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writes:okay so, i'm 18 and i went out into town the other night, a couple of people tagged along who i haven't seen since secondary school which is like two years ago. anyway, a guy was there who used to go to my school but i never really used to speak to him. i already had my sights set on him from the minute he joined our group, we ended up being quite drunk, we were stood up hugging at one point and he let me lay on his shoulder in a club and he had his arm around me. i think he's cute and i like him. they left before me and my friend so i messaged his friend and checked they got home safe, i then continued to message his friend and asked whether he knew if his friend was drunk, and if he knew what he was doing. i ended up asking if he thought that the guy liked me and he replied by saying that he's already planned to go out into town next saturday as i'd told him that was when we were going out again, so everyone i've spoke to seems to think he may be into me. my question is, when we go out again, i want to progress and move forward and not just stay as people who like each other, what can i do to show him 100% im interested and want to get to know him?
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reader, Sam Wilson  +, writes (8 November 2017):
 Nice to see everything is going well. Good Luck and once again Im very glad to help.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 October 2017):
 Great enjoy getting to know him and just take it slow.
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reader, WishingStars +, writes (31 October 2017):
WishingStars is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso i went out into town the other night and he came out too! ended up with his number and we are chatting now????????xx
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 September 2017):
If you see him out at the weekend, before getting drunk have a chat with him and ask him for his number? At least then you can see if he is interested or not!
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (5 September 2017):
Glad I could help. You could always exchange cellphone numbers the next time you see him, he's bound to have a phone number.
Take care and Best of luck.
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reader, WishingStars +, writes (4 September 2017):
WishingStars is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou so much! i'm just worried that it won't happen and then we will end up not doing anything about it! he has no social media so i can't even chat with him that way :( x
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reader, Sam Wilson +, writes (4 September 2017):
Greetings WishingStars,Coming from a boy's perspective he maybe just taking his time, taking it slow and not rushing the progression of things. But it seams that you make really want to progress your relationship with this boyReading your question the easiest thing to do is to just ask him out, its a bit blunt but its the only way to know if he really likes you. It doesnt necessarily have to be a date , it could be any activity that you two could share.The other thing that you could do is to talk to him more, not just on night outs but on any activity, get to know him more let him be comfortable around you without alcohol and see where he takes it from there.You'd be surprised on the things privacy could add in any relationship.Other less direct ways to show your interested in him is to sit next to him during activities, acknowledge his presence more by responding to his regular actions or commenting on things he do, throw in a few compliments from time to time...he's sure to notice those signs and make a move if you dont go for it. Just dont overdue and overthink things you'd be fine.From the looks of things it really looks like he likes you, I am hoping for the best and goodluck with your life.
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