011. You know he bought it at least two years ago to some research on it... (read in full...)
My parents have stupid rules about my girlfriend. How can I fix that?
Q. ok well tonight my gf came over and was outside with my friend and i who just got done with a run.. so my mom and dad say we need to go somewhere else to hang out bc my gf was there and "she's not welcome here" at my house bc of an unknown reason at ...
A. 14 May 2008: Talk to him tell him it wasn't her fault she was there you asked her to come. Give him and example if that was him when he was a college student what would he have done? You broke the rules but she didn't he toldd you what to do at the house not ... (read in full...)
21 and I've never had a real relationship, how do I overcome this?
Q. I'm currently a 21 year old junior in college. I have never had a real relationship with a girl. Its not that I don't hook up with girls, I just can seem to make relationships work. I always get bored or over it once I start to hang out with a girl ...
A. 14 May 2008: Well your missing out I think you should be picky cause you wanna make sure you have a loyal girl you can trust that's the key to not being hurt!!! Date them for at least 6 months like a relationship that way you can figure them out. Getting in any ... (read in full...)
Please help me, does she deserve another chance? Do I?
Q. Hi,Me and my girlfriend were dating for about a month and a half. There were many reasons for me to be somewhat untrusting of her because she has cheated on me twice. But the first time it happened i had no proof but i had A witness. She said that ...
A. 14 May 2008: Do your best to get over her now! She cheated and shows she can't be loyal to you. So its better to handle this now then two or three years later when its been like 10 times or she gets pregnat by someone else. You can find a girl who loves and ... (read in full...)
Is it okay if I have sex with my friend?
Q. Im 15 And One Of My Girl Mates Wants To Have Sex And Where Not Goin Out. Is It Ok if i Do Or Will i Feel guilty After. Is it Ok if i do have Sex With her? ...
A. 14 May 2008: I think you should wait a little bit. Your 15 and you want it to be specail with a girl you love...not just do it cause someone wants you to and if its your first time you should wait. But good luck... (read in full...)
I have trouble trusting him. How can I get these thoughts out of my head?
Q. Ok. I need help i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Right now i am having major trust issues... i have no reason not to trust him but for some weird reason i think something up. Not much has changed about him but his presence feels ...
A. 13 May 2008: Listen to your gut feeling....if you feel somethings up and your ignoring it that's has a lot to do with why your having these issues!! Listen to your gut! Find out! Look into it and don't push it off like its nothing. And if you dig deep and find ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and I think I'm pregnant
Q. Can anyone help me? Im 15 and I think im pregnant! my boyfriend is 18 and ive told him but he says I should do what I think is right but last month I was 2weeks late and when I came on my period it wasent even a propa period and ive not come on this ...
A. 13 May 2008: You need to take a test....but take it when you first wake up in the morning..your first pee of the day! There is a chance you may be so eirly you may need to go to the doctor and get a blood test to c if you are! Or a free clinic??? Do they have ... (read in full...)
My fingers are deformed and I'm scared it's putting the girls off me
Q. Hey, well Im 18 years old and as of yet had not had a girlfriend. I was born with a birth defect to my hands in which my fingers are deformed.The only relationship i've had has been an online one and she knew about my situation. I'm not anti-social. ...
A. 13 May 2008: I think you shouldn't hide them....if I met you ill rather see the real you then be shocked later if it was to shock me. By showing girls off the bat and they still talk to you it shows you how loyal or how it doesn't bother them they way you may ... (read in full...)
How do you stop feeling like your worthless, and that if you weren't good enough for your ex then you must be no good for anyone else?
Q. How do you get over caring about what an abusive ex thinks of you? How do you get over the feeling that you're a loser because your ex treated you so bad, used you and then dumped you because you had nothing of value to them left?? How do you stop...
A. 13 May 2008: Girl don't think your not good enough!there is someone else out there for you. I'm going through the same thing but I know I can get better and I'm looking forward to that now!!!!! So rememeber its his lost!! You will gain with someone else that ... (read in full...)
She said she's been "attached" too long and wants to be single and have some space...
Q. I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 4 years, everything was going well till year 3 when she wanted her space, at that time she never really got it and things went back to normal. Last weekend she just broke it off, she said that she ...
A. 6 May 2008: Its a lost cause you can't do or say anything to get her back when she doesn't want a relationship. And I think it was a way to just be single and do what she wants to do! She wants to date around! My boyfriend did the same thing to me! But she will ... (read in full...)
How old do you think is old enough for teens to be alone with their boyfriends/girlfriends at home?
Q. How old do you think is old enough for teens to be alone with their boyfriends/girlfriends at home? I know if they really want to be alone chances are they’ll find a way even if parents don’t allow them but what are your views on allowing your kids ...
A. 6 May 2008: Your right they shouldn't be alone at all....if ur home I say they can be in the room but the door can't be locked! Or closed all the way. Cause teens are doing so much now a days. But if they wanna have sex they will find a way! So make sure wit ... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife have sex with me?
Q. How do I get my wife have sex with me ...
A. 6 May 2008: Try getting her in the mood. If you have kids send them to ur parents or to a friends for about 2 hours. Tell her you have a specail day planed for her do this around 7 or 8PM have some grapes on the side of the bed a a boddle of lotion....give a ... (read in full...)
How do I get my mind off my ex?
Q. I am having trouble getting my ex off my mind. It is strange because we haven't been together in over a year, and I don't feel sad about it anymore, but still I think of him all the time even though we don't talk and I am in a new relationship now. ...
A. 6 May 2008: Its all memories and that's ok but to stop comparing I would say think about how good the new guy is and the things you like about him. But I think you guys have in finished bizz that's why its on ur mind u wonder what it would be like if you was ... (read in full...)
What do you do after two break-ups and someone you love wants to try a third time?
Q. what do you do when someone you love a lot breaks up with you twice to be with someone else and then wants to get back together?...
A. 4 May 2008: I'm going through something smilar but don't get back with her. I'm sure what she has is not better then you that's why she's coming back. Put because she was able to put you through such pain shows she doesn't care about ur feelings. She's selfish ... (read in full...)
It's obvious to everyone else but I've never made a move before. What should I do?
Q. Ok, so here's my problem, and I'm sorry about the length but this is a problem on so many different levels and I'm just so confused. Theres this guy who I work with who I have fancied for the last month or so. We work quite closely and we h...
A. 4 May 2008: Well him kissing you two times when he has a girl tells you what kinda guy he is. And what he would do if you guys were together! He made the move and shows how he has no controll. There serious and I'm sure he loves her if the moving in together! ... (read in full...)
I'm ready for sex after having our baby, but he says he wants to wait for a while. He says he can't look at me the same way!
Q. Hi I had my first baby (10th april) she was a girl and is stunning, perfect the birth was pretty easy and im fine now. My boyfriend was at the birth and very suportive i live with him. And im really horny and want to have sex with him. But he cant ...
A. 29 April 2008: Wow give him time....I mean your body did change and he needs time to see everyone goes through it. Maybe you should give it a week and dress up real sexy for him and have someone watch the baby for an hour and a half then maybe he will see you in a ... (read in full...)
I'm really worried about my little sister!
Q. I'm really worried about my little sister. She's 13 and I'm 17 and we really don't get on very well. We used to argue alot but then we used to make up again but since my parents split up 2 years ago she has really got me worried. She hates me c...
A. 29 April 2008: Right her a letter since she won't listen or ignores you when you talk. Write a letter telling her you love her and express your thoughts. Give her a day if she says nothing back write another letter keep doing this until she opens up and she will. ... (read in full...)
How should I tell my teacher that he made my life worth living?
Q. My chorus teacher (who I'm in love with, but forget about that right now) is the reason why I'm still here today. I was suicidal in eighth grade and was going to follow through with it if ninth grade didn't go well. Obviously since I'm in twelfth ...
A. 29 April 2008: Maybe you can tell him how he changed your life but having a relationship or trying to date him is not a good idea he can lose his job! I know your a senior but don't go that far yet just tell him what a impact he's made on your life... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend's brother!
Q. hi. i really don't know what to do anymore. i've benn fallin for my boyfriends brother harder and harder and now it's reached the point i can't stand the pain. ive been with my bf for a year now and i love him. at least im confortable with him. but ...
A. 29 April 2008: His brother might like you put I promise he will never date you. For one it will hurt his brother so bad two his family is not gonna let you come between brothers!! They won't even like you anymore dating John the dating his brother Johnny?? No!!! ... (read in full...)
It got me concerned a girl may have texted him. Am I being too suspicious?
Q. my boyfriend is doing a side job after his regular job. The owners are two women. I was with him while he was getting supplies. He had to call the store to ask them something. He said hi its so and so, im doing the paint. And the girl must have said ...
A. 20 April 2008: Just keep your eye open I wouldn't stress over it. ... (read in full...)
Did I rape her? She told me "no" in her usual playful way only half-way through the act(?)
Q. Me and my gf split 3 months ago but we had sex 3 days ago we both wanted it and i woke up 2 her the next morning she was crying saying that i had raped her she never told me to stop untill half way through and it was in her playful way the way she ...
A. 20 April 2008: Yeah she feels guilty!! And that's wrong cause rape is serious! You need to leave this girl alone! If she will do that to you or even say she would you don't need her in your life!!! Plus 18 months!!!! The police should think that's crazy for her to ... (read in full...)
I want to back out without getting hurt. What to do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with a lady who sounds like a pain in the neck. She almost takes every little issue to an unbearable stage.We fight almost every day and that is not my style. I'm looking for a way to back out without any hurting vibes for ...
A. 20 April 2008: Just tell her we fight to much is not healthy and your not happy with fighting with the girl youre trying to get to know or care about. Tell her to respect it and she has to see her self that fighting is not cool at all. Just do it soon cause the ... (read in full...)
What should a 12 year old guy do to impress a girl?...
Q. What should a 12 year old guy do to impress a girl?Theres a 11 year old at my bowling leage who is so beautiful.But every time i try to look cool or whatever i just look retarded.Heck last time i got her to bowl with me one on one like a date.I ...
A. 20 April 2008: Lol.....just be yourself. That's what will make her like you. If you try hard and she sees it that will make a girl not like you. Maybe next time you can't just try and play it cool ask her what does she like to do other the bowling maybe you will ... (read in full...)
I'm married to great man, but I think I'm in love with a female co-worker.
Q. I'm a 41 yr old female, married with two children = 17 and 20. My daughter is a lesbian and my son is straight. Im not married with their father anymore but have re-married a great man, but I have a new job and I think I have fallen in love with ...
A. 20 April 2008: Um are you sure its love or lust?? If its lust maybe it could just be sexual. But love....that would hurt your husband its the same as loving another man! But ask yourself is it sexual or you really want more from her.if so tell him about it be open ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my hang-ups about being an active participant in sex?
Q. Hi, I'm just looking for some advice and insight about some sticky bits in my relationship (our sticky bits? haha). We've been dating for half a year and only started sleeping together in the last two months. He's in his late 20s and older than m...
A. 20 April 2008: Maybe when you have sex close your eyez and try and relax. Don't be so worried about what's going on. Try getting on top of him kiss his ear and all over his body. Try riding him since his penis is small and grind him this should please you if you ... (read in full...)
Do you think he like me even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I have recently become involved in a play and I met this guy who I have a huge crush on. But there's one problem. He has a girlfriend. I found this out after I had one of my friends talk to him for me. She told him that I liked him and he said ...
A. 20 April 2008: Yeah he likes you but think about it he's driving a girl home who he knows likes him!!!! Cheater!!! Anyone who has a girl and is into you and you start dating him remember he will do the same to you! Keep your eye open!!!!!! He's flirting and he has ... (read in full...)
Why am I afraid of living with my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend asked me to move in with me today, and my reaction was to freak out! what should I do now and should i move in with him? we've been together 3 years, and he has been a good bf, supporting me in whatever i do. We've lived in a stude...
A. 19 April 2008: Well it would be a good idea to work out your issues first. Tell him I would like to move in with you but I just wanna make sure we are both happy. Talk to him about his gaming ask him if he could reduce how much he's online....let him know it ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of waiting for him. I want to give up on him and find some one else!
Q. Hi. I have been talkn to this guy for 5 years know. We started off as good friends. In the beginning, about 3 years ago, he had a friend but she stayed out of town. Now its been like 1 year since he ''broke it off'' now this year which makes 5, he ...
A. 10 April 2008: I think he's not ready he might have told you things just to keep you around so that way he wouldn't lose you. But you shouldn't wait around just meet new people and hang out with friends he will come around but don't wait cause he may just wanna be ... (read in full...)
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