Height rating
Q. how do you people rate a person of height 6 5"? i am 6 4" and i feel good to be this tall but girls are too short to stand up with a boy of this height. what do girls say here?And Do rate my height....
A. 4 May 2009: it's a perfectly fine height to be. i think on the whole most girls are quite happy with tall guys - like others have said, you don't have to worry about dating taller girls and feeling "unmanly" and the girls can wear heels and still enjoy feeling ... (read in full...)
I ended the friendship because of his dishonesty..so why do I feel so low about it all?
Q. What to do when the EX-boyfriend still lies to you? Why is it so difficult to be just be honest and upfront? I'd told him last year he needn't get back in touch till he was ready to be honest. Well, he did- but the lying still continues. WTH-- we ...
A. 4 May 2009: there's nothing you can do to stop people lying. unfortunately some people just can't seem to stop, no matter how much trouble it causes. until he realises he is ruining things for himself through his dishonesty there's not a lot you can do, i'm ... (read in full...)
Fed up of my cheating boyfriend
Q. Me and my current boyfriend have been through a lot. We've been together for a year and a half and during that time hes cheated on me 3 times, but I never let him go because I'm head over heels in love with him. Lately he's been showing less and ...
A. 28 April 2009: in my opinion, you can do better, you don't need this and you should dump him because he sounds like a waste of your time and energy!... (read in full...)
My little sister has just had her first period and my parents are out of town. Help!
Q. My sister, she is 11 and I think she just got her first ever period today because when she woke up she scared shit then I went to her room and I saw blood on the bed and on her pjs she was wearing, she won't talk to me and my parents are out of ...
A. 27 April 2009: make sure you have some pads in, first of all, and maybe clean up the bed for her so she doesn't have to do that task herself or feel humiliated if your parents were to come home and find the sheets.
i don't mean anything by this, but i take it s... (read in full...)
How do I get my Mum's permission to let my boyfriend stay at her house?
Q. I am going to be 18 in 3 months and my bf 23 and my mum and little sister are going on holiday this weekend and i did ask if my boyfriend could stay over and the answer was no which i got quite angry about as she has meet him lots of times, i've ...
A. 27 April 2009: i understand it's frustrating to have your plans stopped, as i'm sure you were looking forward to having your boyfriend stay over, and you feel as if your mother is being unreasonable and acting as if she doesn't trust you.
i expect she said no b... (read in full...)
Boyfriend posts pictures from your joint vacation and leaves you OUT of the pictures?
Q. Ok, I'm embarrassed to even have to write this -- because it sounds so juvenille, and I am 31 years old, but I want a sounding board, so please respond honestly. I just got back from a week in Italy with my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years. He was se...
A. 27 April 2009: My initial reaction was the same as klara's. I would be highly suspicious, especially because of how he behaved about your ex-boyfriends and sometimes when people do that it's because they're hiding their own dodgy behaviour. The fact he lied is ... (read in full...)
Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ?
Q. I went to see this topic and i saw this answer on its site http://www.dearcupid.org/question/15-year-old-virgin.html Is 14 really the average age people lose their virginity ? Is what he said true ? ...
A. 27 April 2009: nope. some people have sex long before the age of consent and some people a good while after. i am 19 years old, and i spend most of my time with a group of six friends of the same age: one of us lost their virginity at 13 (MUCH too young if you ask ... (read in full...)
5 months going out with him and now he says he doesn't like to be touched??
Q. Alright, so here's my story. I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about five months now and he claims he doesn't like being touched by other people, sexually of course. I think he finds it uncomfortable. He likes it when I grind ag...
A. 27 April 2009: i suppose it depends why he feels uncomfortable with physical contact. two ideas i had were that either something negative happened to him in the past to cause him to feel like this or it could be a self-esteem problem perhaps?
if it turns out to b... (read in full...)
Worried he won't enjoy oral sex
Q. Dear Cupid, I recently tried performing oral sex on a new guy I'm seeing. Having never been with a guy that takes TOO LONG to orgasm, I'm worried that he's not enjoying it. Eventually he ends up climaxing, but it seems to me like he's forcing ...
A. 27 April 2009: i don't think it's possible for anyone to force themselves to orgasm. i mean, you can help yourself by relaxing and things like that but i think forcing it would be counter-productive. perhaps this guy just takes a while to come, so people do, and ... (read in full...)
My 14 y/o daughter wants to have sex with her b/f
Q. My 14 year old daughter has just told me she wants to have a sexual relationship with her 15year old boyfriend. What should i do?...
A. 26 April 2009: firstly, be glad she told you! this means she trusts and respects you which although i know it won't detract from your worry but it's a sign you have a close relationship so obviously this is better than her going behind your back. at the end of the ... (read in full...)
He hasn't told his daughter that I'm pregnant
Q. I am five months pregnant and my boyfriend has told everyone except his nine year old daughter should I feel offended because I do.........
A. 26 April 2009: i don't think you should feel offended at all, try not to worry.
this must be a difficult subject for your boyfriend to broach with his daughter, as she may have worries/concerns, or be upset or angry as it will be confusing for her. maybe he is w... (read in full...)
I hate my dad because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream!
Q. hello dear cupid, i am 22 and i have a strange problem.... I hate my dad! i know he is my god and my caretaker...but still i hate him because he cannot offer me the lavish lifestyle that has been my dream although he has always provided me with the ...
A. 26 April 2009: it is a dad's job to look after you, support you and give you a loving home; it isn't a dad's job to fulfill your every whim, especially as you are in adulthood. it's your responsibility now to build the life you want and it's unfair for you to ... (read in full...)
My family is against our relationship.
Q. Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...
A. 26 April 2009: that's an awfully big difference in ages considering you're in your teens. the difference between 16 and 12 is immense, not least because you're at the age of consent and he is not, so there's legal problems associated with your relationship as well ... (read in full...)
Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?
Q. I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't re...
A. 26 April 2009: no problem, best wishes :)... (read in full...)
Men!!! Strange creatures!
Q. Why wud a guy u been seein 5 wks suddenly change and go off with sum1 else out of the blue and then constantly watch for ur reaction all the evening? And be jealous if someone even as much talks 2 u? ...
A. 26 April 2009: perhaps he felt your relationship wasn't working, for whatever his individual reasons were (not that you were at all to blame, but sometimes people start relationships and then find they don't work as expected, or some unprecendented thing causes ... (read in full...)
Advice on cleaning up the bikini line?
Q. I just wanted some advice on removing hair from the bikini line, cause its really affecting my self confidence at pools and stuff. Ive tried shaving my bikini line but it gets red and bumpy where i have shaved. Going to a professional place isn't re...
A. 26 April 2009: as far as i am aware, waxing is the best long-term solution for unwanted hair, although personally i have found i had allergic reactions to the home kits (which are also more difficult to use) so although i completely understand that you don't want ... (read in full...)
He's my first boyfriend, and I don't know how far I want to go
Q. I just started dating, and I've been dating this boy for a little over a month, we broke up briefly but now we are together and happy. Its always been a huge goal of mine to wait until i graduate to have sex, but other things are okay...i think. i...
A. 26 April 2009: I agree with the first post, you go as far as you want to, and you will know what you are comfortable with and what you aren't. you seem like a clever girl who knows her own mind.
i think a month is not a long time to have been dating, so perh... (read in full...)
I'm a man and I get really wet. Is this normal?
Q. Before I start, apologies if this question has already been asked, but I couldn't find it. I've recently turned 20 and I'm not a very sexually active person. I've only ever had sex once, when I was a lot younger, so I didn't really think abo...
A. 24 April 2009: this, i believe, it's pre-cum, and i don't think it's anything to worry about. your body releases it to act as a natural lubricant to prepare you for penetration, so this must just mean you are very excited. however, it does contain sperm cells so ... (read in full...)
Weight! should I drop it or him?
Q. Dear Cupid; I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years and lately our relationship is very rocky. We just recently got the internet, and since then, our communication has virtually come to a hault. I work at night and he works during the...
A. 24 April 2009: I cannot believe he would say such hurtful things to you, or issue ultimatums for you to lose weight! that's awful! he should be able to appreciate you for the person you are and not what the scale says, he's pathetic. in my opinion, the only time a ... (read in full...)
How could I convince her to have sex with me?
Q. I live with my cousin she is 33 and has two kids but she is so hot and I'm 19. I've been wanting to have sex with her forever now. She likes having sex but just broke up with her man. I made this lie where some girl said I was a bad kisser so I ...
A. 23 April 2009: i think she's given you her answer. i doubt you'd be able to convince her as she seems to think you are too closely related for such an entanglement. i think your efforts would be best re-directed somewhere else :)... (read in full...)
How do you give a handjob?
Q. im about to give my first handjob, my boyfriend really wants one. But i dont know how?!?! please help me!!!!...
A. 4 April 2009: hun, if you are between 13-15 my gut reaction would be to advise you against handjobs with anyone. but then again it is your life. also, "my boyfriend really wants one" sounds as if he might have been nagging or pressurizing you (obviously this is ... (read in full...)
He'd rather masturbate than use condoms with me. I feel so unwanted!
Q. I walked in on my boyfriend masturbating the other day, and while I know that masturbating is completely normal, and I have nothing against it at all, it really hurt me for some reason. I think it hurt me because we rarely have sex, and he claims ...
A. 4 April 2009: your reaction is understandable. the lack of sex is probably making you feel insecure without the physical reassurance that he finds you attractive, and maybe it's worse because you're the one deciding not to have sex with him - for perfectly ... (read in full...)
Slept with mate's boyfriend and then HIS best mate... can I have either?
Q. OK, this is quite a long story, but around 3 months ago I started sleeping with my mates boyfriend. Yes, I know this is wrong but I craved the attention I got from him. Obviously, my mate (and none of our mutual friends know about it). However, ...
A. 4 April 2009: what a fine mess you've got yourself into.
there's clearly no point mentioning the fact you have done a terrible thing to your friend (not that the blame doesn't lie equally with her boyfriend here too), as if you couldn't work that out for your... (read in full...)
I'm young but fall for older boys!
Q. So, im im still a teen, and i tend to only fall for older guys. k im 16, and a perfects age to me would be 17 to 23. i always fall for older men, and obviously they all eventually come to the conclusion that im too young, but it always takes time ...
A. 3 April 2009: i know how you feel about older boys. i was (and to be honest, still am!) attracted to those a few years ahead of me. this could be purely because in your teens girls tend to mature earlier than boys of the same age, so you could be seeking someone ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants me to get an abortion, should I marry my ex and tell him the baby is his?
Q. I am pregnant by my new boyfriend of three months. I we always used condoms except on one occassion. I have another child out of wedlock. When I told him, he told me to terminate it, but am not sure if I want to do that. I sugested we get married ...
A. 3 April 2009: i think the idea of misleading your ex into believing it is his child is a very very bad one! i understand the panic you are probably feeling but this would be an awful foundation for a marriage: you would be lying both to the ex and the child and ... (read in full...)
She wants me to stop smoking. Should I change for her?
Q. Ok I have a dilemma. Me and my girl have been going out for 7 months now. About everything is wonderful, but like every couple we have our issues. (not sure if the post is allowed, but it is a serious relationship problem i need help with) Plain ...
A. 3 April 2009: i think it would be wise to stop. not just for the effect on your girlfriend and your relationship, but for yourself: you admitted "It is almost a part of me, the socializing aspects, just the calm, help sleeping, and what not", which sounds as if ... (read in full...)
She reacted so adversely when I asked for more intimacy that I felt like a pervert! Help?
Q. hi everyone, ive posted a few things on here and you all be very helpfull... me and my girlfriend are very intimate at the moment and i came out with totaly the wrong thing the other day when i was intimate with her i asked her if she wanted t...
A. 30 July 2008: i don't think that's that bad. at least you asked :)
maybe she was just surprised, or a bit embarrassed. i know i panicked when my boyfriend once asked me a similar question and shouted at him - this is not because he really upset me or i didn... (read in full...)
His last proper girlfriend slept with him after three weeks which makes me feel like I'm a prude or a tease by comparison.
Q. i have recently started dating a boy i love very much. he's also one of my best friends and two years ago he used to date a friend of mine. their relationship ended peaceably and she's quite happy for us to date. we've been going out for a month no...
A. 3 May 2007: i felt exactly the same as you a few weeks ago. it's gonna sound really silly but the thing that helped me to overcome my shyness (after i'd realised i was totally ready to do this, which it sounds like you might not be) is closing my eyes because ... (read in full...)
Is it true that English girls love the Irish guys?
Q. I am an Irish male and I am going to liverpool next week on a lads weekend. I have heard that English girls love the Irish guys.... is this true???...
A. 29 April 2007: i dunno if that's true of all girls and most certainly wouldn't date someone just because he was irish even if he was horrible.
although a lot of girls and women i know do think the accent is a bit sexy :)
x... (read in full...)
Im 14, still no period and Ive got pregnancy symptoms, do you think I am pregnant ?
Q. As I said before I'm 14 years old and I think that I may be pregnant! I knew that I would be getting my period soon but, not sure exactly what day. I lost my virginity on February 16th without a condom for the first time, that same night I ...
A. 13 April 2007: the first thing you have to do is take a test. don't waste any time about doing this because i know of girls who were too afraid to get their hands on one, kept putting it off and ended up in pretty bad situations - even the one who turned out not ... (read in full...)
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