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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: im about to give my first handjob, my boyfriend really wants one.But i dont know how?!?!please help me!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): The other answers are right on -- are you really comfortable?
If you've got past that, if you're really sure it's the right thing to do, then chill. It's very easy. Listen to how he reacts, 'cause the noises he makes will tell you how much he likes what you're doing. A handjob has got to be the easiest thing you can do. The biggest question is friction. You can do it 'dry', just very gently touch, until he starts leaking precum, and then use that as lube. Or you can go faster, using something else as lube -- lotion, your sweat, your saliva, whatever. It's not rocket science -- he'll be grateful, period.
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reader, say_anything  +, writes (4 April 2009):
 hun, if you are between 13-15 my gut reaction would be to advise you against handjobs with anyone. but then again it is your life. also, "my boyfriend really wants one" sounds as if he might have been nagging or pressurizing you (obviously this is just my interpretation, so apologies if i have the wrong impression). please make sure this is really, really, really what you want to do. if he is a "good" boyfriend (by that i mean considerate and someone you can communicate with) i'm sure he will guide you through it - and i think it's the sort of thing you won't have much trouble with... when you are ready.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (4 April 2009):
 Get your boyfriend to guide you, I'm sure he knows what he likes by now!
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