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writes:hey there people,im in a bit of a dilemma :0( iv met what i thought was the perfect guy at uni. He has a lways been with lots of girls but always liked me apparantly. Normally when he goes out, he kisses loads of girls but al hisf friends say that since he met me he isnt interested in anyone else. He drove down to see me (40 miles) the other day just for a night!however, he always seems to have so much female attention, and he lives 300 miles away so im not going to be able to see him much over summer. hes going on a lads holiday, im going on a girls holiday to ibiza, but i lke him so much. he doesnt want a relationship over the summer-he wants to see how it goes, and then meet back up in september. im so upset :0( what should i do???i think about him all the time. x x x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2007): He wants to be free so he can sleep around on his lads holiday simple. So rather than being accused as a cheater/two timer he wants the break. But what a cheek to want to get back together in September. That's just keeping you on the back burner, so when his flings are over he's got you to use for sex afterwards. If he was really in love with you, he would have never suggested a break. I know this is difficult for you and you're hurting but try to get over him he's not worth your tears. Hopefully you will meet someone nice on your holiday, have a fling and forget all about this user.
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reader, thurdmusketeer  +, writes (10 June 2007):
Personally I think this is a hint to you. Possibly it's not supposed to be but it should be. He is bored. He may have done those sweet things but in reality any guy can do that if he thinks about it. Trust me if he was perfect for you he wouldn't crush you like this! Staying with you over the summer would be a no brainer because every second with you should be treasured. If he was perfect he would fear losing you, not wanting to because it's summer.
Being you, I would not continue a relationship with this man. Though, this may seem to be a small ordeal to someone like yourself it isn't! Be a picky dater. It's the only way you will find Mr. Right.
Hope this piece of advice helps!
~Bridget
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reader, shortybabes +, writes (8 June 2007):
 Hey babe if this liked you as much as he is supoosed to then he would still want to be with during the summer babe. You can do better than this guy, i promise you will meet a guy who wants to actually be with you in the summer. You need this guy in your life hunny ur better off without him. I know this sounds harsh but it's true.
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